Question:
Why do atheists get married?
anonymous
2016-06-13 08:02:21 UTC
Marriage (I assume) is a religious act. And there is no substitute for it in religion. Then why do atheist wants to get married, instead they can just live together.
144 answers:
king_davis13
2016-06-13 08:24:02 UTC
Marriage in fact is not a religious act. When people want to get married they apply for a marriage license at their local court house, then perform a few tests and fill out paperwork. Once those commitments are satisfied they have the signatures witnessed and they are legally married. If the people want to suspend the marriage until they have a service the final witness to sign off on the paperwork will be the priest. Even during the service the priest will say something to the effect of "by the power invested in me by the state" which admits that the state is issuing the marriage license not the religion. Theists try to make it seem like their religion or beliefs are a lot more justified than they really are and I am sure that they will attempt to deny the facts that I have shown here so I suggest that everyone research the stuff for themselves and they will see I am not lying or confused in any way. Hope this helps.
anonymous
2016-06-13 16:23:08 UTC
They can get married in the temporal world as a sort of legal protection, but there is no sanctity of these unions unless they are done before God. An atheistic "marriage" is an unrecognised union.



But you have asked why atheists get married which very few users in this thread have answered. Instead it's the typical defensiveness all too common with the Yahoo! Atheist club. They have completely dismissed the religious aspect of marriage, the important act before God between a man and a woman. They want to insult that because they think they have created a new version of marriage. They have not.



Atheists get "married" for all the same reasons everybody else does: love, money, etc. They just have relationships that are not finalised in a holy place, a church. They avoid these holy places because they think their logic and earthly knowledge surpasses any recognition from God. It does not and their marriages lack that important final touch. God's holy touch that they resist.
ZCT
2016-06-13 08:07:40 UTC
Because legally, depending on where you live, there are several hundred legal rights that all fall into place for a married couple that do not apply to two people living together.



Things like health insurance, medial rights, dealing with death, distribution of assets in a divorce, and so on.



Sure, marriage can be a religious act. Most churches do like to have a say in birth, marriage and death, since that helps add control over the participants. But it also is a legal act that has a lot of benefits for a married couple.
anonymous
2016-06-13 15:39:31 UTC
"Why do atheists get married?"



You assume incorrectly. Marriage is a contract under civil law. Religion does not own marriage. In most western countries, religious ceremonies have no legal standing.



Atheists are people, and people get married for different reasons, some good, some not.
?
2016-06-13 08:17:09 UTC
Marriage is not a religious act. It's a legal institution that provides legal benefits and protections to both spouses. Atheists also get married as a demonstration of lifelong commitment.
iCanHelpSome
2016-06-13 08:06:05 UTC
You're assuming incorrectly, that's why. Marriage is not a religious act, but a civil one with a legal license. Also, I wanted to get married as a public display of my loving commitment to my husband, and have a big party with all my friends and family. There are numerous reasons to want to marry, none of which need to be religious.
Diogenes
2016-06-13 08:18:59 UTC
My wife and I lived together for four years before our tax attorney finally convinced us to get married. So we got married in a Judge's chambers and our marriage license was exactly the same as any religious marriage. Marriage does not have to be a religious ceremony. We already loved each other and got married to reduce our taxes and to make it easier (back then) to qualify for a mortgage, so we could buy a home.
wombatfreaks
2016-06-13 15:43:14 UTC
No, being joined in a religious ceremony is a religious act, but marriage is a civil contract, in the US and most western countries.

For instance, a church wedding does not mean you are married in the eyes of the law, not unless you have a marriage license that is registered. But a registered and valid marriage licence is recognized as a valid marriage, with or without any ceremony religious or otherwise.
?
2016-06-13 09:08:17 UTC
Marriage was around long before religions..as an atheist I wanted to marry the man I loved as a promise to love and stay with him for as long as we lived....and I am....43 years in August.



