what's so wrong with wearing short skirts and tight tops?

Question

I'm an exhibitionist. I'll admit that I like it when guys look at my body and I usually (not always) wear revealing clothes that show my body off. that doesn't mean I think my body's all I'm worth, just that I like the thrill... who doesn't like being seen as attractive?

boy or girl, young or old, black or white - when someone tells you you're hot, sexy, gorgeous, beautiful, cute, or something else... it feels nice, doesn't it?

some people act like that's absolutely terrible and there's something immoral with dressing like that. why do people still have hangups in this day and age about harmless stuff like that? what's so immoral about the human body and dressing that way?

Answer 1

First of all I'd like to say God Bless The Exhibitionist! I consider it a gift when a girl has the attitude that you have. When you feel good enough about yourself so share it a little bit with other people, I think that's just great! I rarely get compliments any more, but the other day I got a haircut and a foxy woman I see at the morning coffee shop on a semi regular basis told me that she liked my hair. I LOVED hearing that! I think some people make too much of dressing the way that you feel comfortable dressing. Just because you dress sexy doesn't mean that you're out in the street fornicating. You're just looking good. I'd just like to say keep doing what you're doing and don't listen to the far right about THEY think that YOU should dress. They can wear their high neck blouses and carpet sweeper dresses if they want. It's a free country. (at least where I am) Life is short. Enjoy it. And if that means dressing sexy, so be it!

Answer 2

Tight Short Skirts

Answer 3

It depends. You posted this in religion and spirituality which implies that you want a religious answer. If so, then there are a couple reasons. Namely that it's good to be modest because God wants us to dress that way, but also because dressing immodestly can lead others to lust after you. That's not to say that they wouldn't anyway, but encouraging it is not a good thing.



Additionally, on the common sense end of things, this can lead to self esteem problems.

Answer 4

There is nothing wrong with it but it's not the custom to do it.

Answer 5

Photos would help US decide, I would think, otherwise you are just telling us something that might, or might NOT be true. Btw, you must promise that the pictures are of YOU, and not someone else. I do agree with you that women who are gorgeous SHOULD show off, but I DO believe in good taste.

Answer 6

There's nothing wrong with wanting to look good. I don't go overboard with myself because quite frankly, there is no need. It's more important for a person to pay attention to me because they're truly interested in what I have to say and not what I look like. People who determine who they'll hang with based on looks and not personality are tacky and shallow. Not saying that you are, I'm saying you're attracting those kinds of people to you.



I wear tight shirts, but usually have another t-shirt over it with the sleeves cut off to tip off the style. A pair of comfotable jeans and a sweet t-shirt set get me more compliments than the women with their tata's popping out of their tops. Just saying. Granted, a lot of men like to look, but when push comes to shove a sweet smile with modest clothes wins. Men are looking for women to admire them not themselves.



Again, nothing wrong with wanting to look good, but I'm sure you're attracting many unwanted characters like rapists and abusers and people who just simply lack respect for who you truly are.



Just something to think about. . .beauty passes away daily. Use it now I guess, but remember. . .you're not always gunna look that way. It's more important to focus on who you are on the inside.

Answer 7

Personally, I think there is a certain time/place where a girl can dress in revealing clothes.

I mean as long as your not at church or a job interview or something dressed in skimpy clothing.

Answer 8

I personally think guys look extremely warmer with short hair. I had the guy friend that had a afro and he cut it in eighth grade year and he suddenly obtained soo much cuter.

Answer 9

Nothing wrong with it.

Unless you live in Florida, Hawaii, California, etc this time of the year it'd be a bit silly to wear those kind of clothes though.

Answer 10

There's nothing wrong with it, actually. It may be the reason most of us are around to carry on the tradition or should I say the natural selection in attraction. Wee!

Answer 11

It causes others to lust after you, and lust is a sin.

Since you deliberately dress to get others to lust after you, the sin is on you.



Edit.

Now that I have seen your pic, I wish to add something to my answer.

It will make men want you more then just looking at your beautiful face and perfect skin tone.

Send me a pic and I will try to give a better answer.

Answer 12

Long skirts make me gag. Very ancient-librarian-lady-trying-to-be-fash... Stick to short skirts- or occasionally a knee-length one if its cute

Answer 13

Well, I have in order to admit I love girls with long hair... for me, the longer, the better... I honestly can't think of anyone who looked better with quick hair

Answer 14

I love little skirts and the true way i correct it being short is leggings and coloured tights. Not the ones with holes however the ones that pretty much look like leggings but are obviously tights because of the material.

Answer 15

One of your questions were "when someone tells you you're hot, sexy, gorgeous, beautiful, cute, or something else... it feels nice, doesn't it?" Well if it was told to me My answer is Nope. . . because I don't like liars. lol. :)

Answer 16

There's absolutely nothing wrong with it.



The only downside is that it's synonymous with girls who use sex appeal as a substitute for having an interesting personality.



Subtlety is a virtue and key to attracting guys who've got something more interesting to talk about other than their car and sports.

Answer 17

God says it's wrong to have sexual thoughts and be horny so when women look beautiful and men get erections they blame it on the woman and her skimpy clothes and call it a sin. Extremely chauvinistic. Thinking this way is just a mans way to control women with their pecker because they can't control themselves.

Answer 18

lol @ that burka defense. As if men give a crap what their wearing when they rape. Why do Muslims defend the rapists? "its not their fault, that lady shouldn't have showed her ankle!"

Answer 19

If you got it, flaunt it. There's nothing immoral about that. But don't, then, be offended if people value you based on your sexuality. It's what you're telling them to do.

Answer 20

Nothing wrong with it.



