Question:
Can you become a jew?
Heidihi
2007-12-31 09:05:30 UTC
I'm really drawn to the religion ever since I studied it in R.E. a couple of years ago, I just seem to have a 'connection' with it

I like all it's customs and traditions too and do i need black hair and brown eyes!! because that may be a problem!

If you can, how do you go about converting?
29 answers:
Juggling Frogs
2008-01-01 08:16:49 UTC
You have been given wonderful advice, above.



I just wanted to clarify that Jews come in all shapes, sizes and colors.



At our Orthodox synagogue and Orthodox day school, there are individuals and families who are African-American, Asian, Caucasian, Semitic, Persian, Yemenite, and who knows what else... Every possible hair and eye color is represented.



While there are a couple of racial majority "looks", it's really the non-Jews who are hung up on that "Funny, you don't *look* Jewish" bit.



Also, if you're looking for the "casual" version, I recommend NOT converting and checking out one of the b'nei Noach communities. This is for non-Jews who believe in G-d .and honor the 7 commandments ("Noahide Covenant"). There is no conversion necessary, and no need to "join" anything.



Converting to Judaism is a lifetime commitment, and the process can take many years and will entail much frustration (by design.)



If you're looking for "a nibble" rather than the "full meal", conversion isn't the appropriate path.



A convert becomes a member of the Jewish family, throwing her lot in with the fate of the Jews. This will be true for her and her future children, who will be Jews, too.



In addition to the yoke of the commandments, there is all the baggage other nations often force us to carry. Do not underestimate this burden.
2008-01-01 21:27:38 UTC
By now you'll have gathered that yes, you can indeed convert :)



If I may just clarify a few basic points:



Paul S is totally wrong in his remarks. Once a person converts to Judaism then that person IS JEWISH - full stop. So if you are a woman, your children will BE JEWISH. You are not known as someone who converted to the faith, you are as Jewish as anyone born into the faith.



I'm also slightly concerned about how much research into Judaism you've done; please take this in the spirit in which it's intended - i.e. nicely!



If you believe that you need to have a certain type of colouring to be Jewish then take it from me - you need to do a bit more reading!!! :)



There are Jews from practically every ethnic background you can think of. Go to Israel and you will see that this idea that all Jews look a certain away is RUBBISH!



I don't know which religion, if any, that you currently adhere to. Be aware that if you are Christian, you cannot be Jewish AND embrace Jesus as messiah and son of G-d etc. These two faiths are mutually exclusive.



A really great site that outlines fundamental Jewish belief on several topics is: http://www.whatjewsbelieve.org/



And a great book is 'This Is My G-d' by Herman Wouk.



Best of luck with it :)
allonyoav
2008-01-01 15:39:55 UTC
You can convert- but it is difficult to get into a conversion programme. Converting others to Judaism is actually a massive responsibility for the person who is doing the conversion- and an activity which can lead them to erring and sinning themselves! Why? There is a commandment "Do not place as tumbling block before the blind" Its easy enough to understand at a literal level, but at a deeper level it also means to not do something that will cause another person to err and thus be worse off than they were before.



Where this comes into play is as follows: Everyone, regardless of religion, has a path to righteousness and a place in the world to come. For the non-Jews, if they behave in a manner that is in line with the 7 Noahide laws, then they will be righteous and merit a place in the world to come- for Jews, it is through the 613 commandments.



So, coming back to the first point- what is easier, to follow 7 laws or 613 laws? Its a no brainer- 7 laws are much easier to follow. So, when we convert somebody, we are giving them an additional 606 laws that previously did not apply to them previously. Its not just a stumbling block- its a concrete barrier across the road! The person doing the conversion has to educate the convertee well enough that they will know enough about the laws to undertake to follow them, and know how to do so at a practical level- if they don't, the person is going to err and thus the teacher is in violation of the commandment!



So making sure someone is serious about conversion is imperiative. If the person is not serious, and the teacher has not tested them, the teacher is in violation of the commandment and, additionally, has caused another person to sin. If the person is serious- then it is a massive mitzvah to bring them into Judaism.



So we do not evangelise- we have no desire to cause people to sin, or to sin ourselves. Since non-Jews can be righteous without being Jewish, we are happy to let them go their own way.
✡mama pajama✡
2008-01-01 18:54:32 UTC
I keep stumbling onto questions about Judaism that interest me to answer..and discover juggling frog has already given the perfect answer before me so I'll just give my thumbs up to juggling and to the other good answers that give you helpful links for the conversion process.



Being a Jew is more than just about how you pray or to whom you pray to...it is about how you choose to live your life and the values you embrace in it.





I started to just type " ditto to what juggling frog said" then realized I've seen more than one answer today that would apply. I wish I could have written you privately to compliment you but I'll do so here since you don't take email.



And thanks for adding me to your contacts.



BTW..I'm a blue eyed, blonde haired Jewish woman and not a convert.



My Great-grandfather Rabbi Mates Yoshpe had blue eyes and strawberry blonde hair, too.



