Question:
I think I reached a dead end in life. What should I do? Can someone help me out here?
2013-07-10 17:51:52 UTC
Yeah. I'm studying abroad and I took out a huge amount of student loans (under 100 G). I think I might have a mental/psychiatric problem. I know I'm excessively paranoid and have an extreme level of anxiety especially during high stress situations. I'm a second semester student in my school and I'm passing most of my classes, but I'm struggling because I can't concentrate. Concentrating/shortened focus is just half of my problem. I'm also severely depressed and am suffering from all areas of life. I told my parents about how my mind is screwed up, but they won't listen to me. They think I'm not trying hard enough because my grades aren't that bad. But the truth is I can't absorb knowledge that well because of all these problems. And I naturally have test anxiety. Everyone knows that if you can't take exams, youre dead in the water and my exam is in less than 5 days. And even though everything in my life is going wrong, I don't even have the guts to kill myself. What a F***ing disaster. Everyday is like a nightmare. I wake up in the day thinking "****, why did I have to wake up and experience another day of this nightmare." Life is as bad as it can get right now. I clearly have no other option. Why can't I drop out of school, get psychiatric treatment, take some time off, and start over again? I owe so much money, there's no way I can pay it off let alone get psychiatric treatment. If I do get treatment, they will end up billing my parents who will most likely refuse to pay for it. Another option is hospitalization, which might eventually make me better, but that's gonna cost so much money even with health insurance, and at the same time I'll have to pay back my loans. I think this is the end of the road. My friends all tell me that I shouldn't do it and that that I have to live out life no matter how bad it sucks. Also if I do, I'm going to hell. Well f*** that! Who are they to say that? it's easy to say that when your life is going just dandy. They haven't been through what I been through. So yeah, since I have a choice, I want to at least go peacefully
Five answers:
2013-07-10 18:05:08 UTC
What's your problem, ? why you get depressed?

you took a huge amount for loan! ok . then

You know about your problems! and you know the reason for getting depressed!

you can only give a solution to you .Get a guts for attending exams . and take a possible solutions .!

Keep calm and choose a right remedies.
Blue Dream
2013-07-10 17:57:05 UTC
Maybe you are at a dead end. If so, stop trying to drive through the wall. Turn the car around and head back to the last turn you made where you had some idea of where you were. Keep backtracking to where there's a different direction to go in that leads back to civilization.
Marika H
2013-07-10 17:57:13 UTC
If you really feel this way and aren't trolling, get help. Your university should offer mental health resources. Getting help will not derail your academic career.



You should probably tell your parents to shove it, though. If they can't listen to you and really hear how miserable you are, they probably need some mental help themselves.
DeFlyin Fawk
2013-07-10 17:52:49 UTC
Make an U turn.
A Yahoo! user
2013-07-10 18:13:04 UTC
Help From ‘the God of Comfort’



KING DAVID was a man who experienced much anguish and many “disquieting thoughts.” Yet, he never doubted that the Creator understands us in every way. “O Jehovah, you have searched through me, and you know me,” he wrote. “You yourself have come to know my sitting down and my rising up. You have considered my thought from far off. For there is not a word on my tongue, but, look! O Jehovah, you already know it all.”—Psalm 139:1, 2, 4, 23.



We too can be certain that our Creator understands us and the debilitating effect that depression can have on our imperfect minds and bodies. He knows what causes depression and how we can best cope under present circumstances. Furthermore, he has revealed how he will cure depression forever. We could wish for no one better to help us than our compassionate “God, Who comforts and encourages and refreshes and cheers the depressed.”—2 Corinthians 7:6, The Amplified Bible.



But depressed ones may wonder how God can help them when they experience distressing emotions.



Is God accessible to the depressed?



God is so close to his depressed servants that it is as if he resided with the “crushed and lowly in spirit, to revive the spirit of the lowly ones and to revive the heart of the ones being crushed.” (Isaiah 57:15) How comforting to know that “Jehovah is near to those that are broken at heart; and those who are crushed in spirit he saves”!—Psalm 34:18.



How can the depressed get comfort from God?



At any time of the day, God’s worshippers have approach to the “Hearer of prayer,” who can help us to cope with distressing feelings and circumstances. (Psalm 65:2) The Bible urges us to pour out our hearts to him: “Do not be anxious over anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication along with thanksgiving let your petitions be made known to God; and the peace of God that excels all thought will guard your hearts and your mental powers by means of Christ Jesus.”—Philippians 4:6, 7.



What if we are too distraught to put our feelings into words?



When painful emotions are so overwhelming that rational speech is difficult, do not give up! Keep approaching “the Father of tender mercies and the God of all comfort,” knowing that he understands your feelings and needs. (2 Corinthians 1:3) Maria, mentioned earlier in this series, says: “At times, when I feel very confused, I do not know what to pray about. But I know that God understands and helps me.”



How does God answer our prayers?



The Bible does not suggest that God removes all our difficulties now. However, God does impart the strength to cope with “all things”—including depression. (Philippians 4:13) “When I first suffered from depression,” admits Martina, “I prayed for Jehovah to heal me