1. True goal of Meditation
The nature of our true Self is formless and is in the pure state of consciousness during the split seconds from the time we wake up from deep sleep where we are recognizing our presence but yet not recognized the body/mind and stream of egoist thoughts. In this in between state of consciousness, we recognize its presence but yet not identified anything external to it (i.e. body/mind and other thoughts). In this state, our being is merged with its formless source. This state is just opposite of state of concentrated mind. If we take full concentration is as 100% attention on one side of the scale, this state is at 0% attention. At the 0% attension point the attention of the being is not yet focused on anything external to it.
This is the state we enter, when we go into deep sleep state but we are not aware of it. That is why in deep sleep,even though we are in that state of pure consciousness, yet it cannot produce effect of realization.
To go to this state, to be in that state and to be fully in awareness of this state, is the true goal of meditation. In other words, to stretch the split second of experience, where consciousness is aware of its presence, but its attention not yet has fallen the body/mind, to stretch it as long as possible is an attempt that we make through true meditation.
One is truly successful in this attempt, when one is fully comfortable to get in to this state, and be there. That is the time, one is fully aware of one's true nature of soul through direct experience. When that GOAL is reached through direct experience, all doubt souls formless nature will vanish from the mind.
2. A Simple Meditation Processes
1. Choose a specific place in your house, where you will not be disturbed by external sounds and other disturbances for the full duration of the meditation.
2. Sit in a comfortable posture; ensure that your back bone is straight.
3. Close your eyes. Take few long and deep breaths....deep breath in and deep breath out...few times
5. Slow down your breathing an do normal breathing for few minutes.
4. If you are comfortable, do any prayer which you like most.
6. Do long deep breath in and breath out.....after few cycles....slowly decrease the speed at which you do the breath in / out
7. Continue to decrease the speed of breath cycle and go to the cycle as slow as possible
8. Continue the reduction of speed and slowly stop the breath in / out cycles...
9. Allow the breath to go in slow and study phase from here on.
10. After this be in total silence.
11. Continue the silence as long as possible.
12. If any thought arises in this period, don't resist it, allow it to come and go, but don't engage with it. Thought will come and go, because there is no attention given, after some time it will stop coming.
13. If you feel thoughts are still pumping in, you can try the following
A. When the thought is about something in the past, label it as past, say it is past and don’t do anything more.
B. When the thought is about future, label it as future, say it is future and don't do anything more
C. This way what will happen is, after some time, you will waiting for thoughts, at that time, lose feeling that you are waiting and be completely in silence.
14. Thus continue deep in the thoughtless state and be there in total silence/ (total stillness) as long as possible
15. When you feel, you want to finish the meditation, slowly reverse the process.
16. Start taking the long breath cycles for few times.
17. After some time, open your eyes and complete the meditation.
Plan to do this meditation at fixed timing every day. Doing it at early morning hours is the best, but if one feels more relaxed in the evening, then one can do in the evening. Plan to keep the duration for at least half hour in the starting and increase to 1 hour as you feel more and more comfortable. Keeps this going for at least few months to several months.
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