There are Jews of every skin color and ethnicity on the planet. Skin color, hair color, eye color...are completely insignificant to whether or not one is of the Jewish religion.
?
2008-01-02 17:39:16 UTC
(EDIT: I'd just like to say first that I wrote this answer myself, rather than cutting-and-pasting from a website. Not that there's anything wrong with cut-and-paste when it answers the question - I'm just proud to say that I do my own work, and think that ought to be worth something, if you're picking a best answer, and it's between my answer and someone else's, when I spent a good chunk of time on this, and that someone else say, pulled their answer, word-for-word, from a Wikipedia article.)



For sure anyone can become a Jew. Black hair and brown eyes? Umm..no. I myself have brown hair and green eyes. But the whole idea of a "Jewish look" is a myth, a common misconception among people whose mental image of Jews is based on one ethnic subgroup of Jews. An American goes their whole life seeing only Russian and Polish Jews (not recognizing any of the other Jews they see as Jews), and they begin to think that all Jews look Russian or Polish...or that Poles and Russians "look Jewish" - I guess it's a matter of perspective.



No, my friend, there are White Jews, Black Jews, Hispanic Jews, Jews with big hooked noses, Jews with tiny button noses, Jews with black hair and brown eyes, Jews with blond hair and blue eyes, and everything in between.



Conversion is actually a lengthy and arduous process, and includes acceptance of the Torah and all of its commandments in their entirety, and, if you're a guy, circumcision. For men who are already circumcised or were born without a foreskin (it happens), a hatafas dam (symbolic circumcision) is performed, where a drop of blood is drawn from the glans.



Just FYI, Judaism doesn't condemn non-Jews to Hell or anything like that for not being Jewish. Basically, the very existence of non-Jews in the world is proof that G-d wants them here, and that G-d has a plan for everyone (and that plan is not necessarily that everyone convert to Judaism). In addition to the covenant G-d made with Abraham and his descendants through Isaac, G-d also made a covenant with Noah, and there's a growing religious movement of people who share the Jews' beliefs about G-d and who abide by the Noachide covenant and its seven commandments. This has the advantage of getting on G-d's good side with way fewer laws to worry about. If someone were to try to convert to Judaism, but wasn't truly prepared to keep all of the commandments, he'd be doing himself way more spiritual harm than good. Because a bunch of things that don't count against you as a gentile will count against you as a Jew. If you read this answer, then immediately go and have a ham sandwich for lunch, there's no problem with that. But convert to Judaism, and suddenly eating that sandwich is a sin. And we Jews don't really make any distinction between ritual and ethical commandments, like, one being more binding than the other - they're all binding because they were all issued from the same source.



Being Jewish is more than a religion, it's a way of life. If you're going to do it, you've got to do it right. Which is why I recommend the path of the righteous gentile, the ben Noach (son of Noah).



For more on the Noachides:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Noachide



If after all this, you haven't been dissuaded from your interest in joining the Jewish people, I'll tell you that it's going to involve a lot of study. If you think you know Judaism at this point, well, get that out of your head, because you don't know jack - trust me on this - you could have a college degree in "Judaic studies" and you still don't know a thing - what someone who took a "World Religions" class knows about Judaism is a drop in the bucket compared to what I know, what I know is a drop in the bucket compared to what any orthodox rabbi knows, and what your average orthodox rabbi knows is a drop in the bucket compared to his counterpart from just a few generations ago.



So the course of study you'd undertake would be with the supervision and approval of a beis din (a rabbinical court), and with the guidance of your own rabbi. So, to get started, you'd have to contact your LOR (local orthodox rabbi). If you wish to convert to a specific denomination of "Judaism," well, the more liberal the sect, the more lenient the requirements (Reform Jews basically make you take a class and sign a piece of paper that says "I promise to be Jewish now" - they don't even require circumcision), well, you have that option. But just a warning: It doesn't count. Any conversion that is not carried out in accordance with Torah Law, and does not include the convert's acceptance of the Torah as divine and authoritative, is not a true conversion because it misses the whole point of being Jewish. A halakhically valid (halakha = Jewish law) conversion (also called "orthodox") is the only conversion that is recognized by all denominations of Judaism.



For more information on Judaism, and conversion to Judaism, I recommend checking out my profile and reading some of my old answers, many of which address these types of issues. In addition, see the following:



http://www.beingjewish.com

http://www.jewfaq.org

http://www.simpletoremember.com



As well as http://www.askmoses.com - this last site, run by the Chabad-Lubavitch movement, lets you speak with one of their rabbis, live, one-on-one for free. They're not exactly the mainstream within Jewish orthodoxy, but for the purposes of whatever questions you're likely to have, they ought to be more than fine.



I hope you find this information helpful, and best of luck to you on your spiritual journey. If you have any further questions that aren't answered by the above, feel free to contact me directly. If I don't know the answers myself, I can at least point you in the right direction.
jjn333
2007-12-31 17:58:53 UTC
I wouldn't if I had to read the first answer!!!!!
☮Luwayla☮
2007-12-31 17:39:12 UTC
Why would you want to convert to a religion that thinks its ok to kill innocent people just for land?

