Question:
Materialism and Low Self-Esteem?
D.Chen
2007-11-19 09:03:11 UTC
Well i apparently violated some ruling when i first posted this question. So let's make this as explicit as possible.

[Researchers have found that low self-esteem and materialism are not just a correlation, but also a causal relationship where low self esteem increases materialism, and materialism can also create low self-esteem. The also found that as self esteem increases, materialism decreases. The study primarily focused on how this relationship affects children and adolescents. Lan Nguyen Chaplin (University of Illinois Urbana-Champaign) and Deborah Roedder John (University of Minnesota) found that even a simple gesture to raise self-esteem dramatically decreased materialism, which provides a way to cope with insecurity.]

The article can be found here - http://www.dailygalaxy.com/my_weblog/2007/11/the-consumer-pa.html

And my question is - what are your thoughts on the matter? I ask is it in this forum as Spirituality, however so defined, is usually seen as the antithesi
Five answers:
mohammad a
2007-11-20 14:12:42 UTC
Dear All



Self Esteem is Self Respect and in the Extreme Conditions it could be even EGO.



I can just answer this question of yours in two lines of a Poetry written by the famous Scholar poet Dr. Iqbal who wrote as follows in Urdu Language.



Mita the Apni Hasty ko agar too Martaba Chahe

Ke Dana Khaak me'n Milkur Gulo Gulzaar Hota Hai



It means;



If you are keen on getting a high personal status ruin your your self esteem.



as, the seed when gets itself buried in the soil, becomes a flower and a garden.



Sufism in Islam teaches same way. There is an episode of a Sufi Saint. He was travelling with his companions. On the way the had to cross a narrow bridge, where only one person could walk. When he just entered, he saw a dirty soiled Dog coming in the opposite direction. The Saint just paused and retreated to give way to the Dog First.



The companions of the Saint asked him, why did he do that?



He replied; When I looked at the Dog, it said to me; O man, do not think too high of yourself, we the animals never act against the Will of God, while you men committ Sins and violate God's command. Hearing this I admitted that I am low before him and I let him pass before me.



Again it depends on the Spiritual Status of the person concerned regarding his dealing of the Worldly Riches.



There were Caliphs, Spiritual Saints and even Kings who used to feed thousands with various kinds of food items and give charity to the needy, while they were fasting always and their food was simple bread and water and their clothing was simple.



The Godly Rule is; the riches will not harm a person when those riches cannot take a place in his heart other than the love of God. So such a person is admirable. He will be pious, Humble and Charitable. All of his charity and good deeds shall be to please Almighty and not to get the name and fame.



The other persons who love worldly wealth and positions, shall be with lack of mental peace and harmoney and it will neither help them in this life nor herafter.
2016-09-05 13:05:20 UTC
In our society, not anything is loose and we have now constructed a style for the relief or time-saving elements that fabric gadgets carry into our lives. Just snapshot going again 2 hundred years and having to quit your fancy kitchen and tub or having to stroll all over you presently force. Some persons do take it a bit farther. In a simplified state, those who you consult with partner the matters cash buys with happiness. Money buys the matters required to reside a secure existence, nonetheless, a few persons truthfully have an emotional attachment (cash buys happiness). It offers a way of achievement that may be obvious, touched, smelled... truly. This style of person with low self worth friends bodily profits with health and very similar to an addict, will keep with increasingly "fixes". I noticed a bumper sticky label I believe sums up that participants perspective: The one with essentially the most toys wins My perspective is that money is best well whether it is being spent, or else it's only portions of paper or a quantity on a ledger. I have under no circumstances heard of tat's being related to lack of confidence, nonetheless, I am noticing a fashion with the teenagers over the beyond decade. It's artwork. Just when you consider that it's located at the frame does now not make it roughly than that.
2007-11-19 09:07:49 UTC
The kind of "materialism" discussed in that article is the kind that is not only compatible with spirituality, but largely the same as spirituality. It's about possessions, and has nothing whatsoever to do with "materialism" in the sense of believing that the universe is entirely material.



In addition, that article claims that a causal relationship was found, but doesn't give any evidence whatsoever for it. In light of the circular causal relationship proposed, I'm pretty skeptical about that claim.
Herodotus
2007-11-20 08:50:59 UTC
I’ve been seeing a disturbing rise in my son’s materialism. He focuses a lot on what he owns and will own. This article opens my eyes to a possible cause, and means to help him. Thank you.
moosemose
2007-11-19 09:14:59 UTC
All they had to do was ask as U did! Enjoy! John



DOCTRINE OF SPIRITUAL SELF-ESTEEM



A. Introduction.

1. There are three categories of spiritual adulthood.

a. Spiritual self-esteem, which is cognitive self-confidence, the

beginning of effective function of the ten problem solving devices of the

protocol plan of God for the Church.

b. There is spiritual autonomy, which is cognitive independence

and the continuation of effective function of the ten problem solving

devices of the protocol plan of God.

c. There is spiritual maturity, which is cognitive invincibility

and maximum effective function of the problem solving devices for the

protocol plan of God.

(1) The problem solving devices are designed by God, so that

you are dependent only on the Word of God metabolized and circulating in the

seven categories of your own stream of consciousness.

(2) Your spiritual life was never designed to depend upon

counseling, advice from others, or in any way use someone else as a crutch.

As a member of the royal family of God, your perception, metabolization and

application of Bible doctrine determines your ability to deal with every

stress, every problem, every adversity, every area of prosperity in life,

and to handle these things without leaning on any one except the Bible

doctrine which has been inculcated into your own soul.

2. At the point of attaining spiritual self-esteem through metabolized

circulating in your stream of consciousness, certain things come into very

strong focus.

a. You have plus H or sharing the happiness of God. This begins

with contentment, which becomes spiritual capacity for life, love, and

happiness in every circumstance of life. This includes your stress,

disaster, calamity, and pain which all of us have sooner or later in life.

b. Because of maximum understanding of these ten problem solving

devices, you have professionalism. Professionalism is only one part of the

modus operandi of the Christian way of life.

(1) The base for the Christian way of life is humility.

(2) Professional is understanding the mechanics of the

Christian way of life: mechanics related to your very own portfolio of

invisible assets, mechanics related to the ten problem solving devices,

mechanics related to every thing that God has given for the dispensation of

the Church. Professional demands integrity.

(3) Integrity is the spiritual strength to execute the

mechanics you have learned. There must a perfect coordination and

synchronization between these three factors. This synchronization of

professionalism and integrity for effective function of the ten problem

solving devices makes you a winner and begins the road of spiritual self-

esteem.

c. The resultant mental stability from the circulation of

metabolized doctrine in the stream of consciousness of your soul's right

lobe is characterized by courage, poise, composure marked by self-assurance.

This poise means humility, which is the foundation for coordinating

professionalism and integrity.

d. Maximum understanding of the problem solving devices or

professional and maximum spiritual strength to execute these mechanics is

the status of spiritual self-esteem.

(1) Spiritual self-esteem makes the most fantastic

applications, and your life becomes full of meaning, purpose, and

definition.

(2) This means the effective function of three of the

problem solving devices: personal love for God the Father, impersonal love

for all mankind, and occupation with Christ.

e. Wonderful experiences result from synchronizing

professionalism and integrity. Wonderful Christian experience under pain,

stress, disaster, and calamity includes the following.

(1) Occupation with Christ replaces that form of self-

consciousness which is preoccupied with or eyes on self. Therefore, you

meet stress, not in preoccupation with self, not in complaining and whining,

but through the principle of occupation with Christ.

(2) Impersonal love for all mankind replaces preoccupation

with people, that is, having your eyes on people.

(3) Plus H or sharing the happiness of God includes the

tranquility and contentment which replaces eyes on things, which is a part

of the lust pattern of the sin nature.

f. Doctrinal orientation in spiritual self-esteem includes the

following characteristics.

(1) The maintenance of humility, without which there is no

authority orientation or teachability in life.

(2) Avoidance of inordinate ambition and inordinate

competition, which is always self-demeaning.

(3) The development of spiritual common sense and good

judgment related to the divine viewpoint of life.

(4) Correct and accurate application of Bible doctrine

through the two advanced problem solving devices of personal love for God

the Father and impersonal love for all mankind. Correct application of

doctrine in spiritual self-esteem destroys any distortion or attempt at

self-justification.

(5) Maximum understanding and utilization of the ten problem

solving devices as a habit of life, as a way of life, as a victorious life

in Christian experience.

(6) Divine viewpoint replaces human viewpoint so that the

believer has the mindset in this dispensation which the humanity of Christ

had in the dispensation of the Hypostatic Union. Phil 2:5, "Keep on having

this mental attitude in yourselves which was also in Christ Jesus."

(7) Good decisions from a position of strength replace bad

decisions from a position of weakness.

g. In spiritual self-esteem, the believer keeps his priorities in

conformity to Bible doctrine. The function of the stream of consciousness

under the filling of the Spirit becomes an important issue and avoids the

arrogance of the production skills preceding the spiritual skills in the

function of Christian experience.

(1) The three spiritual skills are the filling of the

Spirit, cognition and inculcation of Bible doctrine, and execution of the

protocol plan of God for the Church.

(2) These spiritual skills are developed after salvation

through our perception, metabolization, and application of Bible doctrine.

(3) Production skills are in place at the moment we believe

in Christ. For example, our spiritual gift, royal priesthood, royal

ambassadorship, our job or profession are all the basis for the function of

Christian service and our in place at the moment of salvation. Spiritual

skills must precede production skills for the perform of divine good.

Production skills minus spiritual skills results in the performance of dead

works and the production of human good as well as evil.

(4) In spiritual self-esteem, all of this is corrected.

Spiritual self-esteem keeps Christian service in its own perspective. The

believer's production of dead works is eliminated. Spiritual self-esteem

has the spiritual strength to avoid the "beyond doctrine" movement with its

dead works, human good, and evil.

3. The advance to spiritual self-esteem can only occur through two

functions.

a. Bible doctrine must be number priority in your life.

b. There must be consistent postsalvation epistemological

rehabilitation (perception, metabolization, and application of doctrine).

4. There are four objectives of the spiritual life; two are tactical

and two are strategic. The tactical objectives form the base of operations

for the strategic objectives.

a. A personal sense of destiny (analogous to spiritual self-

esteem) is the first tactical objective. It is the base of operation for

the first strategic objective--parlaying a personal sense of destiny into

occupation with the person of Christ. A personal sense of destiny is

parlayed into occupation with Christ.

b. The second tactical objective is spiritual maturity.

Spiritual maturity is the base of operation for the second strategic

objective--maximum glorification of God. Spiritual maturity is parlayed

into maximum glorification of God.

5. The Profile of Spiritual Self-esteem.

a. Spiritual self-esteem is synonymous with a personal sense of

destiny.

b. The doctrinal status of cognitive self-confidence means that

doctrinal conceptualism is fully realized, but not fully developed. You

have attained the first objective, but that objective is not stabilized.

