Question:
How could I explain to someone that Islam is a peaceful religion?
anonymous
2008-08-15 16:37:27 UTC
I have recently converted to Islam, and am very happy. However I have not yet told my family and most of my friends. I have not told them yet because I feel as though they will not accept me. I had developed my interest for Islam almost three years ago, and had thoroughly researched it before I made the decision to convert. After I converted I knew it was only a matter of time before I would have to tell them. I have told several of my close friends that I converted, and they accepted me with no problem. They said that if this makes me happy, they will support me all they can. However, I know that my family will not take it as easily, because they know nothing about Islam, and choose to believe the stereotypes about Muslims. I do not know what it will take to convince them that Islam is a peaceful religion. What should I say to them to convince and persuade them that Islam is a peaceful religion, and that I made the right decision for myself, and I am much happier now?
Seventeen answers:
Adeel A
2008-08-16 03:46:16 UTC
first i would like to congratulate and welcome you to the way of Allah my friend. inshaAllah the information below would help you convince your friends and family. Allah knows the best.

Islam - The Religion Of Peace

Today, many non-Muslims regard Islam as a religion that promotes violence, terrorism and war. Unfortunately, they rely in their view of Islam on the general media, which is not always accurate in reporting the news. Many media outlets, such as TV, radio, newspapers and magazines, are influenced by their investors or owners who have certain agendas and who want to promote certain values and points of view. Other media outlets are simply after the "big story", in order to make more money and more profits. Others are simply "followers", who only gather news from other sources, re-package it and try to sell it again purely as a business.

In all these cases, the news reporting is not accurate, but is driven by ulterior motives or simply by profits. Only very few media organizations are committed to providing accurate and true information, regardless of financial gain. Therefore, people today should be very careful in what they take from the media.

Before blindly accepting what the TV, radio or newspaper is reporting, one should think critically about what is being reported. Is this being reported accurately, or is it being exaggerated or even completely fabricated? Who are these people reporting the news, and do they have vested interests to report the story in a certain way, or are they completely objective and fair? Critical thinking is very important in all aspects of life, especially when it comes to accepting the media reports about important and controversial issues.

Islam is in fact a religion that promotes peace and understanding among people of all faiths, and it strongly prohibits all forms of violence and aggression against all people regardless of their faith or race.

2. Islam Prohibits Violence and Aggression, and stands for Peace and Justice.

Islam clearly prohibits all kinds and forms of aggression and violence against anyone, except in self-defense. Islam is a practical religion, meant to be implemented in every aspect of our life. Therefore, it realizes the fact that a person who commits aggression and violence against others will not cease these actions unless they are deterred by similar actions taken against them.

Islam also places very high importance on justice, and allows for aggressors and unjust people be punished accordingly, unless they repent before they are brought to justice. At the same time, Islam encourages people to forgive those who have wronged them whenever possible.

Evidence of these ideals can be found in the Holy Qur'an, which is the word of God revealed to the messenger of God, Mohammad peace be upon him. It can also be found in the Hadeeth, the sayings of Mohammad peace be upon him, and in his teachings to Muslims. A few examples of this are shown below from the Holy Qur'an:

* "Fight in the cause of Allah those who fight you, and do not transgress; for Allah loveth not transgressors." (Surah 2, Verse 190).

* "But if they cease (fighting you), Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful." (Surah 2, Verse 192).

* "But if the enemy incline towards peace, do thou (also) incline towards peace, and trust in Allah: for He is the One that Heareth and Knoweth (all things)." (Surah 8, Verse 61).

* "The prohibited month, for the prohibited month, and so for all things prohibited, there is the law of equality. If then any one transgresses the prohibition against you, transgress ye likewise against him. But fear Allah, and know that Allah is with those who restrain themselves." (Surah 2, Verse 194).

* " ... and let not the hatred of some people in (once) shutting you out of the Sacred Mosque lead you to transgression (and hostility on your part). Help ye one another in righteousness and piety, but help ye not one another in sin and rancour: fear Allah: for Allah is strict in punishment." (Surah 5, Verse 2).

* "Nor can Goodness and Evil be equal. Repel (Evil) with what is better: then will he between whom and thee was hatred become as it were thy friend and intimate!" (Surah 41, Verse 34).

