Your question is fair
Consider this imaginary conversation please
Today I’m sharing this tract with everyone in the area. It’s entitled Would You Like to Know the Truth? Here’s your copy.
Is this about religion?
Yes. Notice the six questions listed on the cover. Which of these questions—
Let me stop you there. You would be wasting your time talking with me.
Why do you say that?
The truth is, I’m not sure that I even believe in God.
Well, I appreciate your being honest with me. May I ask, Have you always felt that way?
No, I grew up attending church. But I stopped going a long time ago.
I’m not here to force my beliefs on you, Sophia. I am curious, though. Is there something in particular that caused you to doubt God’s existence?
Yes. My mother was involved in a car crash 17 years ago.
I’m so sorry to hear that. Was she injured?
Yes, she’s been paralyzed ever since.
That is so sad. You must be devastated.
I am. I just can’t help but wonder, If God exists, how could he let this happen? Why would God allow us to suffer like this?
Your feelings and questions are understandable. When we suffer, it’s only normal to wonder why. In fact, even some faithful men and women in Bible times wondered about that!
Really?
Yes. Would it be all right if I showed you an example from the Bible?
I would like that.
Notice what the faithful prophet Habakkuk asked God, as recorded at Habakkuk, chapter 1, verses 2 and 3: “How long, O Jehovah, must I cry for help, and you do not hear? How long shall I call to you for aid from violence, and you do not save? Why is it that you make me see what is hurtful?” Do those questions sound similar to the ones you’ve been asking?
They do.
God never scolded Habakkuk for asking those questions, nor did he tell Habakkuk that he simply needed more faith.
Interesting.
The Bible teaches that God notices our suffering and that he cares about it.
What do you mean?
Let me show you an example here at Exodus 3:7. Would you mind reading that verse?
All right. It says: “And Jehovah added: ‘Unquestionably I have seen the affliction of my people who are in Egypt, and I have heard their outcry as a result of those who drive them to work; because I well know the pains they suffer.’”
Thank you. Based on this scripture, does God notice when his people suffer?
Yes, it seems that he does.
And he’s not just vaguely aware of what happens. Look again at the last part of that verse. God said: “I well know the pains they suffer.” Do those sound like the words of a cold or aloof God?
No, not really.
Of course, it’s one thing to notice a situation, but to be moved by it—to have feelings about the situation—is something else altogether.
True.
With that in mind, let’s read about another instance when God’s people were suffering. It’s recorded at Isaiah 63:9. The first part of that verse says: “During all their distress it was distressing to him.” Would you say, then, that God was affected by the suffering of his people?
Yes, it does sound that way.
The truth is, God cares a great deal about us, and he hates to see us suffer. When we hurt, he hurts with us.
Think of what that means. The Bible teaches that God notices our suffering, he feels for us, and he has a vast amount of power. Can you imagine, then, how much self-control it must take for God not to step in and immediately end our suffering?
I never thought of it that way before.
Could it be that he has good reason for not yet intervening to end our problems?
Hmm, I suppose he might.
But sometimes I wonder how much longer my mom will have to suffer.
So we learned that even a faithful man in Bible times wondered why God allows suffering. Yet, God never scolded him for asking about it, nor did God tell him that he simply needed more faith.
That was a new thought to me.
We can start to find the answer to your question by turning to the first book of the Bible, Genesis. Are you familiar with the account of Adam and Eve and the forbidden fruit?
Yes, I learned that story in Sunday school. God said not to eat from a certain tree, but they went ahead and ate from it anyway.
That is correct. Now, let’s focus on the events that led up to Adam and Eve’s sin. Those events have a direct bearing on the question of why we suffer. Would you please read Genesis chapter 3, verses 1 through 5?
OK. “Now the serpent was the most cautious of all the wild animals of the field that Jehovah God had made. So it said to the woman: ‘Did God really say that you must not eat from every tree of the garden?’ At this the woman said to the serpent: ‘We may eat of the fruit of the trees of the garden. But God has said about the fruit of the tree that is in the middle of the garden: “You must not eat from it, no, you must not touch it; otherwise you will die.”’ At this the serpent said to the woman: ‘You certainly will not die. For God knows that in the very day you eat from it, your eyes will be opened and you will be like God, knowing good and bad.’”
Thank you. Let’s examine these verses for a moment. First, notice that a serpent spoke to the woman, Eve. Another part of the Bible shows that it was really Satan the Devil who was speaking to her through the serpent. Satan asked Eve about God’s command regarding a certain tree. Did you notice what God had said the penalty would be if Adam and Eve ate from it?
They would die.
Correct. Then, with his very next words, Satan made a major accusation against God. Notice what he said: “You certainly will not die.” Satan was calling God a liar!
I never heard that part of the story before.
And when Satan called God a liar, he raised an issue that would require time to settle. Can you see why?
Hmm. I’m not sure.
Well, maybe I could illustrate the point this way. Let’s say that one day I approach you and claim that I’m physically stronger than you are. How could you prove me wrong?
I suppose with some sort of a test.
Yes, exactly. Maybe we would choose a heavy object and then see which one of us was able to lift it. Actually, proving who is stronger is pretty straightforward.
I see your point.
But what if instead of saying that I’m stronger, I claimed to be more honest than you? That’s a different matter, isn’t it?
Yes, I suppose so.
After all, honesty is not something like strength, which can be proved with a simple test.
No.
Really, the only way to settle the challenge would be to let enough time pass for others to observe the two of us and see who really is more honest.
That makes sense.
Now, look again at this account in Genesis. Did Satan claim to be stronger than God?
No.
God could have quickly proved him wrong. Instead, Satan claimed to be more honest than God. In effect, he said to Eve, ‘God is lying to you, but I’m telling you the truth.’
Interesting.
In his wisdom, then, God knew that the best way to settle the challenge would be to allow time to pass. Eventually, it would become clear who was telling the truth and who was lying.
But as soon as Eve died, didn’t that prove that God was telling the truth? In a sense, it did. But there was more to Satan’s challenge. Look again at verse 5. Do you notice what else Satan told Eve?
He said that if she ate of the fruit, her eyes would be opened.
Yes, and that she would become “like God, knowing good and bad.” So Satan claimed that God was withholding something good from humans.
I see.
And that too was a major challenge.
What do you mean?
By his words, Satan implied that Eve—and by extension, all humans—would be better off without God’s rulership. In this case too, Jehovah knew that the best way to address the challenge would be to let Satan try to prove his point. So God has allowed Satan to rule this world for a time. That explains why we see so much suffering around us—it’s because Satan, not God, is the real ruler of the world. But there is good news.
What’s that?
The Bible teaches these two beautiful truths about God. First, Jehovah is there for us when we suffer. For example, consider the words of King David, as recorded at Psalm 31:7. David experienced a lot of suffering during his lifetime, but notice what he was able to say in prayer to God. Would you please read that verse?
OK. It says: “I will rejoice greatly in your loyal love, for you have seen my affliction; you are aware of my deep distress.”
So even though David experienced suffering, he found comfort in knowing that Jehovah saw everything he went through. Do you find that comforting—the thought that Jehovah is aware of everything, even our painful emotions that other humans may not fully understand?
Yes, I do.
The second beautiful truth is that God will not allow our suffering to go on indefinitely. The Bible teaches that he will soon bring an end to Satan’s wicked rulership. And he will completely undo all the bad things that have happened, including the things that you and your mother have suffered
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