You have a tremendous amount of doctrine circulating in the stream of

consciousness, but you also have tremendous vulnerability to the sins of

arrogance and the emotional complex of sins. The rapidly advancing believer

is vulnerable to failure.

c. Spiritual self-esteem frees the adult believer from legalistic

bullying and being distracted by dependence on other people.

d. Spiritual self-esteem begins using advanced problem solving

devices through personal love for God the Father and impersonal love for all

mankind. These two problem solving devices are a stabilizer and motivator

for continued spiritual advance.

e. Spiritual self-esteem eliminates emotion as a criterion for

the spiritual life. Spiritual self-esteem is the beginning of freedom from

irrationality. The spiritual life is a system of thinking under the filling

of the Holy Spirit, metabolized doctrine circulating in the stream of

consciousness, and problem solving devices deployed on the FLOT line of the

soul.

f. When spiritual self-esteem deploys the two advanced problem

solving devices [personal love for God the Father and impersonal love for

all mankind] on the FLOT line of the soul, it establishes two things which

stabilize spiritual self-esteem: a strongly organized system of humility and

spiritual poise. Personal love for God the Father begins to replace the

former focus of eyes on self, which is tantamount to the third spiritual--

self-absorption. Failure to deploy this problem solving device leads to

great vulnerability in the field of the arrogance skills.

g. Spiritual self-esteem recognizes that emotions are never the

basis for the spiritual life. Spiritual self-esteem begins the process of

the sophisticated spiritual life with the subordinating of the emotion to

the intellect. The intellect of spiritual self-esteem is defined as maximum

metabolized doctrine circulating in the seven compartments of the stream of

consciousness.

h. Spiritual self-esteem does not feel threatened by malice or

revenge or vilification or vituperation or violence.

i. Spiritual self-esteem continues to make Bible doctrine the

number one priority in the life and fulfills the command of Phil 3:16, "Keep

on advancing in ranks by the same system."

j. Spiritual self-esteem is not discouraged by setbacks in life.

Therefore, it is free from self-pity, which is the thumb-sucking function of

self-absorption.

k. The momentum of spiritual self-esteem eliminates the three

high risk factors on entering the adult spiritual life: the arrogance

complex of sins and arrogance skills, emotion as a criterion for the

spiritual life, and incompetent problem solving.

l. Spiritual self-esteem begins with the effective harmonizing of

the problem solving devices. It upgrades and enhances the basic problem

solving devices, where they coordinate with personal love for God the Father

and impersonal love for all mankind.



B. Definition and Description.

1. Self-esteem might be defined as respect for self, satisfaction with

one's self, or a good opinion of one's self. But those are superficial

definitions. Self-esteem is confidence in what you know, and how to put it

into operation. What has only been a characteristic of a few great leaders

in history is now available to each of us as believers.

2. Spiritual self-esteem is maximum humility and minimum arrogance.

It is confidence in God, confidence in the Word of God metabolized in your

soul and circulating in your stream of consciousness. It is not confidence

in the energy of the flesh. Ps 118:8-9, "It is better to take refuge in the

Lord than to have confidence in mankind. It is better to take refuge in the

Lord than to have confidence in princes."

3. Spiritual self-esteem is related to the problem solving devices of

the protocol plan of God.

a. Spiritual self-esteem is confidence in the rebound technique

rather than in the heinousness of one's sins. One's personal sins are never

as important as what our Lord Jesus Christ did on the Cross about our sins.

We will fail and shock ourselves from time to time. Spiritual self-esteem

is not depending on emotions or trying to get into some form of penance.

b. Spiritual self-esteem is knowledge that after rebound the

believer has recovered fellowship with God and is filled with the Holy

Spirit no matter how he feels. How you feel is never the issue; the issue

is what the Bible says.

c. Spiritual self-esteem emphasizes the reality of the faith-rest

drill over the reality of one's problems, adversities, disasters and stress

situations.

d. Spiritual self-esteem is grace orientation rather than

environmental orientation. Too often, we think that our happiness depends

on our environment. Environment is not an issue in life.

e. Spiritual self-esteem is doctrinal orientation rather than

empirical orientation. Bible doctrine must be more real to us than what we

see, touch, hear, taste, and smell.

f. Spiritual self-esteem has a personal sense of destiny from

metabolized doctrine circulating in the stream of consciousness under the

filling of the Holy Spirit.

g. Spiritual self-esteem is sharing the happiness of God,

therefore, maximum tranquility and contentment in every circumstance of life

whether it is good or bad.

h. Spiritual self-esteem is the function of virtue-love in all

three categories: personal love for God the Father, impersonal love for all

mankind, and occupation with Christ.

i. Spiritual self-esteem is the first stage of spiritual

adulthood, the status of giving number one priority to Bible doctrine,

resulting in dependence on God's grace rather than depending on human power

and dynamics. It is the first step in becoming an invisible hero.

4. Since spiritual self-esteem is grace orientation, it is the

quintessence of humility rather than any form of arrogance. For this

reason, spiritual self-esteem always emphasizes the spiritual skills as

taking precedence over the production skills. Spiritual self-esteem never

tries to reverse the procedure. It is the status of well developed

spiritual skills: consistency in being filled with the Spirit, consistency

in cognition and inculcation of Bible doctrine, consistency resulting in the

execution of the protocol plan.

5. The Biblical Definition of Spiritual Self-esteem.

a. The Old Testament definition is found in Prov 19:8, "He who

gets wisdom, keeps loving his own soul; He who guards understanding shall

find the absolute good [spiritual prosperity]."

(1) The person who keeps learning doctrine gains spiritual

self-esteem, that is, he keeps loving the doctrine circulating in his own

soul. This is not arrogance. Wisdom is the end result of perception and

metabolization of doctrine. Wisdom is the application of that doctrine to

experience. The application goes toward God, toward self, and toward

others. Spiritual self-esteem replaces the former focus of eyes on people.

The contentment of spiritual self-esteem replaces the former focus of eyes

on things.

(2) Metabolized doctrine in the stream of consciousness is

guarded by the rate of learning exceeding the rate of forgetting doctrine.

Scar tissue of the soul replaces metabolized doctrine when the rate of

forgetting doctrine exceeds the rate of learning doctrine. This means that

the believer must be consistent and persistent in rebound when necessary and

doctrinal inculcation. Metabolized doctrine circulating in your soul

provides a defense against the various categories of suffering related to

providential preventative suffering.

(3) Spiritual self-esteem functions inside the integrity

envelope with the virtue of impersonal love directed objectively toward self

through the mirror of the soul. The result is self-confidence based on

metabolized Bible doctrine in the stream of consciousness and self-

realization in that same stream of consciousness. This is the defense by

which you are able to face and overcome providential preventative suffering.

Self-identity, based on the mirror of doctrine in the soul, is formed from

metabolized doctrine in the stream of consciousness.

(4) In this way, the three mechanics of the Christian life

become effective. The three mechanics are the foundation of humility,

professionalism (which is learning the mechanics of the problem solving

devices and other mechanics of the protocol plan of God for the Church), and

integrity (which is spiritual strength to execute those mechanics). Being

alive as a Christian does not imply that you understand the protocol plan of

God or even how to live the Christian way of life; this comes with spiritual

self-esteem.

b. The New Testament definition is found in the last half of Eph

5:28, "He who loves his own wife, loves himself."

c. Additional New Testament documentation includes:

(1) Eph 5:33, "However, you also, each one of you

individually, let him love his wife as himself." The phrase "as himself" is

spiritual self-esteem.

(2) Mk 12:29-31, "Jesus answered, `The most important one is

this, "Hear, Oh Israel, the Lord our God is one God; and you shall love the

Lord your God with all your right lobe, and with all of your soul, and with

all of your understanding, and with all of your strength." The second is

this, "You shall love your neighbor as yourself." There is no other

commandment greater than these.'" Loving your neighbor as yourself is

spiritual self-esteem resulting in impersonal love for all mankind.

(3) 2 Cor 13:5, "Test yourselves to see if you are in the

doctrine. Examine yourselves [spiritual self-esteem]!" You cannot test or

examine yourself to see if your are "in the doctrine" until you have

spiritual self-esteem.

(4) Jude 20, "But you, beloved, building yourselves up

[spiritual self-esteem] in the most holy doctrine, praying in the Holy

Spirit."

(5) 1 Thes 5:8, "But since we are of the day let us attain

spiritual self-esteem after we have put on the breastplate of doctrine and

virtue-love and the helmet of confidence of salvation." This is the present

action subjunctive of the verb NEPHO, which means to be free from

drunkenness, to be self-controlled, to be well balanced, to be in the status

of spiritual self-esteem, to attain spiritual self-esteem.

(6) 1 Pet 5:5-9, "You younger men [congregation], likewise,

be subordinate to the authority of your pastor-elder; and clothe yourselves

with humility toward each other, because, `God makes war against the

arrogant, but gives grace to the humble.' Therefore, humble yourselves

under the mighty hand of God, that He may promote you at the proper time,

casting all your anxieties on Him, because He cares for you. Attain

spiritual self-esteem, be on the alert. Your adversary, the devil, prowls

about like a roaring lion, looking for someone to devour. But stand your

ground [resist] him, strong in doctrine, because you know that your fellow

believers throughout the world are experiencing the same categories of

suffering."

(a) The younger men are the congregation in contrast to

the pastor (elder) mentioned in verses 1-4.

(b) You subordinate yourself to the authority of the

pastor by listening to the doctrine taught by your pastor and, after

accepting or rejecting that doctrine, living by the metabolized doctrine in

your soul.

(c) By clothing yourself with humility toward others,

you give them a chance to learn doctrine without any spiritual bullying from

you. Spiritual self-esteem demands harmony among believers. You cannot

continue your spiritual advance without humility.

i. Spiritual self-esteem is not self-centeredness

nor self-absorption, but taking responsibility for one's own decisions

without blaming others for the consequences.

ii. Spiritual self-esteem does not fantasize

greatness or success, but centers on the reality of Bible doctrine and gives

number one priority to the perception, metabolization and application of

doctrine. Since spiritual self-esteem is highly vulnerable to failure, it

can be the best or the worst time in your life.

iii. As a system of thinking, humility is freedom

from both subjective and objective arrogance. Prov 15:33, "Respect for the

Lord is the instruction for wisdom, and before honor comes humility." Prov

11:12, "When arrogance comes, then comes dishonor; but with the humble is

wisdom." Prov 29:23, "A person's arrogance will bring him low, but a spirit

of humility will attain honor." Ps 25:9, "In justice God guides the humble;

consequentially He teaches the humble His way."

iv. Humility orients everything in life to God's

grace. Arrogance orients everything in life to self-absorption. All

promotion in the spiritual life of the Church Age is accomplished in the

sphere of humility. Jam 4:10, "Humble yourselves before the Lord and He

will promote you." 1 Pet 5:6, "Humble yourselves under the powerful hand of

God that He may promote you at the proper time."

v. Jam 4:5-6, "Do you presume that the Scripture

speaks in vain against jealousy? The Spirit that dwells in us pursues us

with virtue-love. He gives greater grace. Therefore it says, `God makes

war against the arrogant believer, but He gives grace to the humble

believer.'"

vi. The precedence is found in Phil 2:5-8, "Keep on

having this mental attitude in yourselves which was also in Christ Jesus.