Why would you want to convert to a religion that disobeyed their Prophet by changing their Holy book?

Why oh why?
John Trent
2007-12-31 17:31:06 UTC
Yes - Embrace Money, Golden Idols & insult everybody else on the planet who is not Jewish by referring to them as 'Gentiles' (Racism)...



You will then be one of the Master Race (God's Chosen People).
Paul S
2007-12-31 17:23:24 UTC
Talk to a local Rabi. You can become a Jew as in joining the Jewish faith but you will never be an ethnic Jew. If you are a woman and marry a Jewish man your children will not be considered Jewish because the Jewish woman determines the ethnicity of her children and if you are a man and marry a Jewish girl your children will be Jewish but they will never have a House (like the House of David) because the father determines the House for the children.

This may change depending on the orthodoxy of the Judaism that you decide to join. An Orthodox Jew is the one that follows all or most of the dietary and other Laws of Moses. They are the ones that still follow the oldest ways though they do allow change for the times that they live in.
2007-12-31 17:23:01 UTC
Yes, you can, but it has to be according to Isaiah 56:6,7. Don't worry about your physical appearance; that's not what counts.

And the way to go about it is to get informed about an Orthodox Bet Din wherever you live. At first, they will reject you but just to test your resilience and determination. Insist on it and you will be eventually accepted.
papasays
2007-12-31 17:17:12 UTC
Till now I do not have any religion. "For sale"
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2007-12-31 17:15:19 UTC
Yes, you can convert to Judaism. My understanding is that it's very difficult to go through the process (this from a Rabbi that came to discuss Judaism in a college Humanities course). You have to be 100% certain that you wish to convert, and there are some rigorous tests and education. Your first step would likely be contacting a local Rabbi.



Good luck and blessings in your chosen path.
handcuffs209
2007-12-31 17:14:59 UTC
you need to contact the local synagogue and ask the Rabbi about the requirements for conversion. all are different, but you will have probably a year of classes to learn more and at my synagogue after the classes you go before the Board and if they approve you, then you have a mikvah, which is a cleansing bath. There are 3 main types of Judaism: orthodox, conservative, and reform. you should research these and that will help u make a decision on which Rabbi to speak with. You are always welcome to attend Shabbat services as a guest on Friday nights or Saturday mornings. Please let me know if I can help further.
giggly nurse
2007-12-31 17:14:36 UTC
I'm sure you can convert. You need to see your local Jewish rabbi. From what I was told, you will have to make three requests to convert before they will allow it.



Don't get disheartened if they refuse you twice, you will just need to ask again.
upyerjumper
2007-12-31 17:13:51 UTC
You can be who you wanna be - no one there to stop you. The only rule on earth is that there are people and it is those people who would reproach you for doing what you are doing. Heck, they're all sales people..let them get a foot in and they take your whole leg with it. Believe in what you want to believe in the rest is sure as guilt is to innocence. Be who you are.
JulyFire
2007-12-31 17:13:32 UTC
i don't think it matters how you look,there are Jews all over the world who all look different, but i do think you can convert, talk to a local rabbi and ask about joining the synagogue.



good luck :)
Mark S, JPAA
2007-12-31 17:11:58 UTC
Yes, anyone can convert. It requires 1-2 years of study with a rabbi; contact a local synagogue and they'll be happy to help.



What you look like on the outside is completely unimportant. You'll need to decide which branch of Judaism works best for you (Orthodox, Reform, etc). And you absolutely *can* convert to Orthodox Judaism--you don't have to be born into it, like another answerer said.



Please feel free to e-mail me if you have any questions!
?
2007-12-31 17:11:37 UTC
You can convert to Judaism. My friend is Jewish and her dad is a convert.

peace and lurve.
2007-12-31 17:11:13 UTC
You need to have some plastic surgery done on your nose
2007-12-31 17:10:53 UTC
I hope you can because I want to become a Jew too. I do not know why someone would give me a thumbs down for this I truly want to convert
2007-12-31 17:10:52 UTC
You cannot convert to Orthodox Judaism unless your mother was Jewish... but most other forms of Judaism accept converts. Talk to a local rabbi.
2007-12-31 17:10:32 UTC
Uhh. I knew a Jewish dude from Southern California who had blond hair and blue eyes and he wasn't a convert so I am pretty sure that hair color is not an issue. I have to question how hard you studied Judaism if you even need to ask about hair and eye color.



To answer your question, I know a guy that married a Jewish girl and converted so it is possible to do so.
mzJakes
2007-12-31 17:10:31 UTC
Seek out a rabbi and be persistent.



Once accepted as a potential convert, you will undergo a period of study to learn the basics of being a Jew. When you're ready, you will go before a Jewish Court and asked if you're willing to leave your former life behind (and be tested on what you've learned). If accepted, you will undergo a circumcision, if male, and immersion in a ritual bath.