Mo University Lecturer Atheist
John Boehmer
2016-06-13 16:28:28 UTC
To determine whether marriage is a secular or religious act, one must go back to it's foundation, not what has recently come about. The answer takes us all the way back to Eden, where God Himself established the parameters of what marriage is. The fact that the secular culture and government have only glommed on for it's own benefit does not make marriage secular. It is in fact the Godly way in which a man and woman in love are to make their relationship right before HIM, so the question is valid. It's the same principle at work with the desire for homosexual marriage; everybody wants to be validated, and unknowingly, these unGodly folks have turned to His standard be legit.
anonymous
2016-06-13 08:11:15 UTC
Why do atheists get married?



--- Because they want to.



Marriage (I assume) is a religious act.



--- No. Marriage is a legal contract that is hugely important in regards to legal power of attorney, child custody, taxation, and inheritance. Not to mention property ownership.



The religious marriage ceremony has no standing in society. It's the government issued marriage license that matters.
sarah
2016-06-13 15:26:12 UTC
Marriage to some people JUST is as simple as a commitment. Shared ownership of all their possessions. Shared ownership of the children ( same surname).



Some people think it's the right way of life. For their children's sake and for their life choices.



I am non-religious, but I would get married. Me getting married isn't getting married to God in my eyes. It's showing my lifetime partner I am committed to him, be ready to share ownership and to show the children the right way of life. Not to settle for less than they're worth. Happily married decent couples show their children a prime example.
Captain S
2016-06-13 10:28:13 UTC
Your basic assumption was wrong, so every conclusion you came to thereafter was also flawed. Marriage is NOT an inherently "religious" union. Among we believers it is a union ordained and consecrated by God, but throughout human history folks have been marrying for all sorts of reasons...from strengthening alliances, financial security, and child-bearing suitability, to name just a few; that atheists also have ideas of their own should surprise no one.
?
2016-06-13 11:26:04 UTC
Why?



Because the stench of an excremental fantasy called 'christ' is nowhere to be found in their lives.



Neither marriage, nor its intention, descends from anything 'religious'.

Atheists fall in love and marry, because life & existence allow for `joy` ... and every minute of their happiness.
anonymous
2016-06-13 08:15:55 UTC
You assume incorrectly. Religion doesn't own the patent on marriage. Marriage is the consensual and contractual union of two adults. You don't need a religious ceremony to get married.
?
2016-06-13 12:03:27 UTC
Sorry, Marriage is a religious sacrament like baptism or last rites. Each religion has its own practice, but it IS religious in origin. Nonbelievers have both civil services and common law to possess the benefits of marriage, and if you can find a church that will perform the service, nonbelievers, homosexuals, and transgenders can have a church wedding as well.
bender_xr217
2016-06-13 08:19:04 UTC
We marry for the same reasons anyone else does, because we love our intended spouses, or because it is mutually beneficial to both persons to be married.

BTW, you are aware that you HAVE to acquire a license from the state in order to marry, no matter HOW you intend to wed or WHOM you intend to marry. Marriage is 100% regulated by the state, religion can not make that claim since one doesn't have to marry religiously.

Your marriage HAS to be recognized by the state in order for it to be valid.
Skookum
2016-06-13 15:55:10 UTC
Marriage can be SANCTIONED by someone who claims religious authority (as long as you recognize their authority), but marriage is essentially a legal contract. Hopefully there is love too, but has never been essential and it's only recently that that has been considered important. As an importnat legal contract, a marriage certificate is required for many things, so marriage is considered desirable by most people.
WOOWHO
2016-06-13 09:04:51 UTC
Why do ATHEIST get MARRIED ? I *** - U- ME marriage is a RELIGIOUS EVENT and there is NO substitution for RELIGION



Marriage is a "LEGAL " Contract it deals with Legal responsibility Property and finances it effects medical responsibility personal responsibility Taxes mortgages bills insurance r living expenses funeral expenses ......



..There is no SUBSTITUTION for Religion Related to marriage ? One might want to ask the JUDGE that married my husband and I over 20 years ago . now why did we get married to protect each of our Economic status because there are FINANCIAL and LEGAL benefits related to life EVENTS
?
2016-06-13 11:16:59 UTC
Marriage was originally decided between families.