* "O ye who believe! stand out firmly for justice, as witnesses to Allah, even as against yourselves, or your parents, or your kin, and whether it be (against) rich or poor: for Allah can best protect both. Follow not the lusts (of your hearts), lest ye swerve, and if ye distort (justice) or decline to do justice, verily Allah is well-acquainted with all that ye do." (Surah 4, Verse 135).

* "God advocates justice, charity, and regarding the relatives. And He forbids evil, vice, and transgression. He enlightens you, that you may take heed." (Surah 16, Verse 90).

* "And if ye do punish them, punish them no worse than they punished you: but if ye show patience, that is indeed the best (course) for those who are patient." (Surah 16, Verse 126).

The first three verses above instruct Muslims to fight those who fight them, and not to commit aggression first, as God does not like transgressors. They also instruct Muslims to stop fighting those who wish to cease fighting them, and to accept peace with the enemy who becomes inclined towards peace.

The fourth verse mentioned above instructs Muslims that if someone transgresses against them, they should respond to them likewise, and it reminds Muslims to fear God and to restrain themselves to this limit.

The fifth verse reminds Muslims not to let hatred of some people for past reasons to lead them to transgress against those people or be hostile towards them. It also instructs us to help each other in good and righteous actions, and not to cooperate in aggression and sin, and it reminds them finally of the strict punishment of God to encourage them to abide by these principles.

The sixth verse reminds us that goodness and evil are never equal, and that we should repel evil with good actions. This means that when someone is unjust to us or commits evil against us, we are encouraged to respond with kind and good actions, so that the hatred between us and that person will evaporate and will become an intimate friendship!

The seventh verse mentioned reminds us to stand up for justice, even if it is against ourselves or our family, and even if it is against those who are rich or powerful, because justice applies to everyone. It also reminds us that God knows everything we do, and so if we act unjustly even in our hearts, God knows what we did and we will be accountable for that.

The eighth verse informs us that God enjoins us to follow justice, and that God forbids us from committing evil, vice and transgression.

The ninth and final verse reminds Muslims that if they are punished, that they may only respond with the same punishment and not to go over this limit. However, they are reminded that forgiveness and patience is the best course of action.

These are the wonderful ideals of Islam:

* To pursue peace with everyone including past enemies, except when they fight the Muslims and refuse peace, then Muslims are allowed to fight in self-defense.

* To ensure that we always apply justice and never transgress against others even if they are our enemies.

* To repel evil actions with good actions, in order to replace hatred with an intimate friendship.

* To respond to punishment with the same punishment, but that forgiveness and patience is even better than retaliation.

3. Islamic Principle: Living Peacefully with All Nations and Peoples.

The verse mentioned below informs us that we were created and made into various nations and tribes so that we may get to know each other, and not so that we may despise and hate each other. Then we are reminded of the the fact that the best of us in God's eyes are those who are most righteous.

* "O mankind! We created you from a single (pair) of a male and a female, and made you into nations and tribes, that ye may know each other (not that ye may despise each other). Verily the most honoured of you in the sight of Allah is (he who is) the most righteous of you. And Allah has full Knowledge and is well-acquainted (with all things)." (Surah 49, Verse 13).

This wonderful principle of Islam makes it clear that there is no single people, race, or nation that is better than others. God created us all equal. In God's eyes, the best of us are the most righteous and most kind.

God created mankind as different races and nations although He could have created us all with as one nation, with one language and one religion. However, as stated in the verse mentioned above, God created these different nations and tribes so that we get to know other each other, and not to hate each other because we are different. This tells us that we should celebrate our differences and not hate each other based on them. Islam also teaches us to realize that no single race or people have supremacy over others, and that we are judged solely based on our actions.

This verse also teaches us that we should live peacefully with other nations and tribes and we should respect each other and our differences. We should learn to live together and to get to know each other, and to engage in dialogue amongst all nations and treat every human being as being equal.

4. Islamic Principle: There is no Compulsion in Religion

The verse from the Qur'an which states this principle of no compulsion in religion is the following:

* "Let there be no compulsion in religion: Truth stands out clear from Error: whoever rejects Evil and believes in Allah hath grasped the most trustworthy hand-hold, that never breaks. And Allah heareth and knoweth all things." (Surah 2, Verse 256).

The holy Qur'an reminds us that there must not be compulsion in religion. It states that the truth stands out clear from error, and that those who reject error and believe in God are the saved ones.