Who though He existed in the essence of God, He did not think equality with

God a gain to be seized and held. Therefore He deprived Himself of the

proper function of deity when He received the form of a servant, when He had

been born in the likeness of mankind. And being found in appearance as a

man, He humbled Himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even the

death on a cross."

vii. If God does not promote you, you are not

promoted. God promotes the adult believer in the sphere of humility, the

mental attitude of grace orientation. Cognitive self-confidence in

spiritual self-esteem has one big problem--there is enough doctrine in the

believer's soul to be a spiritual adult, but there are not enough problem

solving devices deployed on the FLOT line of the soul to use that doctrine.

You cannot go any further in the application of doctrine until you get rid

of arrogance and get rid of emotion as having any function in the spiritual

life. Cognitive self-confidence is parlayed into combining emotion and

arrogance to distort rebound.

viii. When the sins of emotion and arrogance are

combined to form an irrational dilemma of trying to solve a problem with a

problem, rebound by works emerges to create a perpetual carnality resulting

in a rapid spiritual decline.

(d) The anxieties which you cast on the Lord are a part

of providential preventative suffering. If you do not cast all your

anxieties on God, you will retrogress in the spiritual life and enter into

the five categories of emotional sinning.

(e) The aorist active imperative of the verb NEPHO

again means to attain spiritual self-esteem. You have to be alert in

spiritual self-esteem because this is the greatest area of vulnerability in

the spiritual life.

(7) The focus of spiritual self-esteem is mentioned in Phil

4:11-13, "Not that I speak from want. For I have learned to be self-

sufficient [content] in whatever circumstances I am. In fact, I have come

to know how to be in need [suffering for blessing], also I have come to know

how to live in prosperity. In every circumstance, I have learned the secret

of being filled [prosperous] and of being hungry [failure]. I have the

endowed power [computer assets] to attain all things [escrow blessings]

through Him who makes me strong [giving suffering for blessing]."

(a) Spiritual self-esteem never begs, but functions

under the true motivation of personal love for God.

(b) The Greek noun AUTARKES means to be self-

sufficient, contentment in terms of being self-sufficient. Self-sufficient

meaning spiritual self-esteem here.

(8) The mental attitude of spiritual self-esteem is

mentioned in 1 Tim 6:7-8, "For we have brought nothing into this world with

the result that we cannot take anything out of it either. Therefore, if we

have food and clothing, with these, we shall be content." The other side of

spiritual self-esteem is contentment.

(9) Heb 13:5, "Let your lifestyle be free from the love for

money and be content with what you have; for He Himself has said, `I will

never desert you, nor will I ever forsake you."

(10) Eph 6:23, "Harmony among believers and virtue-love with

doctrine from God the Father and from our Lord Jesus Christ."

(a) Harmony is the relaxed mental attitude related to

the thinking function of the spiritual life. Harmony among believers

demands humility, grace orientation, and virtue-love.

(b) Believers with spiritual self-esteem do not feel

threatened by enmity, antagonism, vilification, ostracism, rejection, or any

form of hostility. Therefore, believers with spiritual self-esteem are in a

position to fulfill this mandate to have harmony among the believers.

(c) Virtue-love is associated with metabolized doctrine

circulating in the soul's right lobe, and this same virtue-love association

with doctrine is the basis for attainment of spiritual self-esteem.

6. Spiritual self-esteem is that virtue of the protocol plan of God

whereby the believer's confidence is based on Bible doctrine which he has

learned through perception, metabolization and application. The believer's

respect for self is linked to grace-orientation. The secret to spiritual

self-esteem is respect for God.

a. Spiritual self-esteem is never a system of self-improvement

based on advice, counseling, or dependence on others.

b. The only dependence for the attainment of spiritual self-

esteem is dependence on faithful Bible teaching from your right pastor-

teacher. Malfunction of postsalvation epistemological rehabilitation means

failure to attain spiritual self-esteem.

c. Under spiritual self-esteem, you are free from anthropocentric

thinking, legalistic bullying, people dependence distractions, flattery,

counseling, and dependence.

d. Spiritual self-esteem is the declaration of independence of

your royal priesthood.

e. Spiritual self-esteem solves the problems of inadequacy, peer

pressure, role model arrogance, all the subtleties of arrogance, and fear.

7. Spiritual self-esteem is the foundation for stability in the

Christian way of life.

a. Spiritual self-esteem eliminates emotion as a criterion for

life; for emotion cannot think, reason, apply doctrine, or estimate a

situation from the doctrinal viewpoint. Under the protocol plan of God,

emotions are never adequate guides for your motives, thoughts, decisions, or

actions. Emotions are not tools of cognition nor criteria for the Christian

life. No believer can attain spiritual self-esteem until he distinguishes

between doctrinal epistemology and emotional experience.

b. Spiritual self-esteem subordinates emotion to the intellect so

that objectivity and doctrinal perspective rule the believer's soul; for

thinking is a cause and emotion is an effect in spiritual self-esteem.

c. Spiritual self-esteem never feels threatened by slander,

maligning, judging, gossip, the public lie, just or unjust criticism.

d. Spiritual self-esteem avoids denial and dissociation--stuffing

your problems and failures into your subconscious where they remain as

garbage.

e. Spiritual self-esteem addresses one's problems and failures

and avoids the arrogance of always being right.

f. Spiritual self-esteem uses problem solving devices to make

corrections and to keep moving with the function of virtue-love.

g. Spiritual self-esteem is the status of solving the unsolvable

problems and dealing effectively with the pressures and adversities of your

own life.

h. Spiritual self-esteem functions inside the integrity envelop.

There are five things in the integrity envelop.

(1) Self-confidence based on metabolized doctrine.

(2) Self-realization based on metabolized doctrine.

(3) Self-direction based on metabolized doctrine.

(4) Self-identity based on metabolized doctrine.

(5) Self-motivation based on metabolized doctrine.

i. Spiritual self-esteem is the place of humility, the status of

poise in dealing with life's focuses:

(1) Eyes on self is replaced with occupation with Christ.

(2) Eyes on people is replaced with impersonal love and

grace orientation.

(3) Eyes on things is replaced with tranquility and

contentment.

8. Spiritual self-esteem is the believer's dependence on God's grace

provision for the stabilization of self and integrating self into the

protocol plan of God. Spiritual self-esteem is the base of operations for

effective application of Bible doctrine to your experience.

9. Spiritual self-esteem, the first stage of spiritual adulthood, is

characterized by cognitive self-confidence which means no dependence on self

but dependence on the phenomenal grace provision God has made for every

believer. Spiritual autonomy, the second stage of spiritual adulthood, is

characterized by cognitive independence. Spiritual maturity, the third

stage, is characterized by cognitive invincibility.

10. Spiritual self-esteem is the subjective virtue of the Christian way

of life. Spiritual self-esteem is mandated for the husband in marriage.

11. Lack of spiritual self-esteem contradicts the protocol plan of God

for the Church Age. Spiritual self-esteem is the solution to the problems

related to self, the I to me relationship, the ego to self relationship.

12. Spiritual self-esteem originates from momentum of metabolized

doctrine inside the divine dynasphere. The believer must persist in the

protocol plan of God to reach the motivational virtue of personal love for

God. Spiritual self-esteem is the first stage of spiritual adulthood.

13. Spiritual self-esteem plus providential preventative suffering

results in spiritual autonomy where we have impersonal love toward all.

14. Etymology. There are three words for confidence in the New

Testament.

a. The Greek word ELPIS means confidence with regard to the

future, never the present. This means absolute confidence that you will

have eternal life if you believe in Christ; that you will have escrow

blessings for time when you reach spiritual maturity; that you will receive

escrow blessings for eternity when you stand before the Judgment Seat of

Christ.

b. The Greek word PARRESIA means courage and confidence.

c. The Greek word PEPOITHESIS means self-confidence or spiritual

self-esteem.

(1) 2 Cor 1:13,15, "In this confidence [spiritual self-

esteem] I intend to come, so that you might benefit twice."

(2) 2 Cor 3:4, "And such confidence [spiritual self-esteem]

we have through Christ toward God."

(3) 2 Cor 10:2, "I ask that when I am present I may not be

bold with the spiritual self-esteem with which I propose to be courageous

against some."

(4) Eph 3:12, "In whom we have boldness and access in

confidence [spiritual self-esteem]."

15. There are two categories of self-esteem in life.

a. Human self-esteem, which is generally derived from the laws of

divine establishment or from instinctive personal integrity. Instinctive

personal integrity often comes from some system of honor that is taught in

the home. Human self-esteem is for both believers and unbelievers, but is

never a substitute for spiritual self-esteem.

b. Spiritual self-esteem, which is attained by spiritual momentum

through the filling of the Spirit and doctrinal inculcation.

(1) Human self-esteem has no spiritual connotation or

relationship to the protocol plan of God for the Church.

(2) Spiritual self-esteem is not only the first stage of

spiritual adulthood, but the status where the function of all of the problem

solving devices finally become effective.

(3) Spiritual self-esteem does not require as a prerequisite

any form of psychological buffering or any form of human self-esteem.

(4) The assets of any unbeliever, including human self-

esteem, have absolutely no bearing on the fulfillment of God's plan,

purpose, or will for your life. Human self-esteem is not a prerequisite for

spiritual self-esteem. In fact, human self-esteem can even be a distraction

to the spiritual life. Believers change overnight at the moment of

spiritual self-esteem, not at salvation.

16. Spiritual self-esteem solves the problems related to dependency:

chemical dependence, peer pressure dependence, resentment of success in

others resulting in the dependency of inordinate ambition and competition,

dependency on others for guidance and counselling.

17. Significant changes in life occur at the point of spiritual self-

esteem.

a. The development of the spiritual skills, which must precede

the function of production skills for the performance of divine good in

Christian service.

b. The effective use of the problem solving devices as well as

the doctrinal rationales.

c. The accurate function of the conscience in the sphere of

thinking, motivation, decision, and action.

18. The believer in spiritual self-esteem has learned from his own

right pastor to use his own doctrine in his own stream of consciousness to

solve his own problems. This is accomplished totally apart from counseling,

controlling, bullying, manipulation, creating role models, or anything else.

a. Spiritual self-esteem does not live under the slavery of

dependency on others, except for the spiritual gift of pastor-teacher.

b. Spiritual self-esteem does not feel threatened by the

strongest views of the Christian life, or the pressures of legalism, or the

things people do to associate the Christian life with Christian service or

some experience, or the snide remarks and criticism for sitting under Bible

teaching while others are working.

c. Spiritual self-esteem establishes a discipline of consistent

exposure to and cognition of Bible teaching. God promotes you when you are

sitting still learning doctrine.

d. Spiritual self-esteem implies that no believer can think

metabolized doctrine or apply doctrine or solve problems through the mind or

personality of another person.

e. Spiritual self-esteem is the point of doctrinal conceptualism,

which means that thoughts, motives, decisions and actions, which were

formerly undefinable, have now become lucid, perspicuous, capable of being

applied, relevant to God's will, plan and purpose for our lives.

f. Spiritual self-esteem is the status of production of divine

good in contrast to dead works and human good. Spiritual self-esteem has an

infinitely greater quality of fruit bearing and production of Christian

service than the legalistic hustlers.

g. Spiritual self-esteem is never a system of self-improvement

based on counseling, advice, or psychological manipulation, but based

entirely on the spiritual mechanics located in the word of God.