By the 12th century this had broken down.

The church established religious marriage.

The motive was to protect widows & orphans.

This broke down over time, & became a civil matter.

In many countries today marriage is civil & religious.

In Ontario, we also recognize Common Law marriage.
?
2016-06-13 09:08:36 UTC
Marriage is and always has been a matter of civil law! Whilst churches are allowed to carry out the service it must be in complete compliance with that law and any deviation or omission would make the marriage null and void and probably involve criminal offenses!
anonymous
2016-06-13 08:10:30 UTC
Science has shown that children in single parent families often have far more problems in life. It could be he wants children in better health?

Sometimes it is extra pride! Some of them when they marry are already Bigamists! Mine was, then ran kidnapping the children! I've never got them back!
anonymous
2016-06-13 08:05:03 UTC
Marriage is not a religious act - religion has made marriage a religious event, but it existed long before religion.



There are legal and financial advantages to marriage, since most western laws were created to support the religious agenda.
?
2016-06-13 13:54:07 UTC
Since when is getting married only a thing for people who believe in God?
raymond m
2016-06-13 10:34:51 UTC
Marriage is not an exclusive religious act. There are far more legal, civil, and social aspects to marriage than religious ones. Think about property, taxes, child raising, survivor and inheritance, medical and financial responsibility, etc, etc.
?
2016-06-13 11:09:38 UTC
They get married because it's a secular legal contract. Religious people attach spiritual significance to it.
Archer
2016-06-13 12:02:28 UTC
You assume wrong as marriage existed long before your religion came into existence. Most people understand that there are certain privileges and entitlements accorded to married couples that are not accorded to unmarried couples.
digimutt
2016-06-13 10:49:30 UTC
Atheist need love too...and Marriage is and always was a civil contract that has religious sanction
Immune to Indoctrination
2016-06-13 08:13:51 UTC
You assume wrong. Marriage is a legal act that provides a number of benefits and protections.
2016-06-13 08:06:13 UTC
Marriage is the recognition of the union of two people by the government. So long as they recognize it, that is all that matters, you can hold a religious ceremony, declare yourself man and wife before God, all that nice stuff, but it means nothing if it has no legal recognition.
?
2016-06-13 11:51:12 UTC
They still love each other and apparently get legal and sign documents that they're married and the woman usually changes her name on everything.
¤Blackhoof Buccaneers Revenge¤
2016-06-13 11:04:13 UTC
Well you assume wrong, enough said.



Marriage has been a thing world-over for a long time and not always religious and not just your religion.
A Nonny Mouse
2016-06-13 08:08:55 UTC
Marriage is not a religious act: it's a pledge of trust, love and respect. Why do you religious nutters always make things about you and your childish beliefs.
?
2016-06-13 15:57:31 UTC
You do not get married because of religion.
numbnuts222
2016-06-13 08:08:43 UTC
When I got married it had nothing to do with religion. Not a priest in sight
Freethinking Liberal
2016-06-13 08:14:00 UTC
"Marriage (I assume) is a religious act." Sorry, you assume wrongly, marriage is the union of two people. Religion just took it over for their own ends. It is now considered a government thing.
anonymous
2016-06-13 08:20:45 UTC
They redefined the definition of marriage several years back to suite their needs. So the state can marry people without the church.
?
2016-06-13 17:07:51 UTC
Woah
Duke Nukem
2016-06-13 08:09:26 UTC
Your assumption is wrong.



Marriage is a LEGAL contract, sanctioned by the State, that establishes certain obligations and rights.



