Why is all this bad stuff happening to me?

Question

Well horrible htings have been happening lately and i dont know why, 1st my grades dropped 2 i tried out for the military and didnt get accepted because of my ADD 3. my JROTC core lost our drill comp and placed 7th got no award or anything and 4. my bf dumped me today. y is this horrible stuff happening!!?

Answer 1

Most people have the misconception that God is the one in charge of earth right now. 1 John 5:19: "We know we originate with God, but the whole world is lying in the power of the wicked one."

Seeing as Satan is in charge and his main priority is making us miserable, it shouldn't be too surprising. Revelation 12:9,12 says that Satan was thrown out of heaven and to the earth-thus all the suffering-but that the reason why he's so hard at work is that he's mad that he doesn't have much time left. So we won't have to put up with him making life hard anymore. :)

http://www.watchtower.org/e/bh/article_11.htm

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Answer 2

Well probably a series of events led to these things happening. You can fix those things. I mean you can't really join the military because you have ADD. But you can always work on trying to fix you're grades. Practice when you have a drill competition coming up. And about you're bf, move on with you're life. Find another guy or stay single and focus on you. Well I'm only going to guess that first you're grades dropped which probably brought you down. And it didn't help that didn't get into the military. Which could have affected you during you're drill competition. And as far as why you're bf broke up, I'm not sure why.

Answer 3

These sound like disappointing events, but not "horrible".



Dear, take a look at the damage that the tornados ripping through the midwest and some southern states a few days ago caused. Friends of mine who were there helping folks after the fact said things like the following:



"These people have lost everything. They are in need of food, water, clothing, shelter, basic living items, etc."



"Having spent much of the day comforting folks and feeding them homemade soup, I have seen up close and personal the devastation, and the impact it has left on the community. But I have also witnessed the strength and resiliency of these people, and felt their heartfelt thanks at being alive."



Now, compare your "horrible" to theirs, these people whose homes and communities were destroyed. It's all about your perception of yourself and your life.



Perhaps you need to take some time to make a gratitude list for yourself. Change the way you think and you'll change your life.



Also, perhaps you need to accept some personal responsibility here - some of this stuff doesn't just "happen to you" without you contributing to the cause. For example, your grades dropped - well, did you slack on your studies?

Answer 4

Cos we'd all land up with mattress sores....and doubtless even a great form of infants! Comforter...a effective huge fluffy feather one.. cotton sheets...satin sparks too plenty while there is friction!

Answer 5

A lot of your issues is due to you lacking in some area. I love how people try to justify why bad things happen to them, but can never look at themselves as the culprit. Do some self reflecting it will help you in life.

Answer 6

Well, look at this. Who is responsible for your grades, You! who is reponsible for your drill team performance, you and your team members. I don't know what the issue was between you and you bf, but you can see where I'm going. The person mainly responsible for bad things happening, at least in the examples you present, is yourself.

Answer 7

i would think your going just through a rouch patch. be very very grateful that this isnt long term. i lost my best friend because of some sexual experimentation, almost commited suicide due to my dads ongoing drug problems, my grandma's got lung cancer, my grandad's got a blood disease, im 23, and im still a virgin. this has been going on for 7 years. be VERY grateful.

Answer 8

Because bad stuff happens. There isn't really any mystery about it. You're just having some bad luck. It'll pass, just try to get through it.

Answer 9

That happens in life. All you have to do know is get back up and learn from your mistakes.

Answer 10

Cause life is sometimes full of bad things.



Move on.

Answer 11

not getting into the military is a good thing



stuff happens, there is no reason

Answer 12

Its called life, try just trying to get food and clean water every day then you may be able to complain.

Answer 13

Bad news is good news in disguise!

Answer 14

it's called life, get used to it

Answer 15

You're not putting god above those things.

Answer 16

Someone put some bad hoodoo on you.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7kGPhpvqtOc

Answer 17

Because you deserve it...



Repent and accept Jesus' free gift of salvation or



continue to follow Satan and spend Eternity burning in Hell..



Choose....