19. Spiritual self-esteem is associated with two general categories of

failure.

a. Failure to attain spiritual self-esteem means failure to

execute the protocol plan of God for the Church.

b. Failure at the point of spiritual self-esteem results in rapid

decline from adult believer to loser believer.

c. Therefore, spiritual self-esteem is the declaration of

independence of the believer's royal priesthood. Under spiritual self-

esteem plus cognitive self-confidence plus the first two adult problem

solving devices the believer becomes free from anthropocentric thinking,

wrong motivation, counseling, flattery, patronizing, legalistic bullying,

and other distractions to advancing to maximum glorification of God.



C. Characteristics of Spiritual Self-Esteem.

1. Spiritual self-esteem subordinates emotion to intellect, so that

objectivity and doctrinal perspective rule the believer's soul. Spiritual

self-esteem does not feel threatened by gossip, slander, maligning, and all

forms of human antagonism: vituperation, vilification, jealousy, bitterness,

implacability, anger, hatred, malice, revenge, etc.

2. Spiritual self-esteem functions inside the integrity envelope in

five ways.

a. Self-confidence based on Bible doctrine only. This is the

inevitable result of consistent postsalvation epistemological

rehabilitation. Your confidence in doctrine is your self-confidence. This

is not confidence in your ability or personality.

b. Self-realization based on Bible doctrine only. This results

from the attainment of wisdom, and is tantamount to the application of

doctrine to experience. Self-realization is the process of learning,

thinking, and solving. Self-realization has no meaning until it is related

to God. There is no self-realization apart from God, apart from being born-

again.

c. Self-direction based on Bible doctrine only. This is

spiritual momentum from residence and function inside the divine dynasphere

under the enabling power of the Holy Spirit and momentum from metabolized

doctrine.

d. Self-identification based on Bible doctrine only. This is

grace orientation combined with doctrinal orientation to produce a personal

sense of destiny. There is no self-identity until there is self-confidence,

self-realization, and self-direction. You identify yourself in terms of

grace.

e. Self-motivation based on Bible doctrine only. This combines

personal love for God the Father and occupation with Christ with cognition

and inculcation of the problem solving devices.

3. Spiritual self-esteem makes full use of the problem solving devices

to break up the function of the three arrogance skills (self-justification,

self-deception, and self-justification), crusader arrogance, Christian

activism, the arrogance of always being right.

4. Spiritual self-esteem is the status of solving the unsolvable

problems through the problem solving devices.

5. Spiritual self-esteem is the status of humility and teachability to

learn and understand the spiritual mechanics of the spiritual life, and

therefore, to advance in ranks to the strategic objectives of the spiritual

life--occupation with Christ and maximum glorification of God.



D. Mechanics of Spiritual Self-Esteem.

1. Spiritual self-esteem is the effective function of virtue-love in

two directions.

a. The subjective function is directed toward self.

b. The objective function is directed toward the entire human

race.

2. Spiritual self-esteem is impersonal love directed toward the

virtues or characteristics of spiritual self-esteem. The six

characteristics of spiritual self-esteem are located in the integrity

envelope of impersonal love. Therefore, impersonal love is directed towards

its own characteristics.

3. Any one of the six characteristics of spiritual self-esteem outside

of the integrity envelope of impersonal love produce the following:

a. Self-confidence becomes arrogance.

b. Self-realization becomes illusion.

c. Self-direction becomes failure.

d. Self-identity becomes psychosis.

e. Self-motivation becomes lust.

f. Self-vindication becomes legalism.

4. There is a pseudo self-esteem, which is tantamount to legalism and

moral degeneracy. This self-esteem is outside the integrity envelope of

impersonal love and is directed toward the believer's self-righteousness.

Pseudo self-esteem follows the pattern of Christian degeneracy - implode,

explode, and revert.

5. Genuine spiritual self-esteem is always inside the integrity

envelope of impersonal love, and is always directed toward virtue.

Impersonal love loves its own virtue as well as loving the entire human

race. Impersonal love is an inevitable result of spiritual self-esteem.

6. Subjective virtue-love is the function of impersonal love toward

the characteristics of spiritual self-esteem. Objective virtue-love is the

function of personal love inside the integrity envelope of impersonal love

directed towards the wife. Virtue-love and spiritual self-esteem always go

together.



E. Spiritual self-esteem is a part of marriage.

1. Eph 5:28, "So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own

bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself."

a. The husband is mandated to love his wife with virtue-love.

b. This virtue-love is described by the phrase "as Christ loved

the Church" in Eph 5:25.

c. Virtue-love is personal love inside the integrity envelope of

impersonal love. Virtue-love is not effective without spiritual self-

esteem. Virtue-love is necessary for the function of the husband's

authority in marriage.

d. The husband cannot execute the mandate to love his wife

without spiritual self-esteem. This is why most Christian husbands fail in

marriage.

e. This verse is an analogy to responsibility. You must have a

sense of responsibility regarding those over whom you have authority, just

as Christ takes responsibility over the Church.

f. The second half of this verse is a definition of spiritual

self-esteem. Notice that virtue-love precedes spiritual self-esteem.

2. There is a relationship between spiritual self-esteem and the

function of virtue-love.

a. Spiritual self-esteem is the effective function of virtue-

love in two directions.

(1) The subjective function of spiritual self-esteem is

directed toward virtue in self; the appreciation of one's own virtue.

(2) The objective function of spiritual self-esteem is

directed toward others.

b. Therefore, spiritual self-esteem has both subjective and

objective virtue. There are two categories of subjective virtue: genuine

humility; and spiritual self-esteem.

3. Spiritual self-esteem gives stability to personal love inside the

integrity envelope of impersonal love. Therefore, spiritual self-esteem of

the husband never feels threatened by the failures of his wife. The husband

is commanded to have spiritual self-esteem, and not the wife, because the

husband has the authority.

4. Spiritual self-esteem is the effective function of the husband's

impersonal love toward self and toward his wife. Spiritual self-esteem is

the basis for the husband's effective exercise of his authority in marriage;

for spiritual self-esteem and virtue-love add leadership to the function of

authority.

5. Spiritual self-esteem is the basis for the effective function of

the problem solving devices of the protocol plan of God.

6. The husband cannot love his wife or exercise authority and have a

sense of responsibility without spiritual self-esteem. Personal love on the

part of the husband always turns sour without spiritual self-esteem.



F. Spiritual self-esteem is the effective function of virtue-love.

1. For example, spiritual self-esteem is the effective function of

virtue-love in marriage. "Effective" means producing the intended result.

Spiritual autonomy is the optimum function of virtue-love in marriage.

"Optimum" means the most favorable condition for obtaining a given result.

Spiritual maturity is the maximum function of virtue-love in marriage.

"Maximum" means the greatest value attainable.

2. The husband cannot execute the divine rule to love his wife without

virtue-love in the three stages of spiritual adulthood.

3. Virtue-love only becomes effective on the attainment of spiritual

self-esteem. If the Christian husband lacks spiritual self-esteem, there is

no way he can execute the command to love his wife. And it is inevitable

that the wife will react to this failure.

4. The husband cannot exercise his authority in marriage without

virtue-love in one of the three stages of spiritual adulthood.

5. Without virtue-love in marriage, the husband becomes arrogant, a

bully, and a tyrant in the exercise of his authority.

6. Virtue-love has effective function in spiritual self-esteem,

optimum function in spiritual autonomy, and maximum function in spiritual

maturity.

7. Virtue-love is defined as personal love operational inside the

integrity envelope of impersonal love.

8. Spiritual self-esteem recognizes virtue-love as a part of

logistical grace.



G. The Evidences of Spiritual Self-Esteem.

1. Tranquility of soul. You begin to relax in your soul.

2. Stability of mental attitude, including never feeling threatened by

others and avoiding inordinate ambition and competition.

3. Composure marked by self-assurance, which is the correct and

accurate application of doctrine to life.

4. Grace-orientation to life which includes giving others the benefit

of the doubt.

5. Doctrinal-orientation to reality, which is based upon genuine

humility, objectivity, teachability, spiritual common sense, and the

avoidance of inordinate ambition and competition or inordinate self-esteem.

6. Good decisions from a position of strength, which includes

motivation from personal love for God the Father plus divine viewpoint

thinking.

7. Personal control of your life through doctrinal conceptualism.

8. A personal sense of destiny, which includes solving the problems

related to God, self, others, and things.

9. Self-confidence from wisdom, which means the function of doctrinal

conceptualism or the application of metabolized doctrine to experience.

10. Poise. This is the believer under spiritual self-command. You

cannot communicate, relate to, or command others unless you have command of

self, 1 Cor 14:22. He is a winner who overcomes self.



H. Spiritual self-esteem begins the qualification for momentum through

suffering for blessing.

1. Spiritual self-esteem is when we begin to have momentum in the

spiritual life. That is the point when God provides suffering for blessing,

by which we can advance spiritually. The advance through each stage of

spiritual adulthood including suffering for blessing. A major part of each

spiritual advance is overcoming obstacles under suffering and disaster.

Each stage of spiritual advance has the capacity for greater suffering for

blessing.

2. Spiritual self-esteem plus providential preventative suffering

equals spiritual autonomy. Before one can reach spiritual autonomy, he must

pass providential preventative suffering. There are prototype testing

categories of providential preventative suffering: people, thought, system,

and disaster testing.

3. Spiritual autonomy plus momentum testing equals spiritual maturity.

Again there are the same four tests, but they are intensified.

4. Spiritual maturity plus evidence testing equals glorification of

God to the maximum.



I. Spiritual Self-Esteem Related to God's Plan.

1. God is perfect; therefore, His plan is perfect. It is impossible

for perfect God to create an imperfect plan. However, the perfect plan of

God for us, the protocol plan, is created for imperfect persons.

2. Because God is the author of the protocol plan, contradictions

cannot exist in that plan. The existence of contradictions implies our

failure as believers to execute God's plan.

3. When a believer is a loser, his thoughts, motives, decisions, and

actions contradict the protocol plan of God. This contradiction is marked

by ignorance of Bible doctrine and resultant lack of spiritual self-esteem.

4. Lack of spiritual self-esteem destroys all interpersonal

relationships in life. Above all, this includes marriage.

5. Spiritual self-esteem implies that no believer can think, apply

doctrine, or solve problems through the mind or personality of another

individual.

