Question:
Does my wife have a free will to replace two missing disks in her lower back?
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2010-12-30 11:12:13 UTC
The doctor can't fix it which she sees often, God won't fix it, she is crying in tremendous pain she is trapped like a rat. God allowed satan to steal the disks in her lower back. I'm sorry to bring this up often, but I hate seeing her suffer more then God does. If I had the power, I would have gladly healed her so she could be happy again the way God could have. Even when I ask God nicely to help her He won't. I feel bitter because life isn't fair. If you think you can handle the pain she is in, TRY IT!
Thirteen answers:
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2010-12-30 11:17:46 UTC
Keep trying to find a doctor who will either treat the pain or try to fix the problem. Don't give up and don't blame God. I am sorry she and you are dealing with this.



I cannot personally handle a lot of pain. I take a lot of Motrin every day and it's about the strongest thing doctors will prescribe thanks to the junkies out there. I will tell you that I do believe God gives me the grace to keep going, though. I don't think we can know the extent of God's provision for us.
littleredridinhood1
2010-12-30 11:54:13 UTC
I'm going to be completely honest with you. This situation doesn't sound to good at all. I once spoke with someone who's father committed suicide, and both her mother and sister had cancer. In situations like this it's hard to say that everything is going to be alright and that "god" hears your prayers.Why is it that "God" is allowing this to happen? There are a couple of reasons. I'm not listing them. From what I read, these circumstances call for her response, not yours. There are situation where people cannot speak on our behalf. This seems like a situation brought on by life, and can be used as an opportunity to deepen the relationship between your wife and "God". weeping and saying a silent prayer doesn't seem like its working so far. Tell her to try a different tactic, cry out to "god" with all she has? Tell, her to seek him with her whole heart, and to open her mouth, as though she were 4 years old again. In other words it's a matter of "her seeking "god" not you.



In a completely non-religious related note, If you've been going to the same doctor for this issue, and he says that there is nothing he can do, try another one. If she's in as much pain as you say, then you can't possible stop there for the woman you love. Continue to look for a doctor until you find one that CAN help you and CAN do something about her back, don't give up so easily.
2016-10-21 04:19:27 UTC
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Caesar
2010-12-30 11:17:49 UTC
There is a new treatment with Pain control using high-intensity pulsed magnetic stimulation...work with nerve pain..missing disk...you mean 2 bulging discs
2010-12-30 11:19:04 UTC
My husband got knocked off a bridge when he was in his twenties. He is almost 70 now. He was in ever worsening pain until he finally became bed ridden. I prayed for his pain relief constantly. I drug him from one doctor to another. Recently he had a very adverse reaction to a pain killer. They gave him methadone as a pain killer and for him it works. He is doing chores, attending church, shopping, etc. Keep praying. Don't give up. We waited a long time for the answer, but we finally got it. God's timing, not ours.
CC
2010-12-30 11:24:10 UTC
Yes, your wife has free will to alleviate her suffering.



I suggest that you and your wife obtain additional medical advice, specifically from an orthopedic surgeon that specializes in the lumbar region of the spine.
2010-12-30 11:14:39 UTC
When your god allows the evil one to do bad things to people, it's time to find a better god. Or forget the god nonsense and pay for the absolute best medical care money can buy. The kind that the 1% wealthy of the world can afford. The kind that cured Magic Johnson. That kind of stuff.
Ceisiwr
2010-12-30 11:15:07 UTC
I'm sorry to hear of your wife's suffering, and if I had any advice that might help I'd give it. Hopefully someone else will be able to help. My heart goes out to both of you.
MtotheR MIGHTY RA!
2010-12-30 11:14:12 UTC
There is physiotherapy and pain relief medication and as the poster above hass mentioned there is also surgery..
Craig W. Dressler
2010-12-30 11:23:55 UTC
God has already healed her according to Isaiah 53. By Jesus' stripes she was healed. It is up to you stand in faith for that healing and not listen to doctors or trust your senses or anyone else. Perhaps, you should be reading Bible promises on healing, watching Christian programs like J. Duplantis, K. Hagin, K. Copeland, etc. and building up your faith for your wife's healing instead of ...
2010-12-30 11:28:27 UTC
Request our book "Miraculous Healing for the Church", No charge.



It isn't for your wife, it's for you.



You're the head of your wife, you're the man, you're accountable. Find out what has gone wrong, because something HAS gone wrong and you need to find out what it is...
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2010-12-30 11:13:38 UTC
Nope. See if you can get prosthetics.



God/Satan/Religion has nothing to do with it. Her fibrocartilage just wears down over time.
2010-12-30 11:15:15 UTC
There are many reasons why God might not answer your prayers. This article explains it well: http://www.bible-truth.org/msg54.html



Just remember, if your prayers aren't answered, it's YOUR fault, not God's!


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