Religions tried to take ownership of it, as they try to take ownership of everything. They failed.
?
2016-06-13 08:35:19 UTC
marriage is not a religious act it is a legal civil act

theist just like to use it as an excuse to promote their myths
anonymous
2016-06-13 08:08:57 UTC
You assume incorrectly. Marriage has nothing to do with religion, it is a civil matter entirely.
?
2016-06-17 08:03:26 UTC
Marriage is not a religious act
a
2016-06-15 05:54:29 UTC
To feel secure in there relationship and have a wedding
ausblue
2016-06-14 23:16:44 UTC
marriage is a law ..like you have a licence to drive etc ..you have a licence to be a legal family..helps in the divorce courts
warmhands777
2016-06-14 11:03:18 UTC
I do not know just what religion you practice but in any religion that I know of marriage is not part of it.



It is a very common mistake that religious nut cases make when they attack something that they do not understand.
Truth
2016-06-14 06:49:46 UTC
for love
?
2016-06-14 04:42:57 UTC
First, marriage is not an act, it's an institution. A marriage ceremony is an act.



Second, marriage is a religious institution and a civil institution.
?
2016-06-14 04:16:32 UTC
Yes... It's quite a right question. If atheists think they are BEST SCIENTISTS OF WORLD. Then they should know that for children you need not be married. Stupid. Peopl...

You're quite right. I think they should be in relationship only and not get married.
?
2016-06-14 01:10:40 UTC
Marriage isn't a religious act!! Where did you get that idea?!
?
2016-06-13 18:13:51 UTC
Marriage is far more real and meaningful than gods are
anonymous
2016-06-16 17:25:00 UTC
Marriage is not a religious institution per se. In many cases there is no involvement of religion each in religious societies. It is a relevantly recent phenomenon that in Christianity religion has taken such a controlling attitude toward it. Marriage is an expression of love and commitment. Neither of those require religion.
R&S regular
2016-06-16 09:10:32 UTC
For the legal benefits of marriage.
manna eater
2016-06-16 01:36:31 UTC
Why do Christians have health insurance?
ammie
2016-06-15 18:52:24 UTC
"Marriage (I assume) is a religious act." sorry you assumed wrong.
Steve B
2016-06-15 15:10:17 UTC
People get married because they are in love.



There are legal and tax benefits.

But, those are not the main reason.



Also, one has lass rights as a live in lover.



Following your logic, no one could get married that is not in the same denomination.

If there was a deity involved, there would be no divorce.
james
2016-06-15 04:08:56 UTC
Because two people are at one with each other so much so at the time, they want to spend their lives together. It's honesty that simple, nothing to do with religion and as a side note... Marriage was around way before any religion adopted the concept.
Chris I
2016-06-14 17:48:45 UTC
Actually marriage is a legal contract that can be entered into with or without a religious ceremony. If you were to have only a religious ceremony, without filing the legal papers you would not be legally married.

When we talk about religious freedom, that includes the right to not to involve myself with any religion.
?
2016-06-14 16:16:22 UTC
Marriage may be a religious event, or not, but it's primarily a social act, and in many ways it is also a political one. It's commitment, it's adhering to social values without which there is no viable, reasonably organised society that governments can plan for.
anonymous
2016-06-14 15:59:24 UTC
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JcUz-YGYzT0



Source (s):

Youtube,..
thegreatone
2016-06-14 14:59:14 UTC
Because they are humans.
Caz
2016-06-14 14:39:12 UTC
Marriage (I assume) is a religious act.



Nope - legal status, following a legal ceremony. During said ceremony I stood up in front of my assembled nearest and dearest and told them all that I'd found the one person I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. Big white mouse in the sky didn't have anything to do with it.
Texas Czech Chick
2016-06-14 14:05:57 UTC
Well, I am a "believer" ... I really don't call myself "Christian" .... mainly because of what Ghandi said:



"I like your Christ, but I don't like your Christians, because they are so unlike your Christ"



Unfortunately, this is true in so many ways. That said: I was married by a judge, not a minister.

My marriage lasted 34 years, not including the 4 years I dated my husband before we married.

We were high school sweet hearts.... he has remarried (and my ex-husband and I are still good friends)...

however, I have no intention of remarrying. I don't feel like I need a piece of paper to be in a committed

relationship, which I happen to be in. Some would say: "You are living in sin".