6. The believer cannot account for his motives, thoughts, decisions

and actions in undefinable terms; therefore, these undefinable terms must

become lucid through the inculcation of doctrine and resultant doctrinal

conceptualism, through thinking based on the absolute truth of the Word of

God.

7. Spiritual self-esteem is the point of doctrinal conceptualism,

which means that thoughts, motives, decisions, and actions which were

formerly undefinable now become lucid, perspicuous, capable of being applied

revellent to God's plan, purpose, and will for our lives.

8. Spiritual self-esteem is not a system of self-improvement based on

the advice and counseling from others. You are not to be dependent on

others for counseling. Spiritual self-esteem does not and must not walk on

crutches.

a. This is why God has provided every believer with his own royal

priesthood, logistical grace from election, and his own palace from

predestination so that each one of us, under the power of doctrine and the

ministry of God the Holy Spirit, can execute the Christian way of life

and/or the protocol plan of God.

b. The privacy of your priesthood is in focus here. For it

permits the right to positive volition, plus the right to metabolize and

apply doctrine with your own intellect in your own divine dynasphere. Under

privacy, we are free to make mistakes, free to succeed.

c. The believer who depends on others for counseling, guidance,

inspiration, sharing, and motivation, becomes weak, because he uses other

people as a substitute for learning doctrine. The believer cannot become

strong without his own epistemological rehabilitation from the function of

doctrinal teaching from his own right pastor-teacher provided in logistical

grace. Failure to learn doctrine is failure to attain spiritual self-

esteem.

d. The only human dependence of the believer is selection and

perseverance under his right pastor. Faithful Bible teaching from your

pastor demands your faithfulness in the perception of doctrine.

e. Under spiritual self-esteem you are free from anthropocentric

thinking, motivation derived from counseling, sharing, flattery,

patronizing, or spiritual bullying. All of these together are called the

people dependence distraction.

f. Spiritual self-esteem is the declaration of independence of

your royal priesthood.

9. Spiritual self-esteem is the base of operations for the most

effective application of Bible doctrine in Christian experience.

10. Spiritual self-esteem is the replacement for those who came into

Christianity with human self-esteem. Human self-esteem must give way

completely to spiritual self-esteem.



J. Spiritual Self-Esteem and Problem Solving.

1. Spiritual self-esteem solves the problems of inadequacy, especially

inadequacy in marriage. (See also the Doctrine of Flaws.)

a. Handicaps of genetics and environment generally lead to

built-in inadequate feelings in life.

b. At one time or another, people are made to feel inadequate;

maybe in competition, or in frustration in love life or social life. Such

feelings of inadequacy can be very detrimental to the function of the

spiritual life and spiritual self-esteem.

c. All genetic handicaps are set aside at the moment of

salvation, and every believer has equal opportunity and equal privilege

under election and predestination. Since God provided your escrow blessings

for you in eternity past, no genetic handicap can keep you from receiving

your escrow blessings. Only your negative volition can do so, which has

nothing to do with your genetics or environment.

d. Only you make an issue out of your handicaps; God does not.

You're never to think of yourself in any other way except as a person, a

member of the royal family of God. Therefore, you have no right to penalize

yourself through feelings of inadequacy, nor do you have the right to make

anyone else feel inadequate.

e. While genetics and environment can provide incentive for good

or evil, failure or success, weakness or strength, they are not the cause of

any of these things. We must learn to distinguish between incentive and

cause. You are a member of the royal family. You have no right to penalize

yourself through feelings of inadequacy, nor do you have the right to make

anyone else feel inadequate.

f. Now that we are in union with Christ there is no such thing as

an inferior or superior race, culture, or mentality. The important thing is

that God has provided for each of us the same portfolio of invisible assets.

g. To the weak, genetics and environment handicaps may be an

excuse or an incentive, but they never cause the failure. Always the cause

is your own volition.

h. Temptation may be an incentive in life, but volition is always

the cause of sin.

i. The portfolio of invisible assets replaces any genetic,

environmental, or even volitional handicaps of the past. This is first

realized when the believer attains spiritual self-esteem and acquires a

personal sense of destiny which overrides all past failures and feelings of

inadequacy. People with feelings of inadequacy inevitably make wrong

applications of right doctrines.

j. By the time the believer attains spiritual self-esteem, all

the hovering shadows of genetic, environmental and volitional handicaps have

been dispelled by the ten characteristics of spiritual self-esteem.

k. Therefore, no believer can advance to maturity while whining

about genetics, environment, or any function of self-pity related to the

function of his bad decisions in the past. The believer with spiritual

self-esteem no longer blames God, other people, or environment for his past

failures. He assumes his own responsibilities in the light of the Word of

God. Therefore, "forgetting those things which are behind," he moves toward

the "mark of the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus."

l. Since past failure is no longer an issue, the believer under

spiritual self-esteem advances to spiritual maturity. Handicaps of genetics

and environment are no longer an issue in your life. So spiritual self-

esteem is the point where you no longer have any feelings of inadequacy, nor

any feelings of human self-confidence. Your confidence is based entirely

upon the Word of God.

2. Spiritual self-esteem solves the problems related to fear. 2 Tim

1:7, "For God has not given us a lifestyle of fear, but of power [divine

dynasphere] and of love [virtue-love], and of sound judgment [spiritual

self-esteem]."

a. People are always afraid. If they have something, they're

afraid they'll lose it. If they don't have something, they're afraid

they'll never get it. This is how people live. No matter what our

circumstances, we live in insecurity. Wealthy people are as afraid as poor

people. You must finally learn that security in life is not related to the

things of this life. Security comes only from the Bible doctrine in your

soul, for the Lord is your security.

b. The more you surrender to fear, the more things you fear. To

the extent you surrender to fear, you increase the power of fear in your

life. The more things that acquire the power to cause you fear, the greater

your retreat from spiritual self-esteem.

c. Fear is both a sin and an emotion. Cowardice and fear is lack

of thinking under pressure. Fear means you cannot think, reason,

rationalize.

d. Fear is lack of spiritual self-esteem. To the extent that you

have fear, you can be sure you have not attained spiritual self-esteem.

e. 1 Jn 4:18a, "Fear does not exist in virtue-love, but

virtue-love expels [drives out] that fear, for fear causes self-induced

misery."

f. Fear as both a sin and an emotion originates from the volition

of the soul; therefore, becomes self-torture, self-punishment, self-misery,

and all too often, self-destruction. If you are frightened, afraid, or

disturbed, it comes from you; not from anyone else. This reminds you that

you must do your own living and dying.

g. 1 Jn 4:18b, "In fact, the person who is afraid has not been

matured by means of virtue-love."

h. Courage is thinking doctrine under pressure as a function of

spiritual self-esteem, while fear is an emotion, a lack of cognition under

pressure. Prov 29:25, "The fear of man provides a snare, but he who trusts

in the Lord will be promoted."

3. Spiritual self-esteem solves the problem of emotion.

a. When spiritual self-esteem puts emotion in its proper place,

this brings tremendous happiness into your life. For emotion only

contributes to happiness when it is subordinate to doctrine in the

mentality.

b. Spiritual self-esteem follows the policy of conceptualism,

thinking in terms of metabolized doctrine, categories, principles and

rationales, and having the ability to make the right application from the

right doctrine.

c. Therefore, spiritual self-esteem eliminates emotion as the

criterion for disaster. Emotion cannot think, rationalize, reason, or

estimate any situation from the doctrinal viewpoint.

d. Under the protocol plan of God, emotions are never adequate

guides for your motives, thoughts, decisions, or actions. Emotions add to

hypersensitivity, which is one of the great manifestations of arrogance.

When people feel inadequate, they are hypersensitive. They take everything

you say the wrong way. They lose their sense of humor and try to emphasize

their physical appearance. They want you to admire them and speak only

flattery to them. If you say anything else, immediately their arrogance

shows through hypersensitivity.

e. Emotions are not tools for cognition, nor are they criteria in

life. We must learn to distinguish between doctrinal epistemology and

emotional experience which results in subordinating emotion to intellect.

f. Thinking is always a cause and emotion is always an effect.

Spiritual self-esteem requires cognitive self-assertiveness, perception and

application of doctrine. Until we reach spiritual self-esteem, most of our

applications are wrong. Even mature believers, like Job and Eliphaz, make

wrong applications.

g. The believer who is a loser is emotional and frightened

because he has no spiritual self-esteem, no epistemological rehabilitation,

no conceptualism, no cognitive self-confidence. He wanders around in his

soul in a maze of fear and feelings of inadequacy.

h. The cosmic believer acts on impulse without thinking; he has

no spiritual self-esteem to back him up; he is constantly subverted by fear,

worry and anxiety.

4. Spiritual self-esteem never feels threatened in life.

a. Many persons feel threatened, so they disagree with everyone

and everything. These people disagree with others because they feel

threatened by their beauty, or by their relationship to someone they love,

or by their personality. They are insecure.

b. This feeling of insecurity comes from lack of spiritual self-

esteem. There is no excuse in the Christian life for inordinate ambition,

inordinate competition, or trying to control others. This is the basis for

so many Christian organizations today. The very fact that they feel others

are superior and so feel threatened means they have not yet metabolized all

the wonderful things in their portfolio.

c. Obnoxious people often get attention in a group by focusing

attention on themselves in a negative way. They disagree with everything

that is said, and they reject or distort any compliment or kindness.

d. Weak people always feel threatened and become obnoxious as a

system for the weak controlling the strong. Seeking to control and gain

power over a group or an individual always signifies insecurity, lack of

spiritual self-esteem and sometimes a psychotic personality. Social life is

a challenge. Insecure people have no social life. Or people become real

sweet and friendly as a system for the strong controlling the weak. This is

how many a strong personality controls people, putting on the front of

sweetness.

e. Weak believers are subject to the problems of personal love

such as jealousy. Arrogance plus jealousy equals insecurity. They tend to

be possessive in any group and in any social situation. They feel

inadequate and threatened by any form of attractiveness or scintillating

personality that challenges them, or by the fact that everyone is paying

attention to someone else.

f. Consequently, in their subjective arrogance they call

attention to themselves in a negative way as an expression of possessiveness

and control.

5. Spiritual self-esteem solves the problem of relationships in life.

a. Relationship with God, resolved by the motivational virtue of

personal love for God and occupation with Christ as the true self-motivation

in life.

b. Relationship with self includes three factors.

(1) Spiritual self-esteem parlayed into spiritual autonomy

through providential preventative suffering.

(2) Spiritual autonomy parlayed into spiritual maturity

through momentum testing.

(3) Spiritual maturity parlayed into glorification of God

through evidence testing.

c. Relationship with others, resolved by the functional virtue of

impersonal love for all mankind.

6. Spiritual self-esteem solves the problem of emphasis and

perspective in the protocol plan of God, 1 Cor 13:1-3,8. Wrong emphasis and

perspective usually has to do with works and emotion. True emphasis and

perspective has to do with reality related to grace and with our scale of

values. If doctrine is not your number one priority, you will not survive

suffering.

7. Spiritual self-esteem solves the problem of personality

identification and niche orientation, addressed in Phil 4:11-13; 1 Tim

6:6-8; and Heb 13:5-6.

