Question:
If God’s real, why did He let such bad things happen to me?
anonymous
2018-04-13 18:14:16 UTC
I’ve been raped, molested, psychically and verbally abused, manipulated, and there a plenty more. My life sucks. I’ve been raised Catholic, but I’m having trouble believing there’s someone up there letting all that happen. If He’s real, why would He let that happen?
84 answers:
?
2018-04-16 14:39:16 UTC
God isn't real. He's part of a belief system, but I believe that you misunderstand that belief system. And that's not your fault. It's due to the many contradictions that exist around belief systems. God is good and kind. Or, God is wrathful and punishes wrongdoing. God will help you if you pray to him. God leaves you with free will to sort out your own problems. Take your pick. Mix and match them as you will. That's what religion has done. And it was all with the desire to have someone in control of us, not only 'on high', but as a means of controlling your behaviour here on earth.
fixerken
2018-04-15 22:46:31 UTC
If Christendom's clergy would teach what the Bible really says you would know this answer and would never ask it! People ask all the time, "why does bad things happen to good people?" The clergy has people believing what happens to them is being done by God, they ignore this scripture! (1 John 5:19) We know that we originate with God, but the whole world is lying in the power of the wicked one.

When things go wrong and something bad happens they tell you to pray, nothing wrong with that it's what they tell you when your prayers do not work! They say you must have done something really bad for this to happen, you didn't pray hard enough, or you didn't give enough to the church! They are full of it because they are part of what Satan the wicked one controlls! The scriptures tell us "Time and unforeseen circumstances befall us all"!

The scriptures speak of a better time when all maters will be set straight, This will happen during Christ thousand reign after Armageddon! This is the Good news being preached about now! (Matt 24:14;2 Tim 4:2)

The Bible has an outline on what is going to happen, this outline is under God's direction and everyone that knows it by getting factual truths recored in the Bible know that man is responsible for our condition here on earth, Adam chose to believe Satan over God so when Adam sinned all his decendants are under sin! Gen 3:15 the first prophecy recored says God will put enmity between the true congregation(symbolized as God's wife-the women) and Satan(the great dragon) Satan's offspring would be wounded in the head, it's a death blow! It happened when Christ died, (Jesus founded the Christian belief, his followers are called the bride class) Jesus was only bruised in the heel, he was resurrected on the 3rd day!

Everything that has happened to you will be set right when God's Kingdom ruled by Christ comes (Dan 2:44), death and the grave will be done away with (Rev 20:14) All tears and all bad things will no longer be (Rev 21:3-4)

Christendom's fals clergy will be no more but until that happens we need to learn as much as we can (John 17:3) so that we will be among those that come out of the great tribulation (Armageddon) (Rev 7:9,14) 9 After this I saw, and look! a great crowd, which no man was able to number, out of all nations and tribes and peoples and tongues, standing before the throne and before the Lamb, dressed in white robes; and there were palm branches in their hands. 14 So right away I said to him: “My lord, you are the one who knows.” And he said to me: “These are the ones who come out of the great tribulation, and they have washed their robes and made them white in the blood of the Lamb.
sk8terboy1963
2018-04-15 22:28:40 UTC
Faith is not, and has never been a pathway to truth. Faith is gullibility at best. Putting your 'faith' into something that cannot be proved through proof and evidence is setting yourself up for all kinds of bad and nasty things to happen to you. Trusting in any deity to keep you from harm is pure folly. I am not being mean, just stating the facts...... you are partly responsible for what has happened to you. You need to use reason, logic and common sense to make better choices for yourself. Otherwise your life will be filled with more of what you have already gone through.
antonius
2018-04-15 19:17:16 UTC
The god that believers pray to does not exist, nor does the Jesus character. Gods and religions were invented to control the ignorant. You need to be more careful about the people you hang with and that will help you.
?
2018-04-14 13:49:00 UTC
God is the good in the universe. People are basically good but are immersed in ignorance.



There is only one good, knowledge, and one evil, ignorance. _ Socrates
wynnmanners
2018-04-14 09:08:37 UTC
Yours is a Good Question... and most people have probably asked it at one or more points in their lives. It's been asked here *lots* of times.



Has he stopped bad things from happening to anyone *else* upon this world? Did he stop Jesus from being crucified? Why would you expect him to make a single special exception of *you* compared to every *other* human across all of human history?!



Your basic quesion is: Why do bad things happen to good people? This is a question humans have been asking for as long as humans have lived and have thought about these matters.



Biblically, the book of Job addresses that question. i don't think it comes-thru with any *real* answers (at least of a satisfactory nature, to *my* view).



i don't think a satisfactory answer exists in the Bible *or* in the Qu'ran -- and i seriously doubt you'll get an *accurately* satisfactory answer from any of the Christians, because they've got a false theology, rooted in their concepts of "God" based upon the Old Testament God -- who never *has* been the *real* God.



My answer (written about 17 years ago) is here:



http://cosmicwind.net/800/Cmwl/WynnProse/WhySuffering.html



i get *tired* of doing repeats...



If you really want to know what my answer is (it's unlikely that anyone else here has provided that kind of answer) then check it out!