But unfortunately people will judge you.. but then again they'll always judge you anyway. who cares right?

Answer 21

I do not like advertisements and commercials that do not state the price of what is being advertised..... put a price tag on your back bumper at least so I will know if I can afford it.... and a number to call or the location to go to to try it out............and if your not selling it.... don't advertise it to the general public

Answer 22

there's something wrong with them

Answer 23

whats wrong is that those people have a broomstick stuck up their as*es.

Answer 24

A woman who dresses like that is screaming for attention that she so desperately needs. Find friends to give you attention.



PS: be careful of the attention you seek. It usually ends up really bad.

Answer 25

taliban wouldn't allow it.

Answer 26

There are chances you might be rape easier And faster than a woman wearing a burka.

Answer 27

Because if you caca, it will drip quickly and show more quickly



Only wear long skirts because all the caca will not show

Answer 28

God hates shy strippers!



Ezekiel 16:37

therefore I*

(*NOT SATAN but God!)



am going to gather all your lovers, with whom you found pleasure*

(*God is now very busy keeping score of people’s sexual hits)



those you loved as well as those you hated*

(*all of them!)



I will gather them against you from all around and will STRIP YOU in front of them, and they will see ALL YOUR NAKEDNESS*

(*God is fed up with shy strip-teasers),



Nahum 3:5-6

I am against you, declares the Lord Almighty. "I will lift your skirts over your face.*

(*they were so prude… wearing skirts!)



I will show the nations*

(*atta God! Much better than the SADISTIC John 3:16 bit about God loving this world enough to have God the Son Jesus Christ nailed to a Holy Roman Cross)



your NAKEDNESS and the kingdoms your shame!*

(*they were so damned prude!)



I will pelt you with FILTH*

(*now she is SPARKLING CLEAN, but wait till GOD gets ya!)



I will treat you with contempt and make you a spectacle!*

(*God’s PERVERT behavior makes any atheist to feel very uncomfortable dealing with Christians who PRETEND to ignore their God’s smutty orientation!)



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God is forcing PRUDE GIRLS to parade naked to call everybody’s attention.



Anybody today FORCING a porno star to do anything like that ends up in JAIL! God would really be out of luck in this ONE NATION UNDER GOD… if it weren’t for Christians.



2 Samuel 12:11-12

This is what the LORD says: “…Before your very eyes I* (*God) will take your WIVES*

(*King David’s innocent fun loving wives)



and give THEM* (*plural) to one who is close to you, and he will lie with your wives*

(*have sex with them. In the Bible stories, NOBODY STOPS AT FONDLING)



in BROAD DAYLIGHT*

(*God is taking some time off running this humongous universe to promote WIFE SWAPPING and GROUP SEX, not in the closet, but in full public view and without age restrictions)



You did it in secret, but I will do this thing in BROAD DAYLIGHT before all Israel”*

(*Again! Including all minors watching! GOD’S WILL is that all of King David’s forfeited wives, including the horny QUEEN BATHSHEBA, King Solomon’s mom, and one of Jesus’ ancestors do a live sex show on stage in full public view! King David wives’ never dreamed to party so wildly! 2Sam16:21-22)



Job 31:9-10

[Job is praying] "If my heart has been enticed by a woman, or if I have lurked at my neighbor's door, then may MY WIFE grind another man's grain, and may other MEN*

(*many men)



sleep with her*

(*have sex with her. If Job’s wife is caught cheating on him, he can always wonder which girl he was fantasizing about that forced God to answer his prayer)



Jeremiah 8:10

Therefore I* (*God) will give their wives to other men…



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Again, and again! In all the “never changing” Bible stories any wife with a poorly performing husband can ALWAYS have hope that God would give them a new stud.



Sex starved Christian ladies must not feel guilty looking around! God, not Satan, but God is realizing their erotic dreams with other men!



God is no a “respecter of persons!” The Clergy in general is doing it in the closet only because of SECULAR morality!



2 Samuel 12:8

I* (*God) gave your master's house to you* (*King David), and your master's WIVES*

(all of King Saul’s WIVES, all of them)



into your arms*

(*King David was married to Michal, one of King Saul’s daughters. Now God is adding MICHAL’s mom to his collection of WIVES!)



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Can you imagine a wild sex party, all in the family, with Michal and her own mom in a royal bed competing for David’s attention?



King David confessed that NO WOMAN TURNED HIM ON like Michal’s own brother Jonathan ever did! Obviously, King David was bisexually oriented!



2 Samuel 1:26

I* (*King David) grieve for you, Jonathan my brother*

(*brother-in-law)



you were very dear to me. Your love for me was wonderful, MORE WONDERFUL THAN THAT OF WOMEN*

(*the kind of “love” akin to Ted Haggard the former US President Bush’s Religious Adviser)



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King David earned the hand of Michal after messing with the penis of 200 dead Palestinians. Some Preachers claim that Jewish kids in Israel read the Bible in their school’s HISTORY class.



1 Samuel 18:27

David and his men went out and killed two hundred Philistines*

(*early Gaza Palestinians)



He brought their foreskins and presented the FULL NUMBER* (*200!!!) to the king*

(*at that time David was a young illiterate shepherd bossing a gang of thugs! King Saul requested only 100, but David was “a man after God’s own heart.” He walked “the extra mile” messing with the penis of 200 dead Palestinians)



so that he might become the king's son-in-law. Then Saul gave him his daughter Michal in marriage.



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Can any Sunday School kid imagine Michal’s pride to know that her loving husband, the future King David of Israel worked hard on the penis of 200 dead Palestinians to marry her?



Hustler doesn’t get this smutty, so please correct me if I am wrong!

Answer 29

Nothing. Do that please.