I can answer almost all the charges about the hadith but there are too many of them. If u can state one, i will explain to u. For a start, i will tell u about this one.
The majority of people in hell are women.
Mohammad pbuh said, "I was shown the Hell-fire and that the majority of its dwellers are women. " Vol. 1:28, 301; Vol. 2:161; Vol. 7:124
Why did the prophet said like that? He said when he ascended to the god during Isra' Mi'raj, the god showed to him that the majority of the of the residents of hell are women. It is not because Allah will send women to hell. Because what u did u get back. If u made sins u have to pay for it. In other words, women 'throw' themselves to hell by making a lot of sins during their lifetimes. So, this hadith act as a warning to all women to watch up for themselves. Do deeds and avoid sins. That is the true message behind this hadith.
And the complete hadith which i have found just now.
Volumn 001, Book 002, Hadith Number 028.
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Narated By Ibn 'Abbas : The Prophet said: "I was shown the Hell-fire and that the majority of its dwellers were women who were ungrateful." It was asked, "Do they disbelieve in Allah?" (or are they ungrateful to Allah?) He replied, "They are ungrateful to their husbands and are ungrateful for the favours and the good (charitable deeds) done to them. If you have always been good (benevolent) to one of them and then she sees something in you (not of her liking), she will say, 'I have never received any good from you."