The christian guy hates me for being agnostis...help?

Question

Theres this guy named ed. He is always putting me down for my weight and for being agnostis. He calls me stupid for believeing what i believe in. I get really pissed..plus he hates everything bout me, like how i love anime, play acoustic not eletric, how im bisexual. He jus loathes me. Ive trying saying not to judge me because thats not what god wants, that god wants us to be good to each other. He is jus sooo judgemental and if its not this way than its jus stupid and retarded if any ones elses opinion is gestard. Its also kinda a jock vs. Geek/nerd. Hes the bouy jock and im the girl geek. He jus gets under my skin. Hes gona keep mocking me and my way of life til i "join"
his way. Im no follower and im the first girl that has to him to stop being a hypocrit. Some help on how to deal W/him. Oh and jus ignoring him jus makes him of a jerk cuz he wnt stop running his mouth. Any one plz help cuz im sick of dealing W/his closed mind and i want to make him see his wrong actions....but how...

Answer 1

Religious people can be some of the most hateful bigoted people around.



Just avoid those types of losers.

Answer 2

First off, there is basically no way to change another human's personality. Nothing you say or do to this boy will make him change because he thinks that he is right and you are wrong. From what I can see, there's simply no way to convince him that you are entitled to your own opinion. He is obviously young and ignorant if he thinks he should be pushing is beliefs onto people. There are 6 billion people in the World and no two are the same. He will learn this in time. Personally, I'm having trouble understanding why you even communicate with this person. You don't like him and he obviously doesn't like you or anything you believe in. Stop thinking about his opinion of you and focus on your own self. This. Guy. Does. Not. Matter. And within time, you'll forget he even existed. By the way, it's 'Agnostic'. Good luck.

Answer 3

As one of the previous responses mentioned, Ed isn't being very faithful to God. I hope that you won't in turn judge Christians based on him - unfortunately, the followers (myself included) are very imperfect and sometimes represent Jesus very poorly.



I don't know if you can show someone like this that they're acting really badly. It takes time and maturity - and even then, some people stay that way forever. I do think that if you don't really react to him or pay much attention to him, that he'll lay off a bit. I'm not saying ignore him - in fact, that might make him get on your case more - but just take what he says with a grain of salt. And personally, I might react with sarcastic or self-deprecating humor - but that's just how I am.

Answer 4

It is sad that this person named Ed claims to be a Christian and then he turns around and treats you and probably other people like this. I am a christian woman and I try to treat everyone equal and except everyone for who they are not what they are. If he is truely this mean and closed minded as you say nothing that you try to do or say to him will do any good. People like this rarely change. Please do not change who you are or what you believe in. Be true to your self. Dont ever resort to Ed's way either, dont start name calling and making fun of him for any reason, By doing that you are lowering your self to his level. Just tell him that you do not wish to speak to him on personal matters and until he can learn some respect for you and people who have different opinions that his, you really can not associate with him. I hope this will help you and I am truely sorry for what you are going through. Just remember Ed is only one person, we are not all like him. There are lots of us that except people for who they are and not for what they are or how they look. I have been made fun of in my life for my beliefs, for my weight and where I grew up. I have learned over the years that people who make fun of others usually have no self-esteam and problems too. Just you be the better person. Hold your head up high and be proud of who you are. Stay true to your self.

Answer 5

that's stupid to hate any crew of folk in its entirety. i'm no longer quite non secular, yet i do not techniques that they are, or that they refer to me about it. i imagine some thing that helps someone be a extra useful human being is a sturdy element. I grew up with Sunday college, and it helped me learn about properly and incorrect and the thanks to cope with people. what kind of playlist? in case you ever use Limewire, attempt surfing with the help of song sort. i have got here upon a good sort of neat stuff that way.

Answer 6

Bullying sucks. If he is using words to "mock" you, sit down and think about his "arguments" - if he is wrong, tell him exactly, in minute detail, why he is wrong. And keep doing it. One thing theists of his ilk can't stand is having his beliefs questioned in a sound, rational manner.

Answer 7

go up, knee him in the gonads and tell him to F### OFF. If it is at school, lie and tell one of your teachers that he keeps touching your breasts. Sometimes it is best to just step up to bullies and deal with them in mean ways

Answer 8

He probably has low self esteem. He needs to pick on you to feel better about himself.

Answer 9

You will soon be a Christian.

Answer 10

I can't stand your agnostis either.

Answer 11

Maybe he hates you because you don't know basic English?