Personally i'm getting *weary* (again) of the repetitiousness in the Religion & Spirituality section of *Yahoo Answers* and feel like it's time for me (if i am *wise*) to leave here for at least a month... better a year... perhaps best, *never* return, because i think, overall, i'm really *wasting* my time here... but, recurrently, i get the urge, again, to *try* to be a bit helpful relative to *serious* questions being asked from genuine Seekers of the Truth.



It can be a *rough* life on this world. Circumstances here are often *cruel*.



Jesus once told me, "When you die, you have a *choice*." Unfortunately i didn't hear what the choices *were*! (If i were actually a "liar" like a number of atheists accuse me here, i'd make some up, rather than admitting what i *don't* know!)



i *believe* one of those choices is that you can *reincarnate* here -- but you don't *have* to. You have to *choose* to. (If you don't, that's fine! There are all manner of animal souls who *want* to come back as a human. i could *clearly* see that our late dog, Ebony, definitely wanted to be *human*!)



So i *believe* that *you* chose this incarnation that you're dealing with... thus finally it's for *you* to determine *why* you did so. Really no one else can *define* that for you. Part of your reason for *being* here is to define it for *yourself* -- and then *fulfill* it!



All i can assure you of is that all the awful things that have happened to you are going to *help* you define that reason... and enable you to *better* set about fulfilling your life's *purpose* for being here.



The dreadful experiences you have *had* will enable you to deeply, *compassionately* understand all others who have had similar experiences, which, of course, will *qualify* you to insightfully *help* them, once you define the answers for *yourself*. Most likely that's why you have had those experiences.



From my own personal experience i was asking the Biblical God for Answers for about 35 *years* and he never spoke a word to me! But as soon as i started asking *Goddess* for the Answers, *She* communicated to me (telepathically). After that Jesus started communicating with me, Mary Magdalene did likewise, and Goddess "connected me up" with the *real* Heavenly Father (*not* the Biblical "God") and *He* explained a few things to me. After all of *that* the Biblical "God" started trying to deceive me! -- and threatened the lives of my children.



My life has been an *interesting* "Spiritual Odyssey" -- at least to me! -- as i look back over the past 75 years.



To anyone and everyone i say: *Don't* seek the answers from the Biblical God or *his* book. He gives too many false answers. Don't seek them in the Qu'ran. Go to *Sophia*, Goddess Herself, Jesus's Divine *Mother*, the real Holy Spirit; for *She* truly loves you; She'll teach you everything you *need* to learn, once you establish genuine *communion* with Her. You won't need *any* answers from Yahoo Answers after *that* relationship is established.



My website -- Cosmic Mother, Wisdom's Lovers -- is in *service* to Her -- as are 2 of my Facebook pages (the other two being in service to Mary Magdalene, Jesus's *wife* -- of whom Jesus once told me, "We're *married*. It's *not* going away.")
anonymous
2018-04-14 07:03:28 UTC
Edgar Cayce lectures/readings (YouTube), gospel of St. Thomas, Gnostic gospels,will explain that in a way that makes sense,not the "edited" version of the Bible after the Council of Constantinople, though.Karma and reincarnation were originally part of the Bible, and they are concepts which explain what happens to us "souls"(because that's what we are, "spiritual beings having a human experience",as some people put it) while we sojourn on this planet, even all the bad and "unfair" things which happen to us.Everything that happens is a learning experience for our souls, and this earth is where we must learn the lessons.And sometimes the lessons just seem unfair and random.But they really aren't.It all makes sense when you look at it from this other perspective of karma and reincarnation (a.k.a."metempsychosis", transmigration of the soul, etc.)"There are no accidents" (even Freud said this, I believe) in this life.There are choices and free will; also karma and predestination. A mixture
?
2018-04-14 03:05:29 UTC
When our son was diagnosed with cancer, my husband said: "How can this happen to US"?



I said, "Why not to us? We're no better than anyone else."
Smartassawhip
2018-04-14 01:46:03 UTC
You ask a really hard question. I am 75 y/o and have been in constant pain and 100% disabled for almost 20 years. Yet I know that God loves me and that all of this happened for a reason. Some people believe that when we were in Heaven before we were born that we volunteered to have this happen so that perfection could be restored in God's Creation. Why did Jesus have to suffer so much to have our sins forgiven? Maybe God will explain these things to us after we return to Heaven. God bless you.
Bobby Jim
2018-04-13 20:39:16 UTC
God is showing you what life in the world is like. He tells Believers to "come out a remain separate" from the world. Your living and working environments are not easy, nor healthy spiritually. I see some changes and some repentance in your future. Take a step in faith, and watch how God can change your life. When you've had enough, reach out to Him.
anonymous
2018-04-17 00:14:56 UTC
Since Jehovah God is the Creator of all things and is almighty, many people hold him responsible for everything that takes place in the world, including all that is bad. However, consider what the Bible says about the true God:

“Jehovah is righteous in all his ways.”—Psalm 145:17.

“All his [God’s] ways are justice. A God of faithfulness who is never unjust; righteous and upright is he.”—Deuteronomy 32:4.

“Jehovah is very tender in affection and merciful.”—James 5:11.