8. Spiritual self-esteem solves the problem of the avoidance of

arrogance, 1 Cor 13:4-8. The danger is to convert spiritual self-esteem

into human self-confidence. Spiritual self-esteem must have virtue and

integrity to avoid arrogance. Since the environment of spiritual self-

esteem is virtue-love, virtue-love produces the integrity for the function

of spiritual self-esteem.

9. Spiritual self-esteem solves the problem of avoidance of arrogance

through combining spiritual self-esteem with providential preventative

suffering, 2 Cor 12:7-10. Failure to pass providential preventative

suffering is the great vulnerability area in the spiritual life. Phil 3:15;

1 Cor 10:12; Gal 6:3; Rom 12:2-3; Prov 16:18; Prov 11:2; Phil 2:15.

10. Spiritual self-esteem solves other problems in life.

a. The problems of being the victim of incest and child abuse by

parents.

b. The problem related to self-pity. Arrogance and emotion meet

at the point of self-pity. This includes the problem of complaining, which

is a result of self-pity.

c. The problem of unrealistic expectation.

d. The problem of role-model arrogance.

e. The problems related to rejection by others.

f. The problems related to finding your niche in life.

g. The problems related to marriage.

11. The Recovery Mechanics of Spiritual Self-Esteem.

a. Recognize the problem.

(1) This means identifying any sins in your own life

immediately.

(2) Use the rebound technique in the privacy of your

priesthood. Having recovered the filling of the Spirit, deal with your

problems on the basis of metabolized doctrine which you have circulating in

your stream of consciousness plus the function of any of the problem solving

devices that you understand and can use.

b. Make good decisions from a position of strength. Collect all

the facts dealing with your problem. Focus your thinking on pertinent

doctrines which apply to your problem. Select the problem solving devices

which are pertinent to your problem. Then make good decisions from a

position of strength and keep on making those decisions until the problem is

solved or the Lord has removed the circumstances that caused the problem.

c. Keep moving forward in your spiritual life. Never allow your

past failures to hinder your present spiritual advance. On the basis of

humility, take the mechanics of the problem solving devices and use your

spiritual strength from doctrine to execute the solution. If you do not

have the spiritual strength, it should be an additional challenge to keep on

taking in Bible doctrine. Avoid distractions which keep you from consistent

postsalvation epistemological rehabilitation.

d. Learn to distinguish between suffering caused by divine

discipline and suffering caused for blessing. Always take the

responsibility for your own sins and failures. Spiritual self-esteem

demands that you recognize the use of your own volition related to sins,

flaws, and failures; then identify your sins so you can keep moving under

the filling of the Spirit. Learn to identify testing and suffering for

blessing, and always relate it to pertinent problem solving devices.

e. There is a three part principle you must always remember.

(1) Spiritual self-esteem plus providential preventative

suffering equals advance to spiritual autonomy.

(2) Spiritual autonomy plus momentum testing equals the

advance to spiritual maturity.

(3) Spiritual maturity plus evidence testing equals

glorification of God to the maximum.

f. Identify the four categories of providential preventative

suffering and momentum testing: people testing, system testing, thought

testing, and disaster testing. Never resent suffering in any category;

there is always a reason for suffering. If you resent suffering, you have

failed miserably in your spiritual life. Any kind of suffering is designed

for your alertness and advance in the spiritual life. If you resent

suffering, you have already lost the benefit from it.

g. Identify the categories of evidence testing. Evidence testing

is Satan's cross examination of the mature believer. There are two

categories of evidence testing.

(1) The relationship with God test.

(a) Relationship with the Holy Spirit, Mt 4:1-4.

(b) Relationship with the Word of God, Mt 4:5-7.

(c) Relationship with the Plan of God, Mt 4:8-10.

(2) The relationship with life test.

(1) Loss of prosperity, Job 1.

(2) Loss of health, Job 2:1-10.

(3) Loss of friends, Job 2:11ff.

h. Concluding Principles.

(1) Suffering for blessing begins when spiritual self-

esteem, continues with spiritual autonomy, and reaches its peak in spiritual

maturity.

(2) God never puts on the believer more suffering than he

can endure. If you find yourself in a situation where you cannot endure the

suffering, that is an indication that your spiritual life is messed up in

every way.

(3) If you cannot endure the suffering, it is generally

related to punitive discipline from God.



K. The Pattern of Spiritual Self-Esteem and Spiritual Autonomy.

1. Personal love for God the Father and impersonal love for all

mankind are patterned after God's virtue-love as a problem solving device.

2. God loves His own perfect righteousness and always has. This is

His divine self-esteem. God's love is always directed only toward that

which is perfect. God cannot love imperfect man except impersonally. But

once man believes in Christ and receives the imputation of perfect

righteousness, then God is free to love us personally.

3. The love each member of the Trinity has toward Himself is spiritual

self-esteem. The love He has for the other members of the Godhead is

personal love.

4. Personal love is always based on the object. Each member of the

Trinity is a perfect object with perfect integrity. The basis for God's

love is His perfect spiritual self-esteem which gives maximum capacity for

loving the other members of the Trinity.

5. The test of God's perfect spiritual self-esteem is the invention of

creatures, which required another category of love exercised toward

creatures, both angels and mankind. This third category of love is

completely unnecessary in the eternal relationship of the members of the

Trinity.

6. This third category became a problem solving device. Spiritual

self-esteem was never a problem solving device among the Trinity, but merely

a capacity device for the expression of personal love. No one truly loves

until he has spiritual self-esteem.

7. This third category is impersonal love, which is only designed to

express the perfect integrity of God. Impersonal love emphasizes the merit

of the subject, but that merit does not have to function as such in the

relationship of the members of the Trinity.

8. With man's fall and spiritual death, there was a gap between man

and God that God's personal love could not breach. God's perfect personal

love cannot love man's relative righteousness. This is a problem.

9. So here God's spiritual self-esteem plus its production of

impersonal love (analogous to our spiritual autonomy) comes into play to

become a problem solving device. Spiritual autonomy emphasizes the

integrity of the subject, so that it makes no difference what the object is.

Spiritual autonomy loves, regardless of how obnoxious, pernicious, or

unattractive the object may be.

10. So the pattern of spiritual self-esteem and spiritual autonomy with

impersonal love comes from what God has. Spiritual self-esteem is God's

eternal and perfect love for His own eternal and perfect righteousness.

Because of His perfect righteousness and spiritual self-esteem, "God so

loved the world [man in spiritual death with relative righteousness] that He

gave His uniquely-born Son," Jn 3:16.

11. God the Father could not have judged His own perfect Son with the

sins of the world apart from impersonal love! The basis of His impersonal

love is His spiritual autonomy. So God the Father's spiritual self-esteem

plus His impersonal love is the basis for our salvation.

12. So the pattern for spiritual self-esteem is the ministry of God the

Father, whereby His spiritual self-esteem produces the impersonal love

(spiritual autonomy) by which we are able to respond to the Gospel through

faith in Christ. God's virtue-love as a problem solving device is the

pattern for spiritual self-esteem as our problem solving device in the

protocol plan of God.

13. The environment for spiritual self-esteem is found in our very own

palace, the operational divine dynasphere modeled after our Lord's prototype

divine dynasphere. At gate 5 we have personal love for God. Then comes

spiritual self-esteem as the overlap between gates 5 and 6, and after

passing providential preventative suffering, we reach spiritual autonomy at

gate 6. So the environment for spiritual self-esteem is virtue-love, as

both motivational and functional virtue.



L. Spiritual self-esteem results in spiritual autonomy of the royal

priesthood.

1. Spiritual self-esteem provides the power and the ability to

complete the execution of the protocol plan of God.

2. Reaching spiritual maturity is self-actualization, or the use of

spiritual self-esteem to fulfill the protocol plan of God. On the other

hand, cosmic living is classified as self-alienation; as alienation from God

and from people. Lack of spiritual self-esteem is self-disowning, while

life in the cosmic system is self-alienation.

3. Spiritual self-esteem is the assertion of metabolized doctrine in

the right lobe and the use of it by living in your own mind. For you cannot

reach the point of consistent suffering for blessing until you reach the

point where you live by your own mind from your metabolized doctrine, making

application of that doctrine under three categories of suffering for

blessing: providential preventative suffering, momentum testing, and

evidence testing as an extension of the angelic conflict in history.

4. Spiritual self-esteem leads to spiritual autonomy. Spiritual

autonomy must be tested through suffering for blessing. Suffering for

blessing is designed by God under three categories.

a. Suffering for blessing which gives power and strength to

spiritual self-esteem. Spiritual self-esteem without this power is

vulnerable to arrogant self-confidence. This is where many believers lose

out. This is called providential preventative suffering.

b. Suffering for blessing which provides momentum testing for

spiritual autonomy under the privacy of the believer's royal priesthood. No

one can handle momentum testing without spiritual autonomy. Therefore, God

does not give us the four momentum tests until we've attained it.

c. Suffering for blessing which provides evidence testing for

spiritual maturity. Once we reach spiritual maturity, we'll receive

unexplained suffering in our lives. This third category is suffering for

blessing which only comes to mature believers as the extension of the

angelic conflict. Here is where we are entered as evidence for the

Prosecution in the rebuttal phase of Satan's appeal trial. So this category

is called evidence testing. The cause of the suffering is unknown, as in

the case of Job, but the power to deal with the suffering has been provided

through preventative suffering plus momentum testing. This is suffering for

mature believers only.

4. Suffering for blessing does not occur on a regular basis until the

believer has attained spiritual self-esteem.



M. Spiritual self-esteem is a divider.

1. Spiritual self-esteem separates spiritual childhood from adulthood.

2. Spiritual self-esteem separates lack of capacity from capacity for

life, love, and happiness.

3. Spiritual self-esteem separates spiritual dependence from spiritual

independence in spiritual autonomy.

4. Spiritual self-esteem separates punitive suffering from suffering

for blessing.



N. Spiritual Self-Esteem and Personality Identity.

1. Competition for affection is often a sign of insecurity and of

ingrained weakness. These people are arrogant and without spiritual self-

esteem. When you start to compete with others, you have built in a

manufacturing device that means unhappiness for life.

2. Too many people become possessive of someone or something and they

seek to isolate the object of their affection through some form of strange

behavior, through nagging, complaining, or through trying to instill in

their opposite number a guilt complex.

3. Disagreement can be normal or abnormal in life. It becomes

abnormal as a technique related to an insecure person who seeks to control

those in their periphery. People who are power hungry with power lust are

always trying to control their periphery. In doing so, they develop a

fantastic system of arrogance, a guarantee that they will be miserable all

their lives.

4. Under spiritual self-esteem you are never insecure in your love and

affection, and you never feel threatened by arrogance and jealousy, and you

never have the problems related to self-pity.

5. Spiritual self-esteem combines with impersonal love to destroy

inordinate ambition and competition for someone's love, affection, or for

some greatness in life.

6. Spiritual self-esteem is motivated by personal love for God, which

eliminates both inordinate ambition and competition.

