the adults were right every sin is the same a sin
it says in the book of james
james 2:10-11
10 For whosoever shall keep the whole law, and yet offend in one point, he is guilty of all.
11 For he that said, Do not commit adultery, said also, Do not kill. Now if thou commit no adultery, yet if thou kill, thou art become a transgressor of the law.
you can do everything god says to do but if you tell a lie its a sin and your guilty of breaking all of god's laws. god said not to lie, cheat, steal, and many other things. if you break one part of the law you are guilty of breaking all of god's law is what james is saying.
there are no white lies. a lie is a. lie god said not to lie. if you do it is a sin.
man adjusts god's word to get away with sinning
all unrepentant sin leads to one place that is hell and the lake of fire
god says
Exodus 32:33
And the Lord said unto Moses, Whosoever hath sinned against me, him will I blot out of my book. (the book of life)
so any sin will cause our name to be blotted out of the book of life
repenting and seeking the salvation of god saves our name from being blotted out of the book of life
Revelation 3:5
He that overcometh, the same shall be clothed in white raiment; and I will not blot out his name out of the book of life, but I will confess his name before my Father, and before his angels.
rev 20:15 And whosoever was not found written in the book of life was cast into the lake of fire.