God does not cause bad things to happen, but they are allowed to happen. The primary cause of wickedness, is not man. Satan the Devil, originally a faithful angel of God, “did not stand fast in the truth” and brought sin into the world. He instigated a rebellion in the garden of Eden. Jesus Christ called him “the wicked one” and “the ruler of the world.” Mankind in general follow Satan by heeding his urgings to ignore the good ways of Jehovah. “The whole world is lying in the power of the wicked one,” says 1 John 5:19. To find out more about why wickedness is allowed to happen and what will be done about it soon. I encourage you to view the source material.
Jeancommunicates
2018-04-16 18:51:57 UTC
You are living an ancestral curse caused by the sins of your ancestors and no one in your family has broken the curse. Get out of the Catholic Church and get into a good Bible Study group. God didn't leave His word, the Holy Bible, for man to interpret it for you. It is an unlearned person that has not read God's word. Henry Wright wrote "A More Excellent Way." Get his book and read it and it will show you how to break curses. You are blaming God for the sins of your ancestors. By becoming a mature Christian you will be protecting your children. In the Garden of Eden, Adam and Eve chose to listen to Satan instead of listening to God. This is where sin began. God lets us choose to follow Him or follow Satan and sin. God is very real. I want you to remember one verse of Scripture, Jeremiah 33:3 KJV "Call unto Me and I will answer thee and show thee great and mighty things which thou knowest not."



Since you are Catholic, it is worthless to call upon Mary, when you can go boldly to throne of God with your prayers. No where in scripture does it tell us to pray to anyone but God and Jesus was God in human flesh who gave us the Lord's Prayer in Scripture.
?
2018-04-15 23:44:27 UTC
I have the greatest sympathy for your struggles. If faith is an important thing in your life and you don't want to lose it, maybe you should seek out a spiritual advisor like a priest or deacon to help you with your questions? Stay strong!
Peter
2018-04-15 17:00:27 UTC
Jesus Christ said," i am from above, he is from below"

you got people go to the devil even inadvertantly...without realising so.

Too many of us suffer in the world.

some were imprisoned for belief in the God of the Bible. Torah then.



The bible people persecuted, hated at times, imprisoned for silly things.

Yah, Yahsua was likely back

whipped too(see Isaiah 53). Stripes are the skin ribbons.

The Lord side stabbed too after the spikes in body installed.

seem death would defeat his purpose of resurrection.

Did not since satan would be defeated with the resurrection of Jesus Christ.



Jesus Christ of Nazareth , son of the Living God or God of the bible had to pay the price

or ransom for us.











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Saad M
2018-04-15 14:37:21 UTC
God has traced the path of good and evil while commanding to do good and to banish evil.
?
2018-04-15 13:14:48 UTC
I don't believe in god, but if he does exist God has over 7 billion people to look after and is trying his best.
shaniqua--always---real
2018-04-15 07:08:38 UTC
Because you must serve the one true GOD and Catholic is not it in my opinion. But let's say Catholic is the way and our God that we serve is a Catholic- type God do you know that they love molesting and raping children . Fornicating with adult woman and they would say that they do so in in name of God thank God commanded them to do so that it was the work of God way and that is the Finger of God that's a lot of stuff to do so and if that's all true which I do not dispute nobody nor debate but I would see the connection between your upbringing and the truth of what Catholics teaches use of a false god and nothing will happen but pain and death.We must serve a real God and that God is Not propaganda or religion I've had a very similar experience in the childhood however I never blame God though or never seen less of God for it when I realize that the man could have killed me I've seen more of God and it was very easy for me to find him others turn away.
anonymous
2018-04-15 04:17:54 UTC
If I were to let an infant drown in the bathtub, theists would want my head on a platter. Why? Because adults are bigger, stronger and less ignorant than infants. Likewise a fully grown human being would probably be like an infant to an omnipotent, omniscient, omnipresent deity. So you must ask yourself why we are expected to exercise our free will responsibly but your deity is not. Would you snap your fingers and eliminate all rape and acts of violence if it was possible? I would. I have directly intervened to prevent harm from occurring to other people. Your deity is either unwilling, unable or nonexistent. There are absolutely no acceptable excuses for an all powerful deity to stand by idly if it's omnibenevolent.



I'm terribly sorry for your dreadful experiences. What can we do to help make your life better? Ask a deity if you wish. But don't expect tangible results.
?
2018-04-15 03:09:53 UTC
Have you ever read the story of Job? He is the most faithful of God's followers. He lost his entire family, all of his riches, and had painful boils on his skin from head to toe with worms coming out of them. His wife finally said to him, "Are you still maintaining your integrity? Curse God and die!" To which Job replied, "you are talking like a foolish woman. Should we accept only good from God, and not trouble?" I believe that the people who have it the hardest in life are the ones whom God has the most faith in. He never gives you more than you can handle, and every person can say, "I fell once, but I got back up again." That's the important thing to focus on. Try focusing less on what has happened that hurt you, and more on how much stronger a person you've become. At the end of Job's story, God doubled all Job's losses and blessed him greater the 2nd time. Accept Jesus as your savior, and your blessings will surely come. It's the after life where true joy exists. God Bless you.
Sheltie Lover
2018-04-15 02:43:35 UTC
First: Please try to keep in mind that God started humans out as perfect beings. ...It was his purpose for that to be out permanent state of existence. . Most people know about Eve's mistake and Adams sin as recorded in the Bible. Suffering came into existence when our first human ancestors lost perfection by disobeying God one original rule. "Do not eat from the tree in the middle of the Garden".