This means that Muslims are not allowed to force people to convert to Islam. Muslims should only seek to make the truth clear to others, and talk to them about Islam, then let them decide for themselves. In fact, most people who study Islam without having made a decision to hate it first come to love its message and convert to Islam after learning about it's values and principles.

Another verse that also states this principle is the following:

* "If one amongst the Pagans ask thee for asylum, grant it to him, so that he may hear the word of Allah; and then escort him to where he can be secure. That is because they are men without knowledge." (Surah 9, Verse 6).

This wonderful verse instructs Muslims to grant asylum to non-believers, and make them safe, and allow them to hear the word of Allah. Then they are to be escorted to whatever place they will be safe and secure in. This is because these non-believers simply have no knowledge of Islam, and no knowledge of the word of Allah.

What a wonderful religion Islam is! How can this be compared with the way that Christians spread their religion? They spread it by genocide, mass murder, kidnapping of children and wiping out of entire nations and civilizations! Ask the natives of the Americas, Australia and Africa about it!

5. When are Muslims Permitted to Fight a War?

As stated earlier, Islam is a very practical religion. It is not just about fake ideals that do not work. It is a religion that is meant to be implemented 100% in all actions of the Muslims life, and it is meant to promote peace and justice in the world.

Therefore, Islam does allow Muslims to go to war, as mentioned earlier, in certain circumstances. This includes self-defence, and to remove aggression and injustice that has befallen people and to save them from their oppressors. The verses that tell Muslims to fight those who fight them were mentioned earlier. Below is the verse in the holy Qur'an that allows Muslims to fight against injustice.

"Permission [to fight] is granted to those who are being persecuted, since injustice has befallen them, and God is certainly able to support them [with victory].

They were evicted from their homes unjustly, for no reason other than saying, "Our Lord is God." If it were not for God's supporting of some people against others, monasteries, churches, synagogues, and mosques - where the name of God is commemorated frequently - would have been destroyed. Absolutely, God supports those who support Him. God is Powerful, Almighty." (Surah 22, Verses 39-40).

This verse gives permission to those Muslims who fall under oppressive, unjust rule, and those Muslims who are being persecuted to fight to remove this oppression.

6. Does Islam Permit Killing Civilians?

Even in times of war, the Muslim must respect his adversaries’ humanity. Brutal and barbaric atrocities are prohibited in Islam. Islam condemns barbaric killing of any human being. Therefore, Islam does not permit the mutilation of the bodies of the dead enemy soldiers.

Also, Islam prohibits the targeting and killing of all civilians, especially women, children, the elderly, and religious clergy. Enemies, even at time of war, must be treated justly. Prisoners of war have basic human rights, as stated in the Shariah (Islamic Law), and must be provided and cared for and not humiliated in any way.

The following verses touch on some of these issues:

"O Prophet! say to those who are captives in your hands: If Allah findeth any good in your hearts, He will give you something better than what has been taken from you, and He will forgive you: for Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful." (Surah 8, Verse 70).

* And they feed, for the love of Allah, the indigent, the orphan, and the captive, (Saying), We feed you for the sake of Allah alone: no reward do we desire from you, nor thanks." (Surah 76, Verses 8-9).

In addition, the following were the instructions of Prophet Mohammad (pbuh) to Muslims who are forced to fight a war:

* "Do not kill women or children or non-combatants and do not kill old people or religious people,'' and he mentioned priests, nuns and rabbis. And he said, "Do not cut down fruit-bearing trees and do not poison the wells of your enemies."

There are many more sayings and teachings of Prophet Mohammad that instruct Muslims on these issues.

In addition to all this, Islam prohibits oppression, revenge or injustice to the people of the enemy in case of victory against them. Nor must there be control over the sources of the wealth of the nation or people, or even establishment of colonial regimes. Justice and freedom must be established. Tolerance towards cultures and peoples is to be respected at all times.

7. Conclusion:

This is the Islamic point of view on war, peace and justice. We hope that after reading this article, people will have a clear understanding that Islam promotes peace and justice, and stands against aggression and violence.

It is very sad that some people who want to give a wrong impression of Islam, simply select a few words from the Qur'an and distort them and put them in the wrong context, all in order to prove that Islam supports violence. They ignore all the verses we have mentioned in this article.

Therefore, we hope that people will be more careful about what they may hear or read on TV, radio, newspapers, magazines or on the internet. Make sure that you do not blindly believe anything that is being said. Try to get both sides of the story, by listening to all points of view on any issue before coming to a conclusion.