I think your question about atheists is ludicrous. "Atheists" are not "bad, immoral people", well I'm sure

a few are, because there are immoral people in all walks of life no matter their belief system.



Atheists have simply chosen to not believe, but I have met an ex-atheist or 2 in my life....



I respect their right to their unbelief, I don't feel like I need to get a bible out and beat them over the

head with it.... and their unbelief has no bearing on my right to believe.



Marriage is a civil ceremony, but of course it is to many a religious ceremony as well.

Live and let live. Shalom.
?
2016-06-14 11:32:30 UTC
as an atheist may I respond. it is a declaration of love and is lawfully needed in some cases e.g. taxes.estate.wills etc plus children also will know we were fully committed to each other. we got married in a registered office to be legality married as opposed to church so no religion was mentioned.

there are definite known benefits and stability studies carried out that show that married couples do have overall better brought up and well rounded children etc.

its a way of committing to each other that is simple. honest and we do not regard having any diety / spirit. tree god etc as having any effect on us as normal human beings. we luckily have bypassed the indoctrination as children and have no fear of death as such. so no need to seek religion as a way of living beyond natural end of life.
anonymous
2016-06-14 08:34:13 UTC
I'm not religious. I got married because I love my husband and it's romantic :) When he asked me I was never so happy. I wasn't going to say, "No I'm not religious!" haha. Marriage can mean different things to different people. Nothing wrong with getting married because you love someone, it's also a smart move if you intend to stay with someone for life because it gives you lots of benefits like lower taxes.
?
2016-06-14 07:41:40 UTC
Well love is a nice thing, and marriage existed before Christianity, so it doesnt need to be religious
anonymous
2016-06-14 06:30:02 UTC
Good Lord this person is an idiot.
?
2016-06-14 04:43:08 UTC
MORE IMPORTANTLY...why do half the CHRISTIAN marriages end in divorce? don't you even give two tinkers damns about that oath? apparently not.....hypocrites.
anonymous
2016-06-14 01:31:54 UTC
It's language.
Joe
2016-06-13 20:06:58 UTC
So the poster is kind of right. In countries where religion is apart of government like Saudi Arabia, then yes marriage is a religious act.



In the United States it's not. Marriage is between two people and the state. The reason being is that we didn't elect the church to speak for us. Separation of Church and State is real, whereas your religion is not.
?
2016-06-13 19:24:33 UTC
Ask my beautiful and loving wife, or our child (either of which was not smited by a fairy tale) if they love me and enjoy the tax benefits that comes with a legal union of marriage. Not to mention the speedy marriage itself. Have you ever been to a catholic wedding? Reason enough to start doubting the faith lol.
?
2016-06-16 12:45:22 UTC
Marriage has nothing to do with religion. It's a bond between to consenting adults, who sometimes love each other or in Hollywood for political or financial gain.
True Christian
2016-06-16 07:09:45 UTC
Because the people in the future needs to be intelligent.
stephen
2016-06-16 03:34:02 UTC
Tax reasons & love.
?
2016-06-15 23:49:28 UTC
The sweet, sweet tax breaks.
Caitlin
2016-06-15 14:23:32 UTC
marriage is not religious
Periferalist
2016-06-15 09:49:05 UTC
We do it for the tax benefits.
Reese
2016-06-15 07:50:26 UTC
Because it's not strictly religious
anonymous
2016-06-15 02:56:38 UTC
Why do atheists get married? - Various reasons, but normally love.



Marriage (I assume) is a religious act. - No, it's a social contract, and has been for several thousand years, in many different cultures.



And there is no substitute for it in religion. - Irrelevant.



Then why do atheist wants to get married, instead they can just live together. - See point one.
anonymous
2016-06-14 19:27:03 UTC
People don't always see marriage as a sacrament. Some religions allow more than one wife and some allow multiple marriages and divorces so that one person might have several living spouses.