As you are well aware, bad things can and do happen to good people. Why does God let those things happen? To get an idea, read the Book Of Job.
Kerry
2018-04-15 02:06:33 UTC
I'm so sorry all of this has happened to u.. God don't make the decisions for your life.. You only have urself to rely on for that. I wish u a brighter future.
Disciple of Truth
2018-04-14 22:52:14 UTC
God is generous in sharing authority (with purpose). It sounds like someone who was over you abused or neglected that authority. God knows and cares. Many like to speak of His mercy, but justice is also an important aspect of God too.
Alan H
2018-04-14 11:06:35 UTC
We live in a fallen world.

Human free will is often used amiss.

You have my sympathy for all you have gone through.

But where would you draw the line were God to restrict free will?

God suffers along with you.....Jesus is proof of that
Dhia
2018-04-14 10:21:26 UTC
These are all tests, you will be rewarded in the after life
Otto
2018-04-13 18:50:54 UTC
God is real !

Humans are to blame for much of the suffering.

They fight wars, commit crimes , pöllute the environment.



Is it reasonable to blame God for these things that humans themselves do ?
jon pike
2018-04-13 18:34:42 UTC
"Life breaks everyone. Some are stronger at the broken places." -- Ernest Hemingway.



The purpose of life is to serve the Lord with gladness, praise, and thanksgiving. Our experiences are all to frequently a result of sin, ours and the sins of others. Remember "where you're from is not who you are."
anonymous
2018-04-13 18:31:25 UTC
#1 God knows about your problems, but is powerless to do anything about them.



#2 God can do something about your problems, but chooses not to.



#3. God doesn’t exist.



You have to choose one.
anonymous
2018-04-13 18:30:09 UTC
You've just hit the nail on the head, friend. It doesn't make sense for someone who is all-loving to put humans through the kind of stuff you've been through. But hey, whether there's a God or not, there will always be good humans in this world to turn to in times of good and bad.
Uncle Travus Top Pen Kuiper
2018-04-13 18:21:00 UTC
Why don't you accept the Seal of God According to 2 Timothy 2:19 by admitting that Jesus Christ is your Help? C:D
anonymous
2018-04-13 18:16:52 UTC
God is real. And I'm sorry that you've been through so much.
?
2018-04-16 23:31:38 UTC
Wow! In a situation such as yours, it is only normal for you to feel some confusion, hurt, or even anger against God. However, always remember: "Bad Things Do Not Come From God." Was it not God that gave you the strength to coped with the horrible trials and tribulations that you went through? God is real!

Of course, experiencing bad things is never pleasant. Constantly remind yourself that God will remedy the problem very soon. Why, all traces of the bad things you have experienced will eventually be erased! (Isaiah 65:17; 1 John 3:8)
?
2018-04-16 21:36:19 UTC
I'm going to tell you the truth you will not like this but oh well . People are in control of their own actions . There is nothing controlling you but your subconscious mind . That's where you get your desires from . you are program by your past experiences .
?
2018-04-16 14:07:59 UTC
Likely you were send to do something here and thus apparently many are out to stop you, twist your brain and or to destroy any love in your heart, in order to make you just like them (dead inside) to prevent you from reaching your goal.

Hope you recognize the warrior in you. You went through the fire:

Everything was done to you... and yet you are still standing there, angry as hell. :)

Good!! Use your rage to get away from that swamp of misery.

Sharpen your intelligence to ensure you won't ever have to deal with similar patterns again and to secure your future prosperity.



Remember: Every smile you have is a Victory over those who aimed to destroy you!



*Understand the smiles might be a bit crazed in the beginning, but it will get better once you gain more and more control over your own life.
?
2018-04-15 18:38:25 UTC
Don't worry. Last night I gave god 7 rock bottoms and 7 stunners
anonymous
2018-04-15 13:10:54 UTC
Takes a long long time for perspective.



From experience I can tell you that torture is not off the table if it gets you to repent for the salvation of your soul.



If you want your suffering to to stop then get on your knees in transperant honesty and sincerely cry out for mercy admitting YOUR OWN guilt. Do at not, and things will get worse and worse. I guarantee it.
?
2018-04-15 11:12:21 UTC
If " God's real , WHY did "HE" let such bad "THINGS" happen to me ? .. the question may be a representation of CONDITIONING of use of " PERSONIFICATION " and ABSTRACT THINKING . that Religions promote



RELIGIONS ( per sociology & anthropology ) . is a CULTURAL System of "DIRECTED" behaviors and practices world view ( COGNITIVE ORIENTATION ) sacred places DOCTRINE ( text / oral ) ethics of SOCIETAL organizations that promote IDEAS & CONCEPTS termed SUPERNATURAL & TRANSCENDENTAL .