It is highly recommended that if you do choose to convert to Judaism, that you do so under orthodox auspices as such a conversion is accepted by all Jews.
♥≈Safi≈♥ ☼of the Atheati☼
2007-12-31 17:09:54 UTC
Ask a rabbi about converting, he can tell you what you need to do.



You don't have to have black hair and brown eyes.
2007-12-31 17:09:47 UTC
You have to fill out an application.
evolver
2007-12-31 17:09:36 UTC
Yes.



http://www.convert.org/
StuBoy
2007-12-31 17:09:08 UTC
I think it is passed down from your mother. I could well be wrong though.
Nature is the ultimate force
2007-12-31 17:08:14 UTC
Yes you can.



Conversion to Judaism (Hebrew גיור, giyur, "conversion to Judaism") is the religious conversion of a previously non-Jewish person to the Jewish religion and to the Jewish people. The procedure for conversion depends on the sponsoring denomination, and hinges on meeting the ritual and substantive requirements for such conversion. A convert to Judaism is referred to as a ger tzedek (Hebrew: "righteous proselyte" or "proselyte [of] righteousness") or simply ger ("stranger" or "proselyte"). In Russian the terms Gery and Gerami are used for Subbotniks who have adopted all aspects of Judaism.





Part of a series of articles on

Jews and Judaism





History of conversion



[edit] In the Bible



Rabbi Marc Angel, a modern Orthodox authority on conversion and former president of the RCA, introduces the history of conversion and the term 'ger' as follows:



The Bible does not describe a formal process for conversion. The Hebrew "ger" (in post-Biblical times translated as "proselyte") literally means "stranger" and refers to a non-Israelite who lived among the Israelite community. When the Torah commands compassion and equal justice for the ger, it is referring to these "strangers." But Rabbinic tradition interpreted the word ger as also referring to proselytes... (Angel 2005, p.17)



Angel's explanation of the literal meaning of "ger" as alien is borne out in biblical verses such as Lev. 19:34:



As a citizen among you shall be the 'ger' who lives among you, and you shall love him as yourself, for you were 'gers' in the land of Egypt—I am the Lord your God."



The Jewish people were not converts in Egypt, but rather aliens. Clearly, this verse deals with how Israelites should relate to non Israelites (foreigners). There is no place in the Hebrew Bible where the term "ger" is clearly used to refer to a convert to Judaism. The closest thing in the text of the Hebrew Bible to a conversion process is the circumcision undergone by the male foreigner ("ger") before eating the Passover offering (Ex. 12:48). Another relevant passage concerns the non-Jewish woman captured in war (Deut. 21:10-14). Women captured by the Israelite armies could be adopted forcibly as wives, but first they had to have their heads shaved and undergo a period of mourning.



[edit] Talmudic conversions



The Rabbis of the Talmud, written between 500-1000 years after the close of the Pentateuch, used the word "ger" to refer to two different types of people. They used the term "ger tzedek" to refer to the proselyte to Judaism, and "ger toshav" to refer to a non-Jewish inhabitant of the Land of Israel who observes the seven Noahide Laws and has repudiated all links with idolatry.



According to the Talmud (Keritot 8b), the process of conversion to Judaism involves three components, which must be witnessed and affirmed by a beth din:



* Circumcision (Brit milah or hatafat dam brit) for men

* Immersion (tevilah) in a mikveh (ritual bath)

* Offering a certain korban in the Beit Hamikdash



The third criterion does not apply because the Beit Hamikdash does not exist today. The consensus of halakhic authorities requires a convert to understand and accept the duties of the halakha, classical Jewish religious law. This is not stated explicitly in the Talmud, but was inferred by subsequent commentators.



After confirming that all these criteria are met, the beth din issues a Shtar Giur ("Certificate of Conversion"), certifying that the former gentile is now a Jew.



[edit] Modern Conversions



Today, the word ger has become synonymous with the Talmudic ger tzedek, or convert to Judaism. Orthodox, Conservative, Reconstructionist, Reform, and other branches of Judaism disagree somewhat as to conversion processes and requirements, and even within any particular movement there is bound to be disagreement.



[edit] Pre-adulthood conversion



Someone who was converted to Judaism as a child has an option of rejecting this after reaching the age of majority. The only thing he or she needs to do is publicly violate a Jewish commandment, or publicly state or demonstrate their commitment to remaining a Jew.



[edit] Controversy over legitimacy of conversions



The requirements for conversion to Judaism are intended to avoid any uncertainty about a convert's true status. The certification by a beth din was based on events the completeness of which were carefully defined.



[edit] Reform Jewish views



In the United States of America, Reform Judaism rejects the concept that any rules or rituals should be considered necessary for conversion to Judaism. In the late 1800s, the Central Conference of American Rabbis, the official body of American Reform rabbis, formally resolved to permit the admission of converts "without any initiatory rite, ceremony, or observance whatever." (CCAR Yearbook 3 (1893), 73-95; American Reform Responsa (ARR), no. 68, at 236-237.)