And finally, we greet everyone with the greeting of Islam:

Assalamu Alaikum (Peace be upon you!).
bcnu111
2008-08-15 16:50:47 UTC
My question to you is why did you decide to convert to the Islam religion in the first place? Did you come from a religious back ground or not? I'm just curious is all, because most people who convert to a different religion are usually lost and can't or don't comprehend the religion they abandoned, unless you find someone who is willing to explain it to you, or you decide to explore the answers on your own.



I do agree that Islam is a peaceful religion, however the fanaticals are who are giving the religion a bad name. The fanaticals are just as ignorant about the religion as the ones who believe that all Muslims are bad/evil. If your family is truly caring, they will not judge you in any way, but they have should respect your decision and accept it, regardless if they like it or not.
Check
2008-08-17 03:20:13 UTC
First of all Salam to you, and about your parents just be honest to them but at the right time and let me tell you, you have not done any thing wrong infect this is the first true decision of your life and you are affraid off what you have done? Since, you have converted to Islam you should believe in asking from Allah because Allah is the only one who can show you ways. Infect thats how you will start building your foundations.



You dont need to explain anyone that Islam is a peaceful religion. Islam proves it self, if some one has a mind set or he/she does not want to understand what is right or wrong then you can not make them understand not matter what they have made their assumptions based on the poor researches. Infect religiously saying, Allah has sealed their hearts and they will never understand unless Allah wants. Because you can only tell them the correct path, but you can not make them walk on the correct path its in Allah's hand. If you really want to help them, then just pray for their Hidayat (correct path) and thats what prophets used to do.



Hope this helps inshallah.



May Allah show me/you them the correct path.
anonymous
2008-08-16 02:44:57 UTC
if u arereally happy then this happiness will be shown on u ,it is important to know most of the misconceptions about islam so that u can answer them ,

just read about it and be preparedto answer their questions , don't expect them to convert if u succeded to make them just respect ur beliefs then that is a goodpoint to reach....

u can use logic , examples , evidence from the Quran and hadiths for the prophet ,there are plenty of it...



islam is peaceful in a;ll ways, so never feel shy about anything about it , it is just propagnda that tries to make it look bad ,



lastly if u want me to help u ,like giving u links or something i'll be happy to help !



iamm soo happy for u brother and so glade to read what u wrote and that u are happier now :D



may Allah bless u and keep u always.



good luck .
anonymous
2008-08-15 16:53:23 UTC
You no need to convince them because anythings comes from good doing will remain in peace but anything done in evil remain evil . There is a saying we can recognised the tree from the fruit . If the fruit is rotten there is no use in defending, it still produce the rotten fruit .But it seems you are coward and lying to your family because once you are converted to Islam you have to denounce your father's name in earth and you will received new father's name from the earth not heaven.
Mathsorcerer
2008-08-15 16:46:22 UTC
At its core, Islam is just as peaceful as any other religion.



It is only the actions of the radicals who *claim* to be adherents of Islam yet who senselessly commit various acts of violence that give Islam a black eye. Those people will wind up destroying their own religion.
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2016-05-29 02:16:12 UTC
Abraham, Moses and Jesus were also muslims and worshipped Allah. All these prophets said to worship only Allah and not to enjoin partners to Allah. Haven't u ever heard of martyrdom in christianity. In Islam u can marry more than one wife if u give equal treatment to both. But, u cannot keep mistresses. U won't dissobey Allah if u follow the 10 commandments which were given to Moses from Allah. Male gets double share of property because he has to support a wife also. The wife gets from husband as well as from parents. Men r considered wiser in dealing with important things. Hope that answers your questions.
anonymous
2008-08-19 10:29:03 UTC
Now here is an example of how you might answer this harsh questions



Thank you for your interest in Islam and the Muslims. It is our duty and privilege to present the truth and proof about Islam and what it represents. We desire to clear up misconceptions and misunderstandings about Islam to help others see the true message that came with all of the prophets from Adam, Abraham, Moses, Jesus and Muhammad, peace be upon them all.



The message is: Laa elaha illa lah (none has the right to be worshipped except Allah).



And before we begin to answer the question, we would like ask a question ourselves. If while listening to the answer you find yourself saying something like, Gee, I didn't know that or That sounds pretty good or I like that for me, then are you prepared to accept the message of worshipping your Lord without any partners? After all, that is what Islam is really all about anyway.