..SUPERNATURAL ie promotion of NON MATERIAL " beings places and states "



ABSTRACT THINKING ABSTRACTION is the " INDUCTION " of IDEAS or the synthesis of particular facts in to ONE general theory about something, it is the opposite of SPECIFICATION which is the analysis or breaking down of a general IDEA or abstraction into CONCRETE...



. studies show Children develop abstract thinking between the age 11 to 16 There are 4 STAGES of Cognitive development



auditory processes are necessary for good READING SKILLS is developed between ages 5 to 7 LOGIC and reasoning also becomes more established at age 5 as the child is better at making connections between IDEAS



... Stage # 1 Birth - age 2 Sensory motor . the child explores the world by SENSES and touch manipulation of objects



Stage # 2 PREOPERATIONAL ( age 2 to 7 ) develop memory & IMAGINATION able to understand things SYMBOLICALLY and understand the ideas of past and future



Stage # 3 CONCRETE OPERATIONAL stage ( age 7 to 11 ) become aware of EXTERNAL events as well as FEELINGS other than their OWN They become less EGOCENTRIC and begins to understand not everyone shares their thoughts BELIEFS or FEELINGS



Stage # 4 FORMAL operational stage ( age 11 on ) Child should be able to use LOGIC and to PROBLEM SOLVE view the world around them and plan for ones future ....



.. reviewing child development one can see why RELIGIONS target Children especially from Birth ......



. unfortunately Specifically " CHRISTIANITY " has NO DETERRENTS ..



even with the Concept of " HELL " .... that is NOT for CHRISTIANS that is a TOOL for them to use on NON CHRISTIANS for COERCION .



... CHRISTIANITY has the concept of EXEMPT aka a MULLIGAN FREE PASS SAVED FORGIVEN .



. if your forgiven how does that DETER any behavior if you Know in advance you will be PARDONED means one has NO consequences
anonymous
2018-04-14 23:12:44 UTC
It's called the Dominion Mandate. Humans run the earth and humans are responsible for the human condition.
anonymous
2018-04-14 16:26:57 UTC
Have you asked Him this question? If you haven't I suggest that you do so in 100% assurance that He will be listening. People who are in tune with God don't just pray - they hear His answers also. Try it in sincerity and wait to see what He will do for you.
anonymous
2018-04-14 12:11:37 UTC
I have been in a serious car accident, robbed, beaten and pistol whipped. the last 5 men assaulted where I was died on route

to the hospital. I have survived 3 horrible infections , had 32 surgeries in a lifetime. My parents passed one when I was 19, the other 24, I am now 65, what has happened to me proves there is a God.
?
2018-04-14 10:49:27 UTC
Because you wouldn’t appreciate the good wothout the bad.
?
2018-04-14 05:11:40 UTC
I've had bad things happen in my life too, and it sent me running to God, not away from him. God never causes evil but he sometimes allows it in order to draw us to him. This life is just a test, and he loves us so much he will help us to choose him even if it causes temporary pain. If we choose him and follow Jesus as our Lord and savior, we will get justice for everything we have been through and have a perfectly happy eternal life. Like the Bible says (Psalms 119:71) "It was good for me to be afflicted so I might learn your decrees". Seeing how God saved me from my troubles, I will forever follow him. Please do the same; it is happiness like you've never known! https://www.gotquestions.org/trials-tribulations.html
Serene E
2018-04-14 02:16:10 UTC
The question of why bad things happen has been around for thousands of years. Lots of opinions. But to me, this is the world we created, God has removed himself to let us create the world we want. We evidently want an uncaring, abusive world.

I don't blame God for bad things when those bad things were done to be by people. I blame those people.

I turn to God for strength, spiritual, emotional.

I am a Baha'i. a member of the Baha'i Faith. We believe there is only one God, that sent Buddha, Jesus, Moses, etc to humanity, now Baha’u’llah has come.

hearttoheart.net

www.Bahai.us
?
2018-04-13 22:56:36 UTC
You must read the book of Job.
?
2018-04-13 20:55:42 UTC
Your christian responders will tell you all about "free will". Which is bullshi+.
?
2018-04-13 20:11:12 UTC
In the off chance that you aren't just trolling, what you are describing is generally referred to as 'the problem of evil'.



If God doesn't know you (or others) are suffering, then he's not 'all knowing'. If he know, but can't do anything about it, then he's not 'all powerful' - and if he knows, can stop it - but doesn't, then he's a sadist.
anonymous
2018-04-13 19:19:53 UTC
Perhaps you need to stop and see the truth here if you have been raped molested and abused used rode hard and put up wet where you're at perhaps Gods telling you quite clearly that you need to get out of her my people if you don't want to share with her and her sins and you don't want to receive part of her plagues! Bible quote here! All of your mention problems can be alleviated permanently put to rest if you will just get yourself out of Babylon the Great false religion in other words run don't walk to the organization that calls God by his name the Bible says that he who shall call upon the name of Jehovah shall be saved!





