the modern muslims realized that Qur'aan has challenged science itself try to check this http://www.miraclesofthequran.com/ Qur'aan amazes humans everyday because it is not outdated like you may see.. it talks about other things too astronomy, medicine, ...
Edit: muslims discover that now because it was hard for muslims before to realize it
civilization doesn't mean to modernize our religion this is the fault was made in some religions .. look at civilization and what it made us do women are comodities now their bodies are easy to approach or abuse.. the theory of outdated religion you need to rethink again about it .. isn't this civilization is what made people fight with nuclear and chemical weapons think again about harassements, abuse and a hell of other things we live in today
check those reasons (some reasons why people converted to islam) that made some people converted to islam
Overwhelming scientific evidence and proofs – The Quran, revealed more than 1400 years ago has numerous scientific facts that are being validated by science only in this era.
Divine wisdom behind various social issues – The Quran provides a solution to numerous social issues, a deviation from which has known to cause societal chaos at all levels.
Arguments rooted in intellectual reasoning – Quran is the only known religious text that challenges mankind to think, reflect and ponder over the creation at large, social issues, God’s existence, and more. Quran in many instances challenges people to reflect and think on their own rather than heeding to the lose talk of those whose criticism is based on baseless foundations.
other reasons you can see in the following link:
http://www.iqrasense.com/uncategorized/what-drives-people-to-convert-to-islam.html
BTW when muslims were very 'muslims' they gave humanity treasures of science check those links http://www.cyberistan.org/islamic/
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_Ara...
this can tell you that real muslims are civilized by nature
also for me islam didn't prevent me from succeeding at work 5 years ago i was a manager my task force consisted of both men and women i lived in an apartment bymyself with my own money i became a manager when i was 28 or 27 islam didn't prevent me from achieving anything i wanted we wear what we want but it should be decent is this hard to absorb (the decent theory became outdated! )
Edit: I really enjoyed the competition but I always did feel there is something missing yes I was successful but empty and sufferring yes I admit it
women by nature if they are not satisfied they have the right to ask for divorce it is not like in other religions
you can check rights given to women by islam when they were killed alive at that time (compare those rights with what we (all women suffer today and rights we seek for)
What are women's rights in Islam?
http://www.themodernreligion.com/women/w_rights_summary.htm
OK then. What are women's rights in Islam?
http://www.islamic.org.uk/womright.html
Women's Rights In Islam
http://www.themuslimwoman.com/herrights/womensrights.htm
aren't those right is what we women want nowadays.. believe me women are the same everywhere and giving your body to a stranger and uncovering our bodies is not the real civilization hoestly i had conflicts over those things when i were too young but now after having those wonderful kids i realized the wisdom behind everything came in Qur'aan i found humans spoiled everything and even forgot what is civilization check this letter http://myummah.co.za/site/2008/01/12/to-my-muslim-sisters-a-letter-from-a-christian-woman/ when you read this letter you will know how we are similar
Edit: i believe the current civilization you mentioned made women suffer sleeping with sleeping bills (while muslims just say some Qur'aan and they fell into deep sleep!) other bills for anxiety, other bills for depression and a hell of bills there must be something wrong going on and deep inside you you know that you know what's wrong you know that women (by this beautiful, delicate, sensetive design) were created not to struggle and suffer to earn money to fight with men (i'm not against working by the way i used to be a workholic woman)
i discovered that women are more strong in other things to take care of multiple things at a single time, they are emotionally powerful they can love the entire earth a hell of other things just make a brainstroming and match we were created for another mission to support, love, help, give lives (not birth because birth is limited in my opinion)
Edit: about beating women it has nothing to do with islam it is related with anger and bad traditions Qur'aan just said do not beat them hard (if you searched this you will find this in only one case as the last solution when a wife became a rebel or something like that and started not to give the man his rights only in this case and the prophet make it clear that women shouldn't be beaten at all this is the good human who will do that) this is an ewtreme way if the woman gone too far that's all and the prophet stressed on not to beat them .. in islam beating is not a solution to anything at all .. the prophet told muslims in his last speech to take care of women (not the opposite) to be honest islam came to free women if you try to know more you will find that
concerning to obey or not think about it is somebody gave you a diamond ring what would you do what about your life, your whole body and mind, this earth and universe, your family and friends what about the god who gave you all of this doesn't he worth appreciation and to obey him .. if you really believed he will tell you what's right for you you will have peace inside and will see the truth just try
Edit: the domination theory it is not an invasion or a competition it is that the truth will be realized sooner or later that god sent all religions gradually to tell humans about their god, their mission on earth, and how to be good humans till it ended up with islam the most sophisticated one it is a way of life more than a religion.. the way of life in which god gave you the 'best' for all humans isn't this just great!
Edit: a muslim is the one who doesn't harm anyone even by his mouth isn't this what we humans all need! islam told us it is all about manners are manners are outdated? you just need to know more about Qur'aan and islam to find out is it really outdated or not
wish you the best of luck.. please feel free to contact me whenever you need i'll be glad :) and if you needed to know more about islam just tell me i'm all yours and glad to have the chance to answer your question