Now let us begin to answer by correcting some mistakes in the 'question' itself:



The word used most often in Quran, that is so often mistranslated as kill; slay; or slaughter is not jihad, it is qital and if you look to the Arabic, you will quickly understand this word in today's usage would clearly be combat.



Naturally, just as here in the U.S. we must stand up for righteousness and strive to prevent oppression, aggression and tyranny. This is the proper usage and understanding for this term, as you will discover while passing through the tafseer and explanations by top scholars today.



Scholars of Quran tell us the verses dealing with this topic are specific and not intended to imply a general meaning for just anyone to decide to go around combating non-Muslims. The early Muslims had been driven out of their homes and turned out into the desert to starve. After finally, relocating in Medina, verses came in Quran instructing them to make hajj (pilgrimage) back to Makkah. Finding their way blocked and after several years of making agreements and treaties that the others continually broke, the Muslims were at last, told they could now fight in combat against the tyrants who had so horribly mistreated and abused them in the past. However, this would only be acceptable to Allah if they remained within very specific limitations. The word "qital" in Arabic in this instance refers to "combat" rather than what some have used "kill" because the word "kill" is far to general, while the word "combat" appropriately describes what is intended by the usage in this passage. Allah Knows Best.



It should also be noted the usage of the word "fitnah" in the same verse denotes a horrible condition, not unlike what we find today when there is terrorism and tyranny against the moral and just society at large. It would be easy to properly understand the meaning as, "Engage them in combat, even killing them, until the state of "fitnah" (terrorism) no longer exists in the society and people are free to worship Allah by their choice."



We can see these verse are not designed to promote terrorism, but rather these are very orders from Above to the Muslims to be the first of those who stand out aggressively against all forms of terrorism and oppression.



Once this is in place, there really isn't a question anymore, due to the necessity as we see today, to prevent and subdue enemies of freedom, liberty and justice. In other words, we could easily say Allah ordered believers in the Quran to wage combat against terrorism - 14 centuries ago. And the "struggle against oppression, terrorism and tyranny" in the Arabic language, it is called, "Jihad."



You might even say, "Islam declared the WAR ON TERRORISM over 1,400 years ago!"



Thanks so much for your kind question and may Allah guide all of us to the straight path to be with Him in the Next Life, ameen.
Millie
2008-08-15 16:44:47 UTC
They are your family and your friends and they are supposed to love you the same, but remember that the same way you want them to accept you, your decision and your beliefs, YOU have to do the same toward them. It's not important how to *tell* them that your religion is peaceful, unless your are able to SHOW it.......
anonymous
2008-08-15 16:49:26 UTC
Peace be unto you.



I'm a Christian reader of the Holy Qur'an, and maybe you could point out that Islam only allows fighting as described in Surah 60:8-9 (Maulana Muhammad Ali translation:) "(8) Allah forbids you not respecting those who fight you not for religion, nor drive you forth from your homes, that you show them kindness and deal with them justly. Surely Allah loves the doers of justice. (9) Allah forbids you only respecting those who fight you for religion, and drive you forth from your homes and help (others) in your expulsion, that you make friends of them; and whoever makes friends of them, these are the wrongdoers."



I hope that this helps.



Peace be unto you,

Pete
anonymous
2008-08-15 16:47:15 UTC
As long as you are able to make yourself happy, thats all that matters. Damn, some of these people posting are rude as hell. As long as you're not hurting anyone, live happily in your choice. Let them know your view on it, and if they can/cannot accept it, that's their business.
Born Again Christian
2008-08-15 16:48:01 UTC
You can't, Islam is not a religion of peace.
anonymous
2008-08-15 16:43:40 UTC
The evidence seems to suggest otherwise.
Esther
2008-08-15 16:43:59 UTC
Good luck. All I can think about is the Twin Towers and those airplanes smashing into them.
anonymous
2008-08-15 16:45:40 UTC
You could stop ramming airliners into our buildings...or blowing yourselves up...or burning down a danish embassy because of a couple of cartoons...
wade3_wender
2008-08-15 16:45:15 UTC
congratulations first!!!

if you are an american they will remind you with 9/11

tell them to check this site

http://www.911truth.org/
x
2008-08-15 16:41:56 UTC
You'd be lying...


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