The reason people who are not religious get married are many: income tax advantages, easier to qualify for loans and mortgages, can legally make medical decisions if the spouse in incapable of doing so, children are legitimate, shared property and inheritance even when there is not will (a spouse cannot be disinherited), one spouse can be covered on the medical insurance of another and some jobs see a married man as more likely to make a long term commitment to a job as he has a family to support.

In short, marriage gives both partners many legal, financial and medical benefits.
anonymous
2016-06-14 12:48:33 UTC
Being an atheist doesn't mean you should not get married.
anonymous
2016-06-14 11:57:27 UTC
Humans are designed by their nature to be monogamous, so irrespective of religion or culture or if a bunch of babies grew in a forest without any contact to any humans to adulthood, you will still see monogamy among them. Marriage is a legal binding recognized by law and government, while 2 unmarried people (cohabitation) living without any marriage is still monogamous, as monogamy is human nature.
edie
2016-06-14 10:58:04 UTC
atheists are human being s like any one else, but their beliefs about God id different. they do't think there is a God. they have their own wordings when they get married.
RockChickx
2016-06-14 09:26:10 UTC
religious fact
anonymous
2016-06-14 07:40:37 UTC
Marriage is not a "religious act". For most of history, it did not involve a religious ceremony at all, and in many parts of the world today, a secular, civil ceremony is required while a religious ceremony is merely optional.



Marriage began as a way to raise children in the context of an orderly, well-defined, legal arrangement, since that was recognized as being better for society as a whole. It also facilitated such matters as inheritance, the orderly transfer of property. For a long time, it was largely a contract between two people, or two families, with a strongly economic justification. Even for Christians, religion didn't become regularly involved until the Middle Ages, when couples began asking priests to bless their marriages. Under the Romans, you could have a (pagan) religious ceremony if you wanted one, but it wasn't required.



Atheists marry in order to make a public statement of love and commitment, to enjoy the legal benefits of marriage, and often because they intend to have children and feel that it's best to raise children in the context of marriage, of legal commitment. In other words, they do it for the same reasons everyone else does; they just don't feel the need to involve a religious authority. Their civil marriages are just as legal and valid as any religious marriage.
?
2016-06-14 07:32:33 UTC
Same. There is no change in their thinking and our thinking. They also want to follow what we people do.
AcroBat.
2016-06-14 05:01:25 UTC
to get married.
anonymous
2016-06-13 21:32:12 UTC
f
?
2016-06-13 20:45:42 UTC
Gotta get those tax benefits son
mila
2016-06-13 18:23:09 UTC
In xtianity, marriage is approval to have sex. A relationship is so much more than just sex. But, on the other hand, if you don't know what you're getting, sexually, it could be a major source of dissatisfaction that can lead to having affairs and/or divorce. Even if the sex is good you can have intimacy problems, imagine if the sex is bad. Ew!
anonymous
2016-06-13 16:52:32 UTC
I'm atheist and I want to get married so that my partner and I can take next step in our relationship and help us draw closer to each other.
Lucinda
2016-06-16 04:41:16 UTC
You don't need to get married, couples paired off long before religion was invented.
Asha
2016-06-15 09:01:21 UTC
Its a public declaration of love.
Summer
2016-06-15 03:08:39 UTC
Marriage is a bond based on love, marriage is saying "hey I vow to love you and only you forever" along with the other promises we make suck as "for sickness n health"

"Rich or poor"

Kinda like promise rings but the next level ****
?
2016-06-14 23:38:05 UTC
"Marriage (I assume) is a religious act"? Why not stop assuming and actually research it? Your religion doesn't own marriage. Neither does any other religion. Marriage existed way before a lot of religions. It is a civil contract. That's why you need a registrar at your wedding. The religious ceremony is optional.



And to answer your specific question, atheists get married for the same reason as anyone else. Because they've found a partner they want to commit to. Why is a religion necessarily involved in that?
bluewinedog
2016-06-14 21:02:06 UTC
two dummies
La Noire
2016-06-14 20:03:09 UTC
Even though they do not believe in anything supernatural or of any of that sort, they are still human beings with souls. They have the right to get married. Though, they believe in love. Because love is for everyone, we just need to know how to find the right one correctly to love.
Dhruv
2016-06-14 15:11:05 UTC
Sex bro.