Although this resolution has often been examined critically by many Reform rabbis, the resolution still remains the official policy of American Reform Judaism (CCAR Responsa "Circumcision for an Eight-Year-Old Convert" 5756.13 and Solomon Freehof, Reform Responsa for Our Time, no. 15.) Thus, American Reform Judaism does not require ritual immersion in a mikveh, circumcision, or acceptance of mitzvot as normative. Appearance before a Bet Din is recommended, but is not considered necessary. Converts are asked to commit to religious standards set by the local Reform community. As such, all Reform conversions are rejected as not being conversions by most non-Reform Jews, though under certain circumstances the Conservative Movement accepts Reform conversions (see below).



Various forms of Liberal Judaism in Israel, the United Kingdom and other countries reject this approach. Many Liberal rabbis in these countries hold that it is necessary for a man to have a brit milah or brit dam, that both men and women require immersion in a mikveh, and that the conversion must only be allowed at the end of a formal course of study, before a Bet Din. This is a common view of many Reform rabbis in Canada, as well as a small but growing number of Reform rabbis in the USA[citation needed].



[edit] Interdenominational views



In response to the tremendous variations that exist within the Reform community, the Conservative Jewish movement attempted to set a nuanced approach. The Conservative Committee on Jewish Law and Standards has issued a legal opinion stating that Reform conversions may be accepted as valid only when they include the minimal Conservative halachic requirements of milah and t'vilah, appearance before a Conservative Bet Din, and a course of Conservative study. (Proceedings of Committee on Jewish Law and Standards: 1980-1985, pp. 77-101.)



In suburban areas where there is not a very high Jewish population, cooperation between Modern Orthodox and Conservative rabbis is somewhat more common.[citation needed] Many Conservative rabbis report cooperation in joint conversions with both Modern Orthodox and Conservative rabbis.[citation needed]



In general, branches of Orthodox Judaism consider non-Orthodox conversions either inadequate or of questionable halachic compliance, and such conversions are therefore not accepted by these branches of Judaism. Conversely, both Conservative and Reform Judaism accept the stringent Orthodox conversion process as being valid.



[edit] Intra-Orthodox views



Orthodox Jewish groups are not unified, and different orthodox communities may hold themselves as more strictly correct in observance than others, or consider others' religious observances of inadequate strictness and validity. As such, Orthodox rabbis often will not automatically accept each other's authority, which has led to a general reluctance in the Orthodox communities to prepare and perform conversions. The term 'Haredi' refers to communities that advocate a strict observation of traditional Jewish law.



This issue recently reached a crisis point when the (Orthodox) Chief Rabbinate of Israel changed its requirements for conversion without informing American Orthodox rabbis, and began systematically rejecting most Orthodox Jewish conversions done outside of Israel. The Chief Rabbinate of Israel began to reject all American Orthodox Jewish conversions done by any Orthodox rabbi, except those on a short list of rabbis, numbering less than fifty, some of them deceased. This sparked a public response by Orthodox groups in the United States:



Rabbi Seth Farber, the director of ITIM, an organization in Israel that helps potential converts navigate the bureaucracy of the Chief Rabbinate, said that body “is marginalizing the American Modern Orthodox rabbinate. “By not recognizing the legitimacy of conversions approved by the Beth Din of America, they’re intimating that the Beth Din of America has no legitimacy whatsoever,” Rabbi Farber continued. “It’s a slap in the face to American converts and American Orthodox rabbis.”

(Chief Rabbinate Barring Conversions From Top U.S. Orthodox Rabbis, The Jewish Week)



One of the groups promoting this change is the Vaad HaRabbonim Haolami LeInyonei Giyur. They hold that Orthodoxy hasn't had a unified standard of conversion, and that many Orthodox conversions done in the last century are suspect. They criticise as being too lax the Chief Rabbinate of Israel; the Chief Rabbi of the United Kingdom, Jonathan Sacks, and a number of other Orthodox rabbis. Many critiques are aimed at Modern Orthodox Jews, who they label as "so-called Orthodox". Orthodox rabbis who cooperate in any way with non-Orthodox Jews are labeled as "orthodox", in quotes with a lower case "o", while Haredi rabbis are called Orthodox rabbis, with no quotes and no lower case letters. (Eisenstein, About Cooperation with Conservative, Reform -- and So-called Orthodox)



Since 2005, Chief Rabbi Amar of the Israeli rabbinate has been in talks with the Rabbinical Council of America. They tentatively floated a compromise: the RCA would draft a joint list of qualified beth dins authorized to perform conversions in the future, and the Chief Rabbinate of Israel would review the list; all conversions accepted by the RCA in the past and for a short period in the future will be accepted. As of May 2007, this agreement has not been accepted by Rabbi Amar. Rabbi Amar has demanded RCA rabbis on American Beit Din be approved by the Israeli rabbinate. Traditionally, Orthodox communal rabbis have refrained from implementing tests on colleagues from other regions. Rabbi Amar's novel requirement to vet RCA rabbis marks an evolution in diaspora and Israeli rabbinate relations. Rabbi Amar has also demanded more Haredi representation on Israel's conversion courts. [1] Meanwhile, within Israel, the status of converts is becoming more confused. Recently, an Israeli rabbi in Ashdod retroactively annulled an Orthodox conversion performed by another rabbi whom he regards as not complying with the halakha. [2]



