He once yelled at me for 3 hours for getting medical treatment after I had gone 50 hours without any sleep because he was worried I would embarass him in front of the hospital staff by talking about how my parents stress me out to the point where I can't sleep. Then he slandered me to the nurses saying I was a pathological liar, delusional and psychotic because he was worried they would file a medical report about how I was being mistreated at home and embarass him in front of the doctor he sees. He also refused to take me to the doctor when I was anorexic at the age of 9 (I had anorexia for 6 years) I also had symptoms of reversible diabetes at the age of 8 which my parents refused to give me medical attention for. This lasted for at least 5 or 6 years. They also refused to let me drink water when I was vacationing with them in Spain because my mother said that it was a "to expensive" (about 3 dollars a bottle AT MOST) and my mother would NOT let me use my OWN MONEY to buy water because she said it was an UNWISE decision. I gained 15 pounds from this vacation because my metabolism slowed down after I was denied water and forced to burn excess fat and overwork my body (it wears out your liver etc...) and they forced me to walk around in dress shoes for 8 - 11 hours a day even though I weigh 200 pounds because my mother was too embarassed to have people see me walking around in running shoes. They also forced me to go 40 hours without any sleep because they wanted to save $12.00 on the admission fee to the museum since museums are free on sundays in spain (after the overnight flight there) Even though I can get glasses for $50 dollars, my parents force me to spend $200 - $300 dollars getting glasses at this chinese place by hurontario because they think they can get maybe a 5% discount on glasses if our entire family shops at the same place. When my uncle came to visit us from China, (he hates me too) I was told that my father wanted me to spend $300 dollars of my own money taking him out ot dinner even though I'm on disability and my father was unwilling to buy him a $15.00 dollar pizza. When my e-mail was hacked by a guy in University my father told me it was my fault because I was always embarassing him by acting stupid and weird and that if I conformed to social norms people wouldn't think I was so stupid and easy to victimize. He's talked about this every single week to every single person I come in contact for the last 6 years blaming me about all the lies that were being told about them and telling everybody that they were true. When I asked my cousin to lend me money for school (Since she spent $1000 dollars on my 16th birthday gift... my father talked about this every single day for 1 hour for 5 years... and he told me I was such a selfish jerk for expecting my relatives to pay for my school and then he tries to sabotage my relationship with them and tells them I am mentally retarded so that they will not judge him for not paying for my education. I got fired from my job at the gap because my father forced me to take a 3 month vacation to learn social skils so that I could stop embarassing him, and this was 2 weeks after I was hired and then my dad tried to ruin my reputation by telling everybody that I was an unemployed bum and that I got fired from a minimum wage job because I was too lazy. After that my cousin hated me because she works 16 hour days on wall street.
These are the reasons, I do NOT want my father to be in charge of my physical or mental health and these are the reasons I do not give you permission to share any medical information about me with my dad. He would not let me see the results of the i.q. test that the psychiatrist or psychologist gave me even though he DOES NOT have power of attorney over me and he made me take the i.q. test because he wanted to legally prove that I was mentally retarded so that he could get me locked in a psychiatric ward. He told me this about 100 times at least. I scored in the 85th percentile in my worst category of intelligence.