Simple as that.
anonymous
2016-06-14 14:32:36 UTC
marriage is not a religious act. It's a contract,it's a legal act
rory
2016-06-14 09:02:59 UTC
To us it's not a religious act it's just when two people love each other so much they want to stay together for life (or in some cases money)
?
2016-06-14 06:27:02 UTC
they want to
anonymous
2016-06-14 04:30:54 UTC
Marriage use to be a religious event but now it's a type of ego people use to show they are fully together and committed despite people will still refuse it's religious because it is
Sly Phi AM
2016-06-14 02:57:55 UTC
"Marriage (I assume) is a religious act..."



you assume wrong.
The Football God
2016-06-14 01:51:33 UTC
Community property law.
?
2016-06-14 01:30:00 UTC
Marriage is an act of state not religion, there is no religious requirement in the ceremony in the UK. I got married because I love my wife and to show that I wish to spend the rest of my life with her. I had no religious reason for doing so, there are fringe tax benefits and obviously medical and death rights that a spouse gains that a co-habiting couple does not automatically get.
daicactus
2016-06-14 01:28:08 UTC
Marriage is not a religious act. In fact religion has moved in on marriage to influence and direct the patterns of marriage since the early medieval period. The royal dynastic direction of Europe is a prime example of religious manipulation.
anonymous
2016-06-14 00:03:10 UTC
because they love their spouse
anonymous
2016-06-13 23:41:46 UTC
Marriage (I assume) is a religious act.



Well, you assume incorrectly. The rest of your question is moot.
☯≈♥∞☼
2016-06-13 23:39:02 UTC
legal benefits.
?
2016-06-13 22:04:35 UTC
Good question. but it can be for legal,economic and family stuff as well not just religion plus the love bond to one specific person is something very special to most.
?
2016-06-13 18:55:37 UTC
In most Western countries, marriage is a legal contract under civil law. It doesn't matter whether you are religious or not. Like any person who marries someone, they want to spend their life with their partner.
anonymous
2016-06-16 10:36:38 UTC
Wrong. Religion is not a religious act. I love how Christians try to say Christianity created marriage, when it didn't. Marriage was originally pagan and was called "Handfasting"
?
2016-06-16 07:19:41 UTC
According to the Bible, when God created a partner for Adam He created Eve—not another Adam. This means that perfect partnership requires some level of difference as well as a level of similarity so great that Adam could cry out loudly, ”This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh”. Sexual intimacy between a man and a woman is the normal method of male/female bonding (emotionally and physically) because it corresponds to the design of our bodies and because it is the normal means by which offspring are created.

If God had intended the human race to be fulfilled through both heterosexual and homosexual marriage, (homosexuals and lesbians alike want children) He would have designed our bodies to allow reproduction through both means and made both means of sexual intercourse healthy and natural. Homosexual anal intercourse carries a high risk of disease, this is recognized in Scripture where gay men are said to receive in their bodies the due penalty for their error (Romans 1:27). Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God.”

—1 Corinthians 6:9-10 (NKJV)
casey
2016-06-16 07:14:52 UTC
Marriage is more a legally binding type of thing to an atheist technically. Not a religious thing
?
2016-06-15 23:29:12 UTC
Marriage is a legally binding contract between a male and a female.



The church wedding you imagine = a marriage is nothing more than a pantomime to the legal world.



You could go through your pantomime every day for the rest of your life and you still wouldn't be married until you filled out the legal papers and had them registered.