So start calling on the name of Jehovah find a Kingdom Hall get a free Bible study learn to worship Jehovah God properly that is unless you enjoy what's happening to you now it's unnecessary get yourself under the protection of Jehovah and of his son Jesus Christ and you won't be having these problems
?
2018-04-13 18:46:56 UTC
The answer is incredibly simple.



No mental gymnastics required.



This simple answer will not only explain your situation, but it will also explain why 11,000 children will die each day from starvation and malaria.
MaryBlue
2018-04-13 18:41:45 UTC
Satan cause bad things not God. And a lot of people obey their sinful ways rather than follow Jesus. If you want peace, believe in the Lord and do God's will.Go to a bible believing church. NOT Catholic.
?
2018-04-13 18:29:08 UTC
St. John of the Cross called this "purgatory on earth". We go through hell in order to purge us and detach us from the things of this world. While painful if you allow the pain to do it's work you will have no need to take a detour upon death but will go directly to heaven.
Mama Kimama
2018-04-13 18:21:40 UTC
Well, he let good things happen to you too.

And, he also never left you, as his word the Bible says, so he was always there for you during your bad times.
?
2018-04-16 18:14:16 UTC
You were raised in a religion that expects you to suffer, you know like the martyrs. So stop feeling sorry for yourself and accept the fact that you are a fallen angel like the rest of us, and we all have to make better decisions if we re to do with our life what gets us to Heaven. Be sure to read the book in my source, it was written for people like you.
RICHARD
2018-04-16 15:46:01 UTC
I prayed to God and asked him to make your life miserable. Thank you for confirming that my effort was not wasted
loveable
2018-04-15 23:38:16 UTC
There is nothing new under the sun. Ask those who were never victims before how did they protect themselves or avoided such situations. Learn how to be alert, learn how to avoid. If you meet with such situations again, have you learnt how to react?

All these you have to learn as a woman.



There are many things in life to have knowledge in order to escape from sticky situations.
?
2018-04-15 12:53:38 UTC
I am with you in the issue of pain in life and people can use this idea in an honest way or not. I have learned this.

Many people have understandable anguish over the suffering in the world. This is probably the most effective argument of anti-Christians. But it is still invalid.



To an atheist, we could ask: ‘What is your criterion for judging whether something is good or bad? Since you reject God’s transcendent moral standard, all you have are your own feelings. Why should we accept the feelings of an admittedly fallible human being?’



God created a perfect world; the free choice of Adam to turn his back on Him is the ultimate cause of all the suffering. The efficient cause of specific suffering is the free evil choice of moral agents. However, Scriptures are clear that those who suffer the most are not necessarily the most sinful (e.g. John 9:1–3).



No logical contradiction has been demonstrated between the propositions ‘an all-good and all-powerful God exists’ and ‘evil exists’.



For God to rid the world of evil would require ridding the world of all of us! However, in the future, God will indeed rid the world of evil, since He is too pure to tolerate evil for eternity. People have two options:



The first is they must separate from their sins, by accepting that Christ bore them on the Cross (Isaiah 53:10), and receive Christ’s righteousness credited to their accounts. The means of this is belief in the Gospel—1 Corinthians 15:1–4:



Now I would remind you, brothers, of the Gospel I preached to you, which you received, in which you stand, and by which you are being saved, if you hold fast to the word I preached to you—unless you believed in vain. For I delivered to you as of first importance what I also received: that Christ died for our sins in accordance with the Scriptures, that he was buried, that he was raised on the third day in accordance with the Scriptures ...



The second is to cling to their sins, in which case God will grant them their wish, and separate them from Himself, the source of goodness, for eternity. There will be only two types of people: those who say to God ‘Thy will be done’ who will be happy in the new heavens and earth for eternity; and those to whom God says: ‘thy will be done’, who will be separated from goodness for all eternity.
lovelytony22
2018-04-15 11:12:55 UTC
God wouldn't those who cause you pain get away with it,lest dey repent.Christianity is not for sissies, be strong in faith and one day God will reward you.



We all face difficult times but faith in God is what keep us going.Pray and let God avenge for you.Trust him,he will do it.
anonymous
2018-04-15 06:53:46 UTC
Was it God that did this or people and there you know the truth it is people who do sad things and not God.



It is people who do evil things and not God.
anonymous
2018-04-15 02:30:06 UTC
Have you read the Bible? Not to diminish your experience, but I'm pretty sure Paul (Saul of Tarsus) got it worse than you (stoned, skinned, drown, chased, and more), and spent most of his Christian life in prison to boot. This is the guy who wrote most of the new testament.
anonymous
2018-04-15 00:08:36 UTC
To make you strong. So that you can stand up and do so well in life that those people will feel sick for what they've done. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger, girl. God wants you to be a tough cookie, that's why.
The_Doc_Man
2018-04-14 19:17:35 UTC
But if God ISN'T real (which He isn't), then these things happen because (a) you let yourself get into bad situations by making bad choices or (b) you have a knack for being in the wrong place at the wrong time. I don't advise trying to buy a lottery ticket with that kind of bad luck.
anonymous
2018-04-14 09:59:04 UTC
God didn't and the things God permits or let happen so you can seek Him. Get closer to God more than ever. God is Great and nothing is Greater than Him. I agree with Publius. God would never harm His creations, it was evil people who committed evil acts. You must have a concept of God first sincerely from your heart and reach out to Him by making prayer(s).



