Yes. I'm a dad; maybe even older than YOUR dad. My son is a drummer and has played for several churches.
My thoughts on music, ANY kind of music, are this: Show me anywhere in scripture where it says there is any such thing as a satanic CHORD of music...It's not there...To the contrary, Psalms encourages us to "make a joyful noise."
Psa_66:1 To the chief Musician, A Song or Psalm. Make a joyful noise unto God, all ye lands:
Psa_81:1 To the chief Musician upon Gittith, A Psalm of Asaph. Sing aloud unto God our strength: make a joyful noise unto the God of Jacob.
Psa_95:1 O come, let us sing unto the LORD: let us make a joyful noise to the rock of our salvation.
Psa_95:2 Let us come before his presence with thanksgiving, and make a joyful noise unto him with psalms.
Psa_98:4 Make a joyful noise unto the LORD, all the earth: make a loud noise, and rejoice, and sing praise.
Psa_98:6 With trumpets and sound of cornet make a joyful noise before the LORD, the King.
Psa_100:1 A Psalm of praise. Make a joyful noise unto the LORD, all ye lands.
Psalm 98:4 even says "loud noise."
Now I probably agree with your dad that there are definitely Satanic LYRICS, but I see nothing wrong with LIVELY music.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fa8w7mGug0c
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=he32vwlKQPY
You could post as additional details a couple links to YOUR favorites...