People, I need some advice! Christians specif.?

Question

Please BEAR WITH ME.. ITS PRETTY LONG....

I went out with a guy 3 years ago our senior year of high school, and we broke up 6 months later cuz my parents didnt approve. anyways. over the next 2 years, we became best friends and he decided to transfer to my school last year because I was lonely and I was a commuter, so it was hard to make friends.
You see, he already knew about christianity but he wasnt living the life. but after he started dating me he saw how i was different from other girls and started to get interested and want to learn more about Jesus. Anyways, so after he transfered from another school because he wanted to be closer to home and to me, he started to meet new people and join the christian club at school
so now he has so many friends, and i tell him all the time he's popular, and he's so busy, yet he says he doesnt like the word popular, and that even though people know him, he's sitll lonely.
but i've been a loner, and always the shy one, so he doesnt know what being lonely is about..

so lately ive been feeling very depressed and lonely, my bfff is always busy and i miss the old him, now he's forcing me to make friends, when i dont effing want to make friends. and when i went to the christian club, everyone acknowledged him, yet nobody else came up to say hi to me. i felt very hurt and disgusted, especially because I am a worship leader at my church and I would NEVER make the new guest feel left out.
I just hate the college I'm at.. i feel like ive ruined my whole college life and wont ever have fun... then ill get married to someone, where my life will be miserable, with more work..
im having the worst time of my life, while my ex-bf/bff, is so popular and im just a loner. he thinks that all his friends, eventually going to be MY FRIENDS. he thinks that the christian club at my college are MY friends yet i dont want to accept them.

HECK NO. any kind of people who dont talk to me are NOT MY FRIENDS. IM SO EFFING MAD AT MY LIFE. WHY THE EFF AM I HERE SOMETIMES I WONDER. I'd rather live in a poor country helping out poor kids, than being in america with some snobby ash christians at castle college.

Answer 1

I read the whole thing - twice, and then perused it a couple of times. Where's the question?



With that in mind - I remember being in similar circumstances in college - at least the I HATE COLLEGE AND HAVE TWO MORE FREAKING YEARS TO GO part. With that, suggestions -



- you can transfer, but then you'll end up in college for another 3 years. (Isn't two more years too long?)



- you can quit, but, despite not buying this from all the adults in my life at that time, I have since learned that degree - no matter what degree it is - opens a lot more doors than no degree will ever open. That silly piece of paper really did increase my choices and pay over the years.



- And the thing I remember the most? College isn't all of life. It's four years of life. Remember when you were 6 and never thought you'd ever get to become a teenager? You became one anyway. And remember when you were a teenager and never thought you'd ever learn to drive/vote/have any adult listen to you EVER? It happened a lot quicker than you thought possible. The older you get the shorter time seems. Yes, I distinctly remember hating so much of college (and I enjoyed some of it too), but I hated it so much, that it's 33 years later and I am still glad I never have to go for another class again.



The good news? This too will pass. It might pass like a gallstone, but in the grand scheme of life, you'll look back at this and thinking - boy, am I glad that's over. BUT, that's all you'll think about it before you get on with whatever you're doing and thinking at that time.



Life changes. BFF is a misnomer - chances are good no friends are "friends forever."



You don't get along with those people? So what? No one gets along with everyone they meet. You don't get along with BF? Then why is he your BF? Then again, I've read this twice. You do the same objectively and tell me you'd want to be friends with the person who wrote this. Can you?



Granted, you're probably having a bad day, but if this is the vibe you're giving off, do you blame anyone but yourself? Remember "Do unto others?" It doesn't stink as a rule of thumb.



So, brush yourself off, get back up on your feet (eat chocolate, if you can and need to), and then decide how you will present yourself to the world tomorrow. If you decide to be miserable, than you will be, and then you know who to blame.

Answer 2

Lotta well solutions, a few junk combined in. In order to real comprehend the scriptures, you have got to recognise the historical past of all of it, and that begins with Genesis. Start there and skim to the opening of Revelation, and you're going to have a well concept of what went down and why matters have been performed the way in which they have been. Don't attempt to memorize the entire factor, however gain knowledge of the parties that resulted in or precipitated different parties. Like crossing the Red Sea. Someone has now stated he discovered that Moses did not move the Red Sea, however the Dead sea, and at a time while the water was once only some inches deep. He contends that there was once no miracle worried. Maybe so, however how a lot more of a miracle do you wish. God drowned Pharaoh's whole military in ankle deep water. So who is aware of what errors historical past made, both was once a miracle. About the sixth or seventh time by way of, you can start to comprehend a few of what's being instructed to the factor that you'll begin educating others approximately it. Maybe quicker when you consider that you look to be rather good expert. God Bless You. When you feel you may have all of it down well, then research Revelation. It'll scare the pants off ya. I do not advocate it to learners within the phrase.

Answer 3

Quit worrying about your social life. Through yourself into your studies, maybe transfer to another school.

Answer 4

You're right it pretty long, I fell asleep reading it. What was that again?

Answer 5

You're right, that is long.



You don't want my opinion anyways.

Answer 6

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