Recognizing a threat to completed and future conversions, the State of Israel is considering reforming the Haredi dominated Conversion Authority. Under Immigrant Absorption Minister Ze'ev Boim's plan, power would be distributed more widely than at present. According to Erez Halfon, director general of the Absorption Ministry, the current system's "rabbinical courts are intimidating converts as well as rabbis by setting unreasonable requirements." The reform proposes unifying institutions that deal with conversion under one administrative umbrella, and doubling the number of rabbinical judges who review conversions. [3]



Some Sephardic Orthodox rabbis, particularly those of Judeo-Spanish descent, take a more liberal view of conversion than the majority opinion. For instance, the first Sephardic Chief Rabbi of Israel, Benzion Uziel, held that conversions should be accepted, if not strongly recommended, in the case of an intermarried couple who will continue to live as man and wife regardless of whether the non-Jewish spouse converts. Rabbi Uziel reasoned that it was preferable to convert the non-Jewish partner, regardless of the partner's reasoning for converting, than to permit the Jewish partner to continue transgressing by living with a non-Jew in a spousal relationship. Today, advocates for Rabbi Uziel's opinion include Rabbi Marc D. Angel of Shearith Israel (the Spanish-Portuguese Synagogue) in New York, but very few if any other Orthodox rabbis.



[edit] Canadian Orthodox conversion program



There are two orthodox conversion programmes in Montreal. One is made up of a Bet Din (Jewish Court) of congregational member rabbis from the Rabbinical Council of America, Montreal region (RCA). This program provides a way to convert according to the rigorous rules of Halachah while making the process more “user friendly” for non-Jewish individuals seeking a more “hands-on” or “modern Orthodox” approach. The second program is supervised by the Jewish Community Council of Montreal, the Vaad Hair.



All conversion candidates – who could include singles, non-Jewish couples and adoption cases – must have a sponsoring rabbi and undergo a rigorous screening process. Conversions stemming from both programs are recognized in Israel and around the world.



[edit] Attempts to resolve the "Who is a Jew?" issue



Main article: Who is a Jew?



[edit] 1950s: Proposed Joint Bet Din



In the 1950s Rabbi Joseph Soloveitchik and other members of the Rabbinical Council of America engaged in a series of private negotiations with the leaders of Conservative Judaism's Rabbinical Assembly, including Saul Lieberman; their goal was to create a joint Orthodox-Conservative national beth din for all Jews in America. It would create communal standards of marriage and divorce. It was to be modeled after the Israeli Chief Rabbinate, where all the judges would have been Orthodox, while it would have been accepted by the larger Conservative movement as legitimate. Conservative rabbis in the Rabbinical Assembly worked created a Joint Conference on Jewish Law, devoting a year to this effort.



For a number of reasons, the project did not succeed. According to Orthodox Rabbi Bernstein, the major reason for its failure was the Orthodox rabbis insisted that the Conservative Rabbinical Assembly expel Conservative rabbis for actions they took before this new Beit Din was formed, and the RA refused to do so. (Bernstein, 1977) According to Orthodox Rabbi Emanuel Rackman, former president of the RCA, the major reason for its failure was pressure from right-wing Orthodox rabbis, who held that any cooperation between Orthodoxy and Conservatism was forbidden. In 1956, Rabbi Harry Halpen, of the Joint Conference wrote a report on the demise of this beit din. He writes that negotiations between the Orthodox and Conservative were completed and agreed upon, but then a new requirement was demanded by the RCA: The RA must "impose severe sanctions" upon Conservative rabbis for actions they took before this new Beit Din was formed. Halpern writes that the RA "could not assent to rigorously disciplining our members at the behest of an outside group." He goes on to write that although subsequent efforts were made to cooperate with the Orthodox, a letter from eleven Rosh Yeshivas was circulated declaring that Orthodox rabbis are forbidden to cooperate with Conservative rabbis. (Proceedings of the CJLS of the Conservative Movement 1927-1970 Vol. II, p.850-852.)



[edit] 1978-1983: The Denver Program



In Denver, Colorado, a joint Orthodox, Traditional, Conservative and Reform Bet Din was formed to promote uniform standards for conversion to Judaism. A number of rabbis were Orthodox and had semicha from Orthodox yeshivas, but were serving in synagogues without a mechitza; these synagogues were called Traditional Judaism. Over a five year period they performed some 750 conversions to Judaism. However, in 1983 the joint Bet Din was dissolved, due to the unilateral American Reform Jewish decision to change the definition of Jewishness. (Wertheimer, A People Divided, 1993)



The move was precipitated by the resolution on patrilineality adopted that year by the Central Conference of American Rabbis. This decision to redefine Jewish identity, as well as the designation of Denver as a pilot community for a new Reform out reach effort to recruit converts, convinced the Traditional and Conservative rabbis that they could no longer participate in the joint board ...the national decision of the Reform rabbinate placed the Traditional and Conservative rabbis in an untenable position. They could not cooperate in a conversion program with rabbis who held so different a conception of Jewish identity. And furthermore, they could not supervise conversions that would occur with increasing frequency due to a Reform outreach effort that was inconsistent with their own understanding of how to relate to potential proselytes. (Werthheimer, Chapter 9)