So, bottom line, MARRIAGE HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOUR GOD IT'S ALL ABOUT THE LEGAL SYSTEM.
?
2016-06-15 18:39:59 UTC
what the heck dude????? that is absolutely ridiculous. getting married in a church is religious. marriage is simply an act of commitment and love that doesn't rely on religion! It is also a legal measure.
?
2016-06-15 08:17:05 UTC
Actually marriage is a spiritual and legal act. To say you love your best friend or BFFE( Best Friend Forever & Ever) or BFF ( Best Friend Forever) or till death &/or forever. Usually a boyfriend/girlfriend. But mostly, so you can reproduce and take care of each other.
Who
2016-06-15 07:12:28 UTC
"Marriage (I assume) is a religious act"



You assume wrong - its always been a civil act



it was a "contract" between 2 people - it was only given to the church to administer the oaths required to complete the contract



In fact in most western countries the actual marriage does not take place in the church, it takes place when the couple sign the register outside the actual church AND the witnesses sign to say they have witnessed the couple agree to the vows required by the contract



i.e Until you sign the register legally no marriage has taken place
?
2016-06-14 23:20:46 UTC
Marriage never was about faith. It originally started as a form of keeping power in the Houses. Where often time marriages were arranged not out of love, but to keep the power within that House.
anonymous
2016-06-14 19:01:56 UTC
wouup
anonymous
2016-06-14 07:50:57 UTC
Atheists get married at approved Richard Dawkins churches, their one true God.
R.
2016-06-14 06:53:53 UTC
Marriage isn't a religious act. In fact, it has nothing to do with religion. Do some reading on the origins of the whole concept of marriage first.
?
2016-06-14 04:41:13 UTC
lol....if it were "religious" in nature we WOULDN T NEED a LICENSE....here s a hint....christians didn t invent the concept. and lastly god(s) are NOT a requirement to marry.
Willie
2016-06-13 19:31:18 UTC
For sex like everyone else.
?
2016-06-13 12:05:14 UTC
your assumtion is wrong uk laws have the monopoly on marrage im atheist and been marreid longer than most theists. Divorce is rampant amongst theists
?
2016-06-13 08:03:49 UTC
>"Marriage (I assume) is a religious act"

Well, there's your problem. Marriage is a civil act with civil benefits. Hope that clears things up for you.
Charles Veidt
2016-06-13 08:08:58 UTC
Marriage is an act of commitment, which can be pledged regardless of religion.
Ron
2016-06-13 12:01:32 UTC
Love!
Gary B
2016-06-13 11:26:46 UTC
Marriage is a LEGAL act, order by society for purposes of fiscal responsibility (who pays for the kids, who pays the medical bills).



I t CAN be blessed by God, god, gods, or no god, as your own personal theology dictates.
Fantom
2016-06-13 08:05:45 UTC
Marriage, also called matrimony or wedlock, is a socially or ritually recognized union or legal contract between spouses that establishes rights and obligations between them, between them and their children, and between them and their in-laws.
anonymous
2016-06-13 08:15:08 UTC
Assumptions and intuition when examined are occasionally false. Apply thought and analysis to yours.
Say No to Castor Oil!
2016-06-13 09:28:19 UTC
Marriage doesn't have to be religious.
anonymous
2016-06-13 08:16:37 UTC
So which religion owns marriage? Of course yours, isn't it?
anonymous
2016-06-13 08:04:15 UTC
It's part of our culture, symbolic of their commitment, and tax benefits
anonymous
2016-06-13 08:04:33 UTC
Umm because they can..when you become a dictator of a country then you can make all the rules
Dogstar Ascendant
2016-06-13 08:06:30 UTC
"Marriage (I assume) is a religious act."



Fell at the first fence there, didn't you?
anonymous
2016-06-13 08:13:31 UTC
legal reasons
GTB
2016-06-13 08:04:04 UTC
Marriage is a religious act and a civil act.
anonymous
2016-06-13 08:12:08 UTC
to make food to get
anonymous
2016-06-13 15:10:16 UTC
I didn't know they were prohibited.
Adam
2016-06-13 08:05:08 UTC
You assume wrong.
?
2016-06-13 08:06:11 UTC
bc they are in love
anonymous
2016-06-13 08:04:36 UTC
gay marriage is legal
anonymous
2016-12-01 14:58:48 UTC
bj,bl,klnkln
anonymous
2016-06-13 13:39:16 UTC
:)


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