Sick people who stayed away or turned away from God and allowed themselves to be consumed by evil and were touched by evil. Instead of seeking God for help and protection. Evil overtook them and forced them to do evil acts against their will.



The moment a person begins to rape or murder another human, they have immediately lost their faith and humanity. They have become the influence of evil and doing just evil deeds. They have allowed themselves harm to come to them and made matters worse, they hurt other people with their wicked deeds.



Understand people go through all kinds of things in life, good or bad and at times, other unfortunate things happen. Its the will of God but God would never let great harm such these evil things come to you, it was the fault of evil people who did it.



You should seek God, ask for His assistance sincerely and to guide you. God understands exactly how you feel and is the mender, the fixer of hearts and the healer of everything. The Lord of everything. God is much much closer than you think, you just got to have more faith and trust in Him. He will always protect you as long as you frequently seek Him.
anonymous
2018-04-14 05:09:00 UTC
He let it happen because you will have to pray and or have others pray for you when u are not with them. Pray pray. That someone come to protecting u, a night will help you in Jesus name we pray Amen, thank you Jesus!
anonymous
2018-04-14 03:16:07 UTC
Maybe to bring you to a place where you would be ready to receive Jesus Christ as your personal Lord and Savior.
?
2018-04-14 01:00:59 UTC
I’m sorry for the situations in which you have encountered in the past. No one deserves this type of treatment. In the Bible at James (1:13) it says, “When under trial, let no one say: “I am being tried by God.” For with evil things God cannot be tried, nor does he himself try anyone.” So God is not the cause for any wickedness that may be brought upon us. God is aware and concerned as to what happens to us. Unfortunately, this world this not controlled by God, as mentioned in 1John (5:19)  “We know that we originate with God, but the whole world is lying in the power of the wicked one”. The wicked one is Satan and he wants you to feel hopeless. We live in a world where God looks as if he does not care for us or is not with us. However, God shows us love . He will not give up on you . 1 John(4: 19) shows that “We love, because he first loved us”. So please don’t give up on him .



My prayer goes to you .
Robert S
2018-04-13 21:01:33 UTC
GOD allows tree-will, He does not control people & people sin.

Pray for his protection; give Him the freedom to intervene.
?
2018-04-13 20:48:48 UTC
God is real. Catholics do not follow the God of the Bible and it was evil people who did that, not God. This is a war, not a playground where all have to play nice. God will not, cannot remove evil until the end of time when He has the legal right to separate good from evil forevermore.



PS I am so sorry for your pain. Do not live as a victim. God has given you the ability to become a Conqueror. Use this to overcome.
anonymous
2018-04-13 20:15:41 UTC
Are your parents not real? Did they not let it happen to you?
anonymous
2018-04-13 18:50:13 UTC
HE SI BUT HE IS ALSO ALLOWING FREE WILL AND HUMANS ARE THE ONES SINNING...WE ALL HAVE BEEN THROUGH BAD STUFF...IVE BEEN SUICIDAL BEFORE, BUT THEN GOD SENT ME A VISION TO COMFORT ME.
Jonathn
2018-04-13 18:28:17 UTC
Religion is primarily a preparation for the afterlife. The improvement of life is up to us and luck. "..for He maketh His sun to rise on the evil and on the good, and sendeth rain on the just and on the unjust" (Mat.5:45). The "just" reward and punishment comes, not always instantly. It's apparently God's way. Why not accept the deal and move on from there?
?
2018-04-13 18:25:45 UTC
I've been through many of those things. I learned not to blame God for what humans did.
anonymous
2018-04-13 18:15:17 UTC
he's not the kind of God you're thinking of.
?
2018-04-17 14:41:52 UTC
There is nothing wrong with a religious person seeking counseling or therapy, therefore I suggest that you may find help and support in working through your painful past. As for religion ( I am an Atheist) many people have a crisis in faith, this is a separate issue which can be resolved in time by seeking answers from both secular and religious sources in order to form your own answers.
brother trucker
2018-04-16 06:25:38 UTC
I have suffered a lot of injustice in my life. I dont speak for you or God but in my case it has given me focus so that I can fight against injustice throughout the world. Its why I became a social worker.





Injustice doesnt occur because God doesnt care, it happens because people are negative, do negative things. But it also happens because good people do nothing, they let it happen.



God put us in the world to love each other. Thats His plan. When we dont follow His positive plan negative things happen. Every negative person is guilty of the injustice you suffer.



Use your negative experience as a powerfull tool to make you more loving, helpfull, hopefull. Help the downtrodden & disposessed. Make your life count for something. Be a positive, loving person. These are the principles Gods Kingdom are built on. That is the only way we will turn the tide on injustice & God bless, well say a prayer for you.
Kou
2018-04-15 19:01:40 UTC
God's is always real. if He isn't, you won't be existed.

Good things and bad things happen to everyone. He did not choose you for nothing.

Only you know the pain. I'm in no position to tell you this but everything happens for a reason.

Stop blaming everything on yourself. You did nothing wrong to experience such things. It's not your fault.