The end of this program was welcomed by Charedi Orthodox groups, who saw the program as illegitimate. Further, Charedi groups attempted to prevent non-Orthodox rabbis from following the traditional requirements of converts using a mikvah. In the Charedi view, it is better to have no conversion at all than a non-Orthodox conversion, as all non-Orthodox conversions are not true conversions at all according to them. (Fifth Anniversary of the Mikveh of East Denver, Hillel Goldberg)



[edit] 1980s: Proposed Israeli Joint Bet Din



In the 1980s Orthodox Rabbi Norman Lamm, Rosh Yeshiva of Yeshiva University, along with other American and Israeli Orthodox rabbis, worked with Conservative and Reform rabbis to come up with solution to the "Who is a Jew?" issue. In 1989 and 1990 Israeli Prime Minister Yitzhak Shamir spearheaded an effort to create a solution to the "Who is a Jew?" issue.



A plan was developed by Israeli Cabinet Secretary Elyakim Rubenstein, who negotiated secretly for many months with rabbis from Conservative, Reform and Orthodox Judaism, including faculty at Yeshiva University, with Lamm as Rosh Yeshiva. They were planning to create a joint panel that interviewed people who were converting to Judaism and considering making aliyah (moving to the State of Israel), and would refer them to a bet din that would convert the candidate following traditional halakha. All negotiating parties came to agreement:



(1) Conversions must be carried out according to halakha

(2) the bet din (rabbinic court) overseeing the conversion would be Orthodox, perhaps appointed by the Chief Rabbinate of Israel, and

(3) there would be three-way dialogue throughout the process.



Many Reform rabbis took offense at the notion that the bet din must be strictly halakhic and Orthodox, but they acquiesced. However, when word about this project became public, a number of leading haredi rabbis issued a statement denouncing the project, condemning it as a "travesty of halakha. Rabbi Moshe Sherer, Chairman of Agudath Israel World Organization, stated that "Yes we played a role in putting an end to that farce, and I'm proud we did." Norman Lamm condemned this interference by Sherer, stating that this was "the most damaging thing that he [Sherer] ever did in his forty year career." (Landau, p.320)



Rabbi Lamm wanted this to be only the beginning of a solution to Jewish disunity. He stated that had this unified conversion plan not been destroyed, he wanted to extend this program to the area of halakhic Jewish divorces, thus ending the problem of mamzerut. (Landau, p.320)



[edit] 1997: Neeman Commission Proposal



In 1997 the issue of "Who is a Jew?" again arose in the State of Israel, and Orthodox leaders such as Rabbi Norman Lamm publicly backed the Neeman commission, a group of Orthodox, Masorti (Conservative) and Progressive (Reform) rabbis working to develop joint programs for conversion to Judaism. In 1997 Lamm gave a speech at the World Council of Orthodox Leadership, in Glen Springs, N.Y., urging Orthodox Jews to support this effort.



Lamm told his listeners that they should value and encourage the efforts of non-Orthodox leaders to more seriously integrate traditional Jewish practices into the lives of their followers. They should welcome the creation of Reform and Conservative day schools and not see them as a threat to their own, Lamm said. In many communities, Orthodox day schools, or Orthodox-oriented community day schools, have large numbers of students from non-Orthodox families. The liberal movements should be appreciated and encouraged because they are doing something Jewish, even if it is not the way that Orthodox Jews would like them to, he said. "What they are doing is something, and something is better than nothing," he said in his speech. "I'm very openly attacking the notion that we sometimes find in the Orthodox community that `being a goy is better'" than being a non-Orthodox Jew, he said in an interview. (Debra N. Cohen, 1997)



The plan has been effectively rendered non-existent due to denunciations from haredi rabbis, causing some other Orthodox rabbis to back out, and causing the Israeli Chief rabbinate to not support this program.



[edit] Consequences of conversion



Once undergone, a religious conversion to Judaism is irreversible (from a Jewish perspective), unless there are convincing grounds to believe that the convert was insincere or deceptive during the conversion process. In such cases—which are exceedingly rare—a beth din may determine that the conversion was void.



A public and clear violation of Jewish law immediately following the formal conversion may give grounds for considering such an annulment if it can be demonstrated that such a violation proved that the conversion was fraudulent to begin with. A few isolated cases of annulments have been vigorously debated within the Jewish community, with several rabbinical authorities holding the practice to be in violation of halakha[citation needed].



[edit] Relations between Jews and converts



The Hebrew Bible states that converts deserve special attention (Deuteronomy 10:19). The Hebrew word for "convert", ger, is the same as that for a stranger. It is also related to the root gar - "to dwell'. Hence since the Children of Israel were "strangers" - geirim in Egypt, they are therefore instructed to be welcoming to those who seek to convert and dwell amongst them.