7. Spiritual self-esteem has capacity for love for God and for a few

people. This eliminates personality flaws. You cannot find self and

personality identity until you find God as a believer (reach gate 5 of the

divine dynasphere). You cannot find yourself until you find God. You will

never discover the real you until you first discover God. This is so

important, for it sets up the right priorities for life.

8. Examples would be: the mother who competes with the wife for the

affection of her son; a divorced couple who competes for the affection of

their children.

9. Lack of spiritual self-esteem means personality flaws,

abnormalities, and sometimes borderline schizoid personality.

10. Therefore, spiritual self-esteem means personality identification

and living a normal happy life.

11. The other personality distraction is admiration resulting in

personality imitation. The believer must learn to admire people without

trying to imitate or mimic their personality. This will keep you from

finding the real you, which is usually far better than what you want to

imitate.

12. Spiritual self-esteem provides the capacity to admire and

appreciate people without trying to imitate their personality. Many

believers have destroyed their potential in life by trying to imitate

others. The only legitimate imitation is the lifestyle of wisdom. Many a

believer has destroyed his capacity for life, love, happiness, or his

potential in the Christian life by trying to imitate someone he admires.

13. Finding self is based on normal advance to spiritual self-esteem

based on personal love for God from maximum metabolized doctrine. Your

personality must relate to your own portfolio of invisible assets and the

protocol plan of God. You will never discover yourself until you discover

the One who gave you life at birth and the One who gave you salvation at the

point of faith in Christ.

14. There is no such thing as a standardized personality for

spirituality. Spirituality manifests itself in multifarious personalities.

God uses and blesses all types of personalities. God did not intend to put

us all through cookie cutters. There's no such thing as a standardized

personality for the function of the ministry.

15. All personality flaws are resolved by the attainment of spiritual

self-esteem, in which the utilization of your portfolio of invisible assets

results in contentment and personality identification.

16. Therefore, spiritual self-esteem overcomes the various personality

flaws to which we are subject and replaces them with contentment and a

personal sense of destiny, personality identification and niche attainment.



O. Spiritual Self-Esteem and Niche Orientation.

1. We live in a time when young people do not know what they want to

do in life. It all stems from the fact that people are not aware of

themselves and their limitations, and what is the secret to true success in

life. As a result, they spend their lives in misery and frustration,

committing suicide from simply giving up.

2. So spiritual self-esteem will cause you to attain this one

important achievement in life. First, you'll learn to know who God is and

to love Him, and then you'll discover your own personality. With spiritual

self-esteem, you take your own personality through every circumstance of

prosperity, pressure, adversity, and do it all to the glory of God. So

personality identification relates to niche orientation.

3. Niche is from the Latin word meaning nest. It is defined here as a

place, condition or a status suitable to the capabilities, happiness and

merits of an individual believer.

4. It is not a slot in life, but a nest, which is built from many

materials (doctrines). The believer's niche is composed of many strands

from his portfolio prepared in eternity past.

5. When the nest is finished it includes spiritual self-esteem,

capacity for life, and contentment in every circumstance in life.

6. Niche orientation is not finding your right job nor your right

church. It's a combination of finding a series of right things consisting

of at least seven things:

a. Right social life. So many people are ruined by the wrong

social life, where their friends are a bad influence on them, or where they

change their standards to conform to some social experience. Finding the

right social life is extremely important. The best way is to start out with

no social life at all, because what you really are is what you are when

alone. Being alone for a while will help you to understand what your needs

are and in what areas your capacity is missing.

b. Marital experience. It's very difficult for anyone to find

their real personality and niche orientation in marital status. It's better

to discover this first when single.

c. Business and professional life. What are you going to do in

life? How will you make a living? Where do your interests lie? What are

you best fitted for? What are your limitations? If you start by

recognizing your limitations, you generally have a better chance because

you're approaching the problem from humility rather than from arrogance.

d. Academic life as a student or as a teacher.

e. Job or position in life. There is a job or position that goes

with your personality which means tranquility in your life. Your success is

not measured by what you do for a living, but in God's eyes your success is

measured by your advance to maturity. We live in the dispensation of

invisible impact.

f. Spiritual life and eventually Christian service.

g. Doctrinal teaching from your right pastor. So actually, this

list should be reversed, because you must start with doctrine. You must be

faithful under your right pastor who communicates doctrine so that you can

understand the issues in privacy.

7. Niche conceptualism. While everyone is seeking his niche, very few

seem to find it. Basic niche conceptualism requires two categories of

decisions: the one-time decision of faith in Christ, and the many decisions

related to the fulfillment of the protocol plan of God. We must make daily

decisions after salvation and be consistent. Inconsistency comes because

our priorities are constantly in flux. This is because people are so

emotional.

a. 1 Tim 2:3-4 distinguishes between the one decision we make for

salvation, and the many decisions we make thereafter. "For this is good and

acceptable in the sight of God our Savior, who desires all men to be saved,

and to come to an epignosis knowledge of doctrine."

b. 1 Jn 3:23, "And this is His mandate that we believe in the

person of His Son, and love one another."

8. Doctrine gives you the opportunity of seeing what God provided for

you in four niche categories.

a. Niche orientation.

(1) Niche orientation looks back to your portfolio in

eternity past. Niche orientation must relate to grace provision and the

work of God the Father in eternity past. So you realize your personality

has significance in the eyes of God, because knowing all about you in

eternity past as a believer, God provided you with a portfolio of success.

Since you are still alive, God's purpose for you on earth still exists. So

you cannot dwell on your failures or be disturbed by the difficulties in

your life.

(2) Niche orientation also looks forward to the protocol

plan of God. The very fact that you're alive after some colossal failure

means you must pick yourself up and move on to even greater blessing than

you ever had before. You must look forward and move to spiritual self-

esteem.

(3) Niche orientation relates to your own palace, the divine

dynasphere. Niche orientation means you must be filled with the Spirit and

rebound when necessary. We cannot be niche oriented while we are having an

authority problem. Niche orientation demands daily perception of doctrine.

It provides the motivation for spiritual self-esteem.

b. Niche Identification.

(1) A personal sense of destiny from spiritual self-esteem

results in knowing the will of God for your life and your personality

identity. Niche identification means each strand of the nest you build from

Bible doctrine will result in a permanent contentment in every category of

your life. Happiness is not an overt experience or stimulation, but is a

state of mind in the soul best described by contentment or tranquility.

(2) Niche identification in social life means picking the

right friends; in married life it means the selection of the right mate from

spiritual self-esteem; in business it means being led to choose the right

profession, recognizing your limitations, and finding something compatible

with your tranquility gained from doctrine; in academic life it means the

selection of the right school, the right major; in labor it means learning

the right trade. Many times, ambition has distracted people from the

protocol plan of God simply because they spent so much time in self-

improvement that they lost track of who and what they really were. Then

when disaster comes, they fall apart.

(3) Niche identification means understanding your portfolio

of invisible assets and executing the protocol plan of God. Niche

identification demands that you live constantly in the divine dynasphere.

You live within your limitations, but under the principle of godliness or

great happiness. So find out who and what you are before you go off on the

many tangents offered today.

c. The real key is niche capacity which is contentment,

translated "godliness" in the New Testament.

(1) Godliness means reaching spiritual self-esteem through

daily residence, function, and momentum inside your palace, the operational

divine dynasphere. The key to your life is not your great resume, but

godliness, which is momentum in the protocol plan of God. Godliness is the

filling of the Spirit, the daily perception of doctrine, and advancing to

gates 5 and 6 of the divine dynasphere.

(2) 1 Tim 3:6-8, "Godliness is a means of great profit when

accompanied by contentment; consequently, if we have food and clothing

[minimum logistical grace], with these we shall be content."

(3) Note what is real profit in this passage: godliness.

Because godliness gives you the ability and capacity to love God, and at the

same time the ability to know yourself, your own personality, your

limitations, and to understand yourself in the light of enforced and genuine

humility rather than to overestimate yourself in the light of arrogance.

Before you die, be sure your life has been profitable, as defined by this

verse. The greatest thing you can do for yourself, your country, your God,

is godliness.

(4) "Contentment" is spiritual self-esteem, personality

identification, knowing your limitations, your abilities, and relating them

all to the Word of God; advancing under the protocol plan of God as a member

of the royal family of God rather than as someone under inordinate ambition.

(5) Heb 13:5, "Let your lifestyle be free from monetary

priority. Be content with what you have. For He Himself has said, `I will

never leave you; I will never forsake you.'"

(6) If you are only living to make money, and you measure

success in terms of making money, then you are a slave to money. Anything

to which you make a priority above doctrine you are a slave. Here's the key

to our happiness: our relationship with the Lord, with eternal and temporal

security.

(7) Phil 4:11-13, "I am not saying these things because I am

in need." Spiritual self-esteem never begs, but functions under the true

motivation of personal love for God. "For I have learned to be content in

whatever the circumstances. In fact, I have come to know how to be in need

[suffering for blessing], also I have come to know how to live in

prosperity. In every circumstance, I have learned the secret of being

filled [prosperous] and of being hungry [failure]. I have the endowed power

[computer assets] to attain all things [escrow blessings] through Him who

makes me strong [giving suffering for blessing]."

d. Niche Attainment. Niche capacity occurs when the believer

reaches spiritual self-esteem. Niche attainment occurs when the believer

reaches spiritual maturity. Spiritual self-esteem must precede the

attainment of maturity.



P. The cosmic system offers pseudo-spiritual self-esteem as an arrogant

pretext of self-value.

1. The believer in the cosmic system evades, represses, rationalizes,

and even fantasizes the objective reality of the protocol plan of God.

2. Arrogance produces irrational self-deception, which spawns fear,

worry and anxiety.

3. Conceptualism has no meaning, no importance to the mind of the

cosmic believer, whose negative volition subverts spiritual self-esteem, and

therefore, he never receives the escrow blessing deposited to his account in

eternity past.

4. The cosmic believer is overwhelmed with feelings of inadequacy, and

therefore feelings of competition. Without spiritual self-esteem he thinks

of himself in terms of crusader arrogance. He comes to assume that if he

didn't think of it, it is wrong. Therefore, God's plan is wrong.

5. Pseudo self-esteem and human self-esteem are self-conscious of

success in self, but this is not spiritual self-esteem.



Q. Spiritual Adulthood and Advance in God's Protocol Plan.

1. Consistent perception and metabolization of doctrine inside the

divine dynasphere results in that momentum which produces spiritual self-

esteem. Until we reach spiritual self-esteem, we are not really advancing

significantly in the protocol plan of God and/or the Christian life.

2. Spiritual self-esteem is then combined with providential

preventative suffering to form spiritual autonomy. Spiritual self-esteem is

vulnerable. Therefore, God in His grace always gives the believer who has

just reached spiritual self-esteem providential preventative suffering.

3. Spiritual autonomy is spiritual self-esteem with muscle. Spiritual

autonomy is then combined with momentum testing to form spiritual maturity.

Here is the first point of glorifying God when we receive our escrow

blessings.