Instead of putting the blame on God or other people, you can choose to get back up again. Your life is your decision. Pardon my rudeness.
one
2018-04-15 16:44:19 UTC
This all comes down to one thing - Obedience, when Adam and Eve listened to Satan's lies and believed him they cursed all of humanity, we now live in a fallen world were EVERYONE has free will to do as they please, so when people do these horrible things it is by their own choice, if God were to step in, it would deprive them of their choice to do as they please and would mean that God would be obligated to stop ALL of your misdeeds as well. Would you like the police to arrest you for thinking of robbing a bank? Or would you rather they wait until you actually performed the deed? We all want justice, but we fail to realize that God has given man free will and this means that terrible things will continue to happen to EVERYONE as long as man chooses to do wrong and blaming God because someone else did something bad to you is also wrong. God promises that eventually all this will come to an end and we will be shown WHY we had to suffer as we did and we will then see that what we saw as 'bad' was an opportunity to gain knowledge to make us better IF we ask God to help us to overcome this adversity and show us how to learn from it. As someone said "That which does not kill us, makes us stronger"
?
2018-04-14 22:38:21 UTC
you have really heavy "karma", based upon your past causes, you are suffering present difficulties.

the true buddha nichiren daishonin reveals the true enlightenment as the practice of chanting, "nam-myoho-renge-kyo". this means rejecting christianity, and embracing only the chanting of "nam-myoho-renge-kyo", to overcome your own past karma.
Archer
2018-04-14 18:36:29 UTC
The "gods" were/are the products of mankind colorful and creative imagination who help us feel better in our ignorance. People create their lives and some allow others to control them but ultimately it is "I" who is responsible for such. It is "I" who made the who, what and where I find myself today and in the future. I answer to no one for that which "I" chose to do in life hence take responsibility for it. I need no alter ego to blame for my life and if I am to be judged it will not be by man nor for which mickey mouse club I joined but on that which I created.
Michaela
2018-04-14 17:26:25 UTC
When god made the world he trusted humans with free will, as he has allowed us to have this some people will abuse this right. If you believe in god what will happen is they will get punished however this obviously doesn’t help you.
David
2018-04-14 16:07:29 UTC
Same question I ask, Now, I was never raped or beaten that way, but I was always the good guy in people's eyes and seen as the better guy.I know people are *** holes but still, why did god allow the bad things that have happened to me?
Gomakawitnessofjesus
2018-04-14 14:22:33 UTC
well for me it's about rising to the faith, which I fail, to expose evil, there is also something about being valiant and exaltation and exposing evil,

sleep deprivation is about being poisoned , get rid of the poisoners no more stress

expose them and free the oppressive drug rapists and sorcerers and witches , join them and you become the very evil you hate

the book of mormon calls these things seecret combinations and evil of the sorcerers , saying ca

st them out of the church.

but then the people became the evil and they began casting out the holy prophets , the church became more evil than their lamanite brothers
?
2018-04-14 11:08:18 UTC
You are right. IF. Well, god ain’t real.
?
2018-04-14 05:17:31 UTC
Mankind does not want God to rule over him. God has intervened in the past and shown man the way back to God through Jesus Christ (by faith alone, not works). Man is evil; this is what the Bible says. Men are lying to themselves about what is in him.



It's a shame what has happened to you, but this is testament to what man is. God has offered all of us forgiveness, because we are all sinners. God has promised to one day set things aright, after the Day of Judgment (which will fall on every man, including those who have done evil to you). Please do not blame God for what men have done to you. God will rescue from this world and bring you into his presence, where all tears will be wiped away.
?
2018-04-13 20:29:36 UTC
Two options:

There is no god

God is real, and he knew that would happen to you in this possible universe, and chose to make it anyway. (In short, he's a sadistic asshole)
anonymous
2018-04-13 18:53:27 UTC
Is the ugly currently happening?
anonymous
2018-04-13 18:46:22 UTC
WE are all here being tested to IF we will decide to Love and Obey GOD; or follow the devil!

My life has been full of pains also. But I have realized that some of these GOD gave/permitted for education of life. To learn from.

The Bible states GOD will NOT kill us All again as HE had to do when HE flooded the earth to get rid of so many sinful/criminals minds! It was Too Painful for GOD! GOD states that this time WE will cause it/death/end-of-world ourselves! GOD tells us in the Bible to Think about what and how each of Our Decisions will effect others!

Have you ever hurt someone, just because you were frustrated for some reason? That may have caused a reaction to them to someone, that spread father to others? Sometime later one reaction may have circled around and come to you.

The Atheists have Raped over 48 Million Girls and Woman in the USA as of 5 years ago! Also Attempted to Rape over 56 Million More Girls and Woman that did get away! Plus the homosexuals one that keep calling themselves 'gay' as of 4 years ago had Rapped over 24 Million innocent Boys and young Men! Plus have the largest kill-themselves rate out of every group/club of people on this planet! They are the farthest from being anything close to happy!

Perhaps you and I should ask others to take up calling All that are Rapist to be called "male" only? For they have certainly decided on their own to Not be Man or Human anymore!


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