Judaism, unlike Christianity and Islam, is not a proselytizing religion. Because it teaches that the righteous of all nations shall enter the gates of heaven, it does not have any compelling urge to rescue non-Jews from hell.[citation needed]



There is a requirement in Jewish law to ensure the sincerity of a potential convert. This is taken very seriously, and when played out against the background of the foregoing considerations, most authorities are very careful about it. Essentially, they want to be sure that the convert knows what he is getting into, and that he is doing it for sincerely religious reasons. A Rabbinic tradition holds that a prospective convert should be refused three times.



[edit] Place in religious life



Halakha forbids reminding a convert that he/she was once not a Jew and hence little distinction is made in Judaism between "Jews by birth" and "Jews by choice".



According to Orthodox interpretations of Halakha, converts face a limited number of restrictions. A marriage between a female convert and a Kohen (members of the priestly class) is prohibited, unless the female convert converted before the age of 3, and any children of the union do not inherit their father's Kohen status. Converts can become rabbis, indeed the Talmud lists many of the Jewish nation's greatest leaders, who had either descended from or were themselves converts.



In Orthodox and Conservative communities which maintain tribal distinctions, converts become Yisraelim, ordinary Jews with no tribal or inter-Jewish distinctions. They traditionally become part of the tribe of Judah.



A convert chooses his or her own Hebrew first name upon conversion but is always known as the son or daughter of Abraham and Sarah, the first patriarch and matriarch in the Torah, often with the additional qualifier of "Avinu" (our father) and "Imenu" (our mother). Hence, a convert named Akiva would be known, for ritual purposes in a synagogue, as "Akiva ben Avraham Avinu"; in cases where the mother's name is used, such as for the prayer for recovery from an illness, he would be known as "Akiva ben Sarah Imenu".



[edit] "Jews by Choice"



The term "Jew by choice" is often used to describe someone who converted to Judaism, and is often contrasted with such terms as "Jew by birth" or "Jew by chance."



For purely rhetorical purposes, some polemicists elicit that every Jew is a Jew by choice, because the worldwide Jewish community is so small and the pull of assimilation is so great. So it is very easy for someone who was born Jewish to abandon Jewish traditions and customs in adulthood, absent a conscious choice to stay Jewish. This perspective is not part of Jewish law or social custom.



For purely philosophical purposes, a convert is not considered by many to be a "Jew by Choice" at all. In fact, many traditional Jews take offense not only at the word "convert" but also at this more politically-correct term. The reasoning for this is the notion that everyone has a Jewish soul, and that those who were not born Jewish, and elect to go through the conversion process, have returned to the nature of their soul through true teshuva. Therefore, this person is not to be known as a convert, or any derivation of the term.



[edit] See also



* Abraham ben Abraham

* List of converts to Judaism

* Religious conversion

* Ger toshav



[edit] References



Marc D. Angel (2005). "Choosing to Be Jewish, K'Tav Publishing.



* Rabbi Louis Bernstein The Emergence of the English Speaking Orthodox Rabbinate, 1977, Yeshiva University

* Debra Nussbaum Cohen, Orthodox leader speaks out on Jewish unity, breaking long silence, Jewish Telegraphic Agency, December 5, 1997

* Proceedings of the Committee on Jewish Law and Standards of the Conservative Movement 1927-1970, Vol. II, Ed. David Golinkin, The Rabbinical Assembly, 1997

* Norman Lamm, Seventy Faces: Divided we stand, but its time to try an idea that might help us stand taller, Moment Vol. II, No. 6, June 1986 - Sivan 5746

* David Landau Piety & Power, 1993, Hill & Wang, NY

* Mayer E. Rabinowitz Comments to the Agunot Conference in Jerusalem, July 1998, and on the Learn@JTS website.

* Emmanuel Rackman, letter in Jewish Week May 8, 1997, page 28.

* Joseph Soloveitchik Orthodox, Conservative and Reform Jews in the United States: Second article in a series on Responsa of Orthodox Judaism in the United States, 1954

* Jack Wertheimer, Ed., Tradition Renewed: A History of the Jewish Theological Seminary of America, Vol. II, p.450, 474, JTS, NY, 1997

* Jack Wertheimer, A People Divided: Judaism in Contemporary America, 1997, University Press of New England



http://learn.jtsa.edu/topics/reading/bookexc/wertheimer_people/index.shtml



* Chief Rabbinate Barring Conversions From Top U.S. Orthodox Rabbis. Move stuns RCA rabbis, Michele Chabin, The Jewish Week 5/5/2006



* About Cooperation with Conservative, Reform - and So-called Orthodox. Rabbi Nochum Eisenstein



* Fifth Anniversary of the Mikveh of East Denver, by Rabbi Hillel Goldberg and Yated Ne'eman Staff



* New ‘modern Orthodox’ conversion program launched, David Lazarus, Canadian Jewish News



* Rabbi Josef Lifland Converts and Conversion to Judaism. Gefen Publishing House. ISBN 965-229-235-4
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