4. Spiritual maturity is combined with evidence testing to glorify God

in the appeal trial of the historical extension of the angelic conflict.

This is the most unusual of all categories of suffering. It always comes

suddenly, is always unexpected, is always short, is always a result of a

convocation in heaven (Job 1-2), and there is no reasonable or unreasonable

explanation as to why it's happening. Only the mature believer can handle

it. Even if he fails, as Job did, if he recovers he is still spiritually

mature.

5. Every category of suffering for blessing means an advance in your

spiritual life, and means you are one step nearer to fulfilling the protocol

plan of God for the Church Age. Each category of suffering for blessing is

provided by the sovereignty of God under His grace policy so that the Church

Age believer, as royal family, can fulfill the protocol plan of God.

6. With the exception of suffering left over after rebound, there is

no suffering for blessing until the believer attains spiritual self-esteem

through residence, function, and momentum inside the divine dynasphere.

There is a limited suffering for blessing in whatever is left over for you

to bear after rebound. But this is of short duration and has no great

significance.

7. Therefore, spiritual self-esteem is the dividing line between

punitive suffering and suffering for blessing.

8. No believer should ever pray for the removal of any suffering for

blessing which is the means of fulfilling the protocol plan of God.



S. Concluding Principles of Spiritual Self-Esteem.

1. Nathaniel Brandon's view on self-esteem is stated in his book,

Honoring Self, "The two most striking characteristics of men and women who

seek psychotherapy are deficiency of self-esteem and a resulting condition

of self-alienation. In some crucial way, they do not feel appropriate to

life and its requirements and they lack adequate contact with the world

within, with their needs, wants, feelings, thoughts, values, and

potentialities. Thus diminished in consciousness, they are estranged from

their proper human estate. Large areas of self lie undiscovered,

unexpressed, unlived. They are sleep-walkers through their own existence."

2. Spiritual self-esteem chooses to think and apply metabolized

doctrine to life. First, spiritual self-esteem is acquired by choosing

daily for the perception and metabolization of doctrine. Then spiritual

self-esteem chooses to think and to apply that metabolized doctrine to life.

3. Spiritual self-esteem chooses to think and apply metabolized

doctrine toward God. This is how we come to know God and therefore to love

Him. There is no shortcut to loving God. It is impossible to love

invisible God until one has accumulated a certain amount of metabolized

doctrine and is well on his way to spiritual self-esteem.

4. Spiritual self-esteem makes the decision to think independently of

other Christians, to live by the doctrine resident in your own soul, to have

the courage of your own perceptions and the accuracy of your own

applications. This is spiritual autonomy.

5. Spiritual self-esteem orients to the reality of what we are and

accepts our human limitations, while emphasizing the equal privileges and

the equal opportunities under the computer assets of our portfolio.

6. Spiritual self-esteem refuses to accept unearned guilt which

results in a guilt complex, a destructive sin. Spiritual self-esteem

refuses to accept that guilt which people try to impose upon you to

manipulate you. But spiritual self-esteem does accept the responsibility

for your own decisions, good and bad. Accepting unearned guilt destroys

spiritual lives every day. This is a system of evil, and is often a

misapplication of the true doctrine of Christian service. Christian service

should not be mandated by other people, but by the progress of your own

spiritual life. The average fundamentalist today is motivated by unearned

guilt.

7. Spiritual self-esteem accepts our right as royal family to live our

own life under the privacy of our own priesthood. Therefore, our life does

not belong to others but to God. We are not sustained by logistical grace

to live up to the expectations of others, but to live up to the divine

mandates of the protocol plan of God.

8. Spiritual self-esteem gives maximum opportunity for the believer to

exploit the full realm of virtue-love as a problem solving device, and to

have perfect tranquility and happiness in every category of suffering for

blessing.

9. Self-control through divine establishment results in human self-

esteem. But human self-esteem is not adequate in God's plan or purpose for

the believer. Self-control through postsalvation epistemological

rehabilitation, or the inculcation of Bible doctrine, is the basis for

attaining spiritual self-esteem.

10. Spiritual self-esteem under pressure is the dynamic poise of the

problem solving devices of the protocol plan of God.



T. Applications of Spiritual Self-Esteem.

1. Spiritual self-esteem combines with impersonal love to produce a

remarkable thoughtfulness of others; hence, the virtue of being considerate,

looking out for the comfort and welfare of others is the first major product

of spiritual self-esteem. This virtue consideration means sparing others

from annoyance and irrationality or discomfort; hence, being careful not to

hurt the feelings of others.

a. At certain times most believers have mental or emotional

sensibility which leads to irritation or some form of reaction. While

sensitivity connotes being impressionable, susceptible, receptive, or

responsive, in usage, it has come to imply, in cases of virtue, a certain

thoughtfulness for others, consideration for the feelings of others.

b. In this sense, sensitivity uses the status of spiritual self-

esteem as the base for the impact of impersonal love for all mankind as the

functional virtue of consideration for others no matter how antagonistic

others might be.

c. In this sense, sensitivity manifests itself in good manners,

the willingness to accommodate oneself to an individual or to a group in the

spiritual, social, professional, business, or academic realm.

d. On the foundation of humility plus the spiritual strength of

integrity, spiritual self-esteem produces a positive sensitivity or

thoughtfulness of others. Hence, this good sensitivity represents the

function of spiritual self-esteem in the life of the believer. This is the

exercise of impersonal love for all mankind.

e. In this case, hypersensitivity represents the function of

arrogance, the extreme negative sensitivity, the subjectivity which combines

the sins of arrogance with the sins of the emotional complex.

Hypersensitivity in this application becomes arrogant preoccupation with

self, resulting in using every circumstance or occasion to make an issue of

disoriented self.

f. Self-righteous arrogance of legalism combines with jealousy,

bitterness, vindictiveness, implacability, anger, hatred, self-pity,

inordinate ambition and competition, revenge modus operandi and motivation,

to react to some real or imagined wrongs. Hypersensitivity functions under

subjective arrogance and self-centeredness, and seeks to control its

environment to get its own way through the demand syndrome and to control

all personal relationships.

g. Hypersensitivity is a combination of total sensitivity

regarding self and at the same time a total insensitivity to the feelings,

opinions, and desires of others.

h. Impersonal love and hypersensitivity cannot coexist any more

than humility and arrogance can coexist. The solution to the problem comes

with the attainment of spiritual self-esteem.

i. Hypersensitivity is the believer's malfunction with

relationship to himself and the manifestation of subjective arrogance--total

preoccupation with self resulting from scar tissue of the soul, garbage in

the subconscious, the life controlled by the lust pattern of the sin nature

as well as the arrogant and emotional complexes of sin. Hypersensitivity

results in self being divorced from reality.

j. Good sensitivity is virtuous, objective, compassionate,

consideration, thoughtfulness of others, the function of impersonal love for

all mankind.

k. Self-disorientation has many problems.

(1) Vulnerability to the arrogant complex of sins.

(2) Vulnerability to the emotional complex of sins.

(3) Dissociation resulting in garbage in the subconscious.

(4) Negative volition to doctrine resulting in blackout of

the soul and scar tissue in the stream of consciousness.

l. Hypersensitive believers are unteachable.

(1) Because they make an issue out of self rather than the

content of Bible doctrine.

(2) Because they make an issue out of the personality of the

pastor-teacher through either idolization or irritation.

(3) Because of operation over-think from a life of

subjective arrogance.

(4) Because of frustration from the fact that every Bible

class does not deal with their personal problems. This ignores the

principle of integrity or spiritual strength which can only be developed

from the whole realm of doctrine.

(5) Because of the emotional revolt of the soul.

(a) Hysterical emotion--fear, worry, anxiety, panic,

irrationality, dissociation.

(b) Antagonistic emotion--uncontrollable anger,

implacable hatred, bitter resentment, vindictive animosity, loathing,

tantrums, violence, murder.

(c) Reaction emotion--a combination of emotional and

arrogant sins in which bitterness, jealousy, vindictiveness, and

implacability enter into hysteria of one sort or another. For example,

revenge hysteria, or vilification.

(d) Self-centered category--the person is egotistical

and irrational; all expressions of dissatisfaction and maladjustment to life

combine into one concept, such as, complaining, sniveling, unreasonable

irritability, annoyance from hypersensitivity, hallucination, self-pity,

sulking.

(e) Guilt category--the failure to rebound, rejection

of rebound, the persistent feeling of remorse after rebound, failure to keep

moving.

m. Your happiness must not depend on others or you will be

unhappy for the rest of your life. You will be unhappy unless you have the

benefits which come from spiritual self-esteem and the function of

impersonal love for all mankind.

2. Spiritual self-esteem inevitably causes blessings and happiness

from all three categories of relationship in the life of the believer: the

relationship with God which is paramount, the relationship with people which

demands humility, the relationship with self which demands professionalism

and integrity.

3. You cannot build spiritual self-esteem on what others think of you;

for spiritual self-esteem is related to what God thinks of you. It is your

rapport with God. You have a personal sense of destiny because of what God

thinks of you and you are straight with God.

4. Therefore, you can only build your spiritual self-esteem in the

soul's stream of consciousness and what you think from the standpoint of

that metabolized doctrine.

5. Any attempt to build spiritual self-esteem on the approbation of

others results in confusion, frustration, emotion, and arrogance. Confusion

means you are overrun by the four horsemen of apostasy (emotional revolt of

the soul, negative volition of the soul, blackout of the soul, and scar

tissue of the soul). Frustration results in loss of metabolized doctrine in

the seven compartments of the stream of consciousness from being overrun by

the four horsemen of apostasy. Emotional revolt of the soul is what happens

when you pick up your own agenda in the adult spiritual life. Arrogance

results in the function of the three arrogance skills (self-justification,

self-deception, and self-absorption).

6. The inevitable result is the status quo of loser believer, who is

divorced from reality and functions under denial and projection.

7. Spiritual self-esteem is related to leadership.

a. There is no true leadership apart from the attainment of

spiritual self-esteem. You have to be on God's agenda.

b. Leadership in spiritual self-esteem starts with self and not

those with whom you are associated or those who are under your authority.

Leadership is in the soul. Your soul establishes leadership, not your

relationship with other people. You do not have leadership until you have

it in your soul.

c. This implies that virtue and integrity from Bible doctrine is

the first concern of leadership.

d. Therefore, leadership must live and think under doctrinal

principles, not emotion, not arrogance, not confusion, not frustration, nor

reaction. You cannot lead and lose control of your soul through emotional

revolt or emotion or confusion or frustration.

e. If leadership does not start in your own soul, you will never

have the respect of others.

f. Leadership is a principle that can only thrive in the soul

before it becomes an action which inspires and guides others. In the

function of authority both spiritual self-esteem and virtue love lead the

way. Often the reality and evaluation of failure must precede the volition

and perseverance of success in leadership. You must be able to realize when

you fail and evaluate that failure to be a success as a leader. The supreme

court of heaven brings the believer to failure and subsequent humility

before God can give success on the basis of His agenda.




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