Is it ok to follow a Wiccan path if I am indifferent to sex?

Question

Ok, so I've been doing some reading about Wicca and I still truly do believe it is the path I want to follow, but I did come across something about sex being sacred. I am asexual (that's right), so I don't know if it's an issue for me or not. I'm just simply not interested in sexual relationships, I never have and I believe I never will be. I don't think sex is bad or nasty or shameful, I'm just completely indifferent to it in relation to myself. I do understand the importance of sex in nature and I believe it is something to be respected and even honored. I don't have any problem with sexual symbolism at all. But I am not sure if my sexuality (or lack there of) will prevent me from following this beautiful path that I have found.

Deprecation is not welcome or appreciated. I don't know how some of you can say very hurtful things about someone without batting an eye. I am looking for information, not insults and scorn.

Answer 1

There is no reason as an asexual, you can not be Wiccan.



Sex is not considered shameful or bad in Wicca, rather it is something natural. We also tend not to care who people have sex with. I have worked with heterosexuals, homosexuals, bisexuals, and asexuals in my coven. None of them have had a problem being Wiccan. Different sexual preferences and identities have led to different perspectives on beliefs and practices within Wicca and has always made for interesting discussions so it's possible that your views on sexuality may lead you to different perspectives on certain things - and it may not. But there is nothing in Wicca that I know of that would make you not able to be Wiccan and embrace the beliefs and practices. You certainly don't have to have sexual relationships to practice Wicca.

Answer 2

Anyone who tells you that you are required to have sex in order to be Wiccan is most certainly not a Wiccan and just trying to use you for sex. Yes, it is a sacred act. It's the most beautiful expression of love and creation, but it is NOT a requirement for Wicca. There is nothing wrong with having no interest in sex. Practice your beliefs the way you want and don't pay any attention to the lies you hear.



This is coming from a fellow Wiccan....



Blessed be!

Answer 3

I don't think that it's a problem at all. There were many priestesses that didn't have sex and they basically were devoted to their path in a different way. I see nothing wrong with that. I just think that saying 'sex is sacred' is because first off, it creates life and second, at it's best it's a blessed union of two people. Sex can be a very spiritual experience when two people really connect on a soul level.



Good luck to you on your path. :)



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I felt compelled to do a search and find some Goddesses that you might relate to.



The Triple Goddess, in her maiden form is a virginal Goddess and her focus is not of sex.



Vesta (Hestia) is also a virginal Goddess. Minerva is too. :)



So maybe you can look into these and other Goddesses and tap into your spirituality that way. :)

Answer 4

You being indifferent to sex wouldn't matter. Sacred Sex isn't something every Wiccan follows. If you feel that becoming a Wiccan is the right spiritual path for you then that's what you should follow.

Answer 5

Your indifference to sex should not make any difference at all. You seem to have the correct grasp on the importance of sex when it comes to nature and how it is implicated in the wheel of the year. I can't see any reason for a Wiccan circle to not welcome you warmly amongst them. You can always practice solo anyways. But, I would encourage you to reach out to some local circles near you and have some conversations. I think you'll be pleased with their acceptance of you just as you are.

Answer 6

It shouldn't be an issue at all. What matters most is what works best for you. It's your own path to follow. I think you'll find that most Wiccans and other Pagans are generally very tolerant, accepting, and open-minded about how people express their sexuality, and not feeling the need to express it certainly falls into that category.



If you're being called to this path... You'll find a way to make it personal. I'd say not to let this worry limit you in any way. It shouldn't make a difference.

Answer 7

It shouldn't be a problem at all. I was asexual until I met my partner and it didn't hinder me one bit. The sexual act is sacred because from it comes life and without life would end. You sound like you understand that, therefore you should have no problem.

Answer 8

nicely, you needless to say comprehend extra beneficial than maximum novices. relatively, in case you prefer to be solitary with out having labored with a coven, purely one genuine "custom" is available to you... That of the eclectic Wiccan. in case you arent discovering a convention from a coven, then you definately sort of dont have the different alternatives than to forge your person direction. the only traditions different than for the eclectic direction could all require you to paintings with a coven, a minimum of until eventually youd found out the custom sufficient to prepare on your person, that could take a number of years. Scott Cunningham i a reliable initiate, e book-sensible. in simple terms save analyzing and waking your person direction. Im confident youll locate something that works for you ultimately. -Scarlet

Answer 9

I think that's fine.



Some traditions stress sacred sex/polarity more than others.

Answer 10

I don't think it should affect your choice of religion much. Wicca is very broad, so do what works for you.