I'm in love with a mormon missionary.?

Question

I'm a girl live in Japan, 18 years old. I met a Mormon missionary 2 months ago, he is from the USA, and he is my age.

I know it happens a lot, but I'm in love with him...so I would like to tell him how I feel about him, but is it alright?(I'm going to write a letter to him)
I just want to let him know about my feelings. I don't except his reply.(can he reply?)
If I can give him a letter, what should I write? May I say "I like you"?
If I tell him about my feelings, he will have to go other area?(transferred)

I'm not a Mormon, but I know the rules of missionaries.
Please everyone! I need answers!!!

Answer 1

Missionary is so boring.

Answer 2

He cannot reply. That would be against one of the many rules of the mission field.

If you write this letter, expect all contact to be cut off. Expect him to be transferred to another area, and you won't see him again.

This young man is in full-time service to the Lord. He cannot be distracted by relationships with young women, and non-proselytizing contact is not allowed. Don't put him in a bad position by writing this letter.

Answer 3

Expressing your feelings in a letter should be fine. You need to understand that he is there to serve a mission and his focus will be there till the remainder of his term. He will be transferred regularly every 3-6 month never the less. Its perfectly fine to write. Ask if him if that would be ok to stay in touch. If there is something there, he would most likelywant to return after his mission. Take it real slow, so you dont blow the poor guys mind...They are wonderful young men.

Answer 4

I am Mormon, and telling him would just stop all contact with him because he will be transferred and you will get different set of missionaries. You can wait until he is gone to tell him or wait until he is home.

Answer 5

If you tell him you like or love him, he will almost certainly be transferred to another location. Rather swiftly.

You are, of course, free to do so. It's likely nothing but a transfer will ever come of it.

However, it's possible he could get back in touch with you after his mission, and something could come of it...but unless you join the mormon church (or get him to leave), it's very unlikely he'll be interested in you.



Gambatte!

Answer 6

>I'm not a Mormon, but I know the rules of missionaries.



Then you know the answers.

Answer 7

I fell in love with a missionary too.He is so nice and friendly, that I can t control myself to like him. But I know,it is very selfish to tell him that I like him. It s unfair to him. And I know,there must be a right girl who has the same language same culture with him in his hometown. What I can do now is to support him,and don t let him know about my mind. I thank God again and again for bringing him to my life. It is my fate to meet him,which makes me very happy.That s enough.

Answer 8

Wait until his mission is over. Missionaries are NOT allowed to correspond with sisters in their fields of labor.



You say you "know the rules of missionaries." Please follow them, then. The missionary is not going to want to love someone who selfishly does "not follow the rules."

Answer 9

If he's a good missionary he'll be upset by that letter, it's best to wait until he comes home.

Answer 10

Get back in touch with him after he's finished. Mormons are very serious about their missions, so they aren't supposed to date people while they're serving.

Answer 11

you are fascinated you are dreaming you are in PUPPY LOVE (look it up)



don't wreck his career by projecting your fantasy on him.



If you really want a relationship with him, ask him to meet. Introduce him to your family. Let him get to know you and fall in love with you, THEN tell him Guess what I'm in love with you - I already was when I invited you t.o meet my family!



He'll think you've intivted him to talk about Mormon, and you can see what he's like with them

Answer 12

Men are week,what you do insted of writing him a letter,just be closer to him & show him eyes of love he will fall in love with you

Answer 13

Is it alright to tell someone else your feelings of love for them? Of course it is. Any person or organization telling you otherwise should be regarded with some suspicion.

Answer 14

Society has rules. They give is structure. Its how things work. Obedience in society is what gives it regulation and order. Please dont' screw it up.

Answer 15

You know he's only interested in converting you to his cult, right?

Answer 16

you should forget him and then wait a little while to savour how glad you will be that you did

Answer 17

Well, sooner or later you'll find 3 more wives.