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Question

Hello im a 16 year old mixed race muslim girl (born muslim) not practasing but will do now :) dont judje me pls,
1) where in the quran does it say women are not allowed to show parts of there body
2) where does it say in the quran you cant have sex before marrige

Also i want to know why and whats the punishment ... U c where im from muslim girls wear full hijab (not nikab) and to be honest there not at all muslims in my eyes but thats just what i think for example how on earth could you wear hijab and snogg boys on the streets have sex and drink etc.... its so confusing, i want to be a good muslim, but its hard when your sourrounded by fake ones... yes people do ask me why i dont wear hijab but its simiply because i dont want to wear it because ill know people will judje me and think like im other muslims girls round my area who are despret etc it makes me sick to see girls/ boys like this specially in ramadan! i even cry about this... even though i have so much hatred towards these people... im even thinking to move away into a diffrent area
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Answer 1

Sûrat An-Nûr (The Light) XXIV

31. And tell the believing women to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things), and protect their private parts (from illegal sexual acts) and not to show off their adornment except only that which is apparent (like both eyes for necessity to see the way, or outer palms of hands or one eye or dress like veil, gloves, head-cover, apron, etc.), and to draw their veils all over Juyûbihinna (i.e. their bodies, faces, necks and bosoms) and not to reveal their adornment except to their husbands, or their fathers, or their husband’s fathers, or their sons, or their husband’s sons, or their brothers or their brother’s sons, or their sister’s sons, or their (Muslim) women (i.e. their sisters in Islâm), or the (female) slaves whom their right hands possess, or old male servants who lack vigour, or small children who have no sense of feminine sex. And let them not stamp their feet so as to reveal what they hide of their adornment. And all of you beg Allâh to forgive you all, O believers, that you may be successful.*

* (V.24:31) "And to draw their veils all over Juyûbihinna (i.e. their bodies, faces, necks, and bosoms) and not to reveal their adornment..." Narrated ‘Âishahرضي الله عنها : ‘May Allâh bestow His Mercy on the early emigrant women. When Allâh revealed: "And to draw their veils all over Juyûbihinna (i.e. their bodies, faces, necks, and bosoms)" - they tore their Murût (a woollen dress, or a waist-binding cloth or an apron, etc.) and covered their heads and faces with those torn Murût’ Narrated Safiyyah bint Shaibah: ‘Âishah used to say: ‘When the Verse: "And to draw their veils all over Juyûbihinna (i.e. their bodies, faces, necks, and bosoms)" (V.24:31) was revealed, (the ladies) cut their waist sheets at the edges and covered their heads and faces with those cut pieces of cloth.’ (Sahih Al Bukhari, Vol.6, Hadith No.282

Answer 2

Good job sister. You are taking the first step towards learning Islam. I'm only 13 but I want to help my brothers nd sisters. But regardless you have to wear the hijab the only part pf your body that can be showing are the hands and the some parts of the face. But here is the verse:



“Say to the believing men that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty: that will make for greater purity for them: and Allah is well acquainted with all that they do.” [Q 24:30]



“And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty; that they should not display their beauty and ornaments except what (must ordinarily) appear thereof; that they should draw their veils over their bosoms except to their husbands, their fathers, their husbands’ fathers, their sons, their husbands’ sons, their brothers or their brothers’ sons, or their sisters’ sons, or their women, or the slaves whom their right hands possess, or male servants free of physical needs, or small children who have no sense of the shame of sex; and that they should not strike their feet in order to draw attention to their hidden ornaments. And O ye Believers! Turn ye all together towards Allah, that ye may attain Bliss.” [Q 24:31]

So it shouldn't matter to you what other people will think when you're wearing the hijab because you will be pleasing Allah.

Now obvously sex before marriage is haram but here's the Quran ayat:23:5 And they keep covered their private parts.

23:6 Except around their spouses (azwaaj), or those who are maintained by their oaths (ma malakat aymanukum), they are free from blame.

23:7 But whoever seeks anything beyond this, then these are the transgressors.

Hope this helped and ask me if you have anymore questions.

Answer 3

I honestly thought all the head scarf, full hijab stuff was based on "modesty".



Once you think that means... Not 1 square cm of skin showing.... You end up with women in burlap sacks.



The real punishment will come from the fanatics on earth, not some supernatural being.



However, all this being said. I'm not superstitious, and I don't think that 'following' that faith is of any real use. It's a huge time sink into a dead end religion.



+1 to the poster above me! The verse etc!



So, just consider the human race your slave!!! LOOPHOLE! You can be revealing to your slaves!!!



--not superstitious

Answer 4

Perhaps its the stipulations of their country that they want to flee instead than their possess faith; routinely, the "Islamic" countries, aren't in step with what they feel is Islamic so that they want to transport; why is it that after they transfer to the west, they continue their faith? I imply you would feel that if the challenge used to be their whole faith, that they might ditch it the second they landed right here; however such a lot dont. The problems lie in other places.

Answer 5

And say to the women who believe: And let their gaze, and maintains his cock, and do not show her jewelry, except for the usual look at him, and they closed hendaklan crippled cloth on his chest .. (An Nuur. 31)







"O Prophet, when it comes to you believing women to hold the oath of allegiance, that they would not ascribe partners to Allah, will not steal, will not commit adultery, not to kill her children, will not lied that they forge between hands and their feet and will not disobey thee in the affairs of the good, then accept their allegiance to God and ask forgiveness for them. Surely Allah is Forgiving, Merciful "(al-Mumtahanah: 12).

Answer 6

Awww i dont wanna wear hijab either and i dont but inshallaiah allah will guide me .



Yes hijab doesnt mean anything there are some hijab girls who have bf and theres some hijab women who are bitter and gossip a lot