Love is not simply a fuzzy feeling. We confuse love with things. I love my car. Or in the new way of today's world, love is a many splendored thing, whatever you want it to be. Whatever feels good, do it.
Love involves an action. It involves sacrifice.
God gave His only son. This is true love. He gave his best.
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Jesus asked the woman at the well for a drink.
He asked for all of us to come to Him and believe in Him.
He asked many things of His father, for knowledge and wisdom and for the Holy Spirit.
Jesus is a perfect example of who we must strive to be, yes. But for us humans, love must run in both directions, giving as well as taking, always in balance. Love from a distance on the wrong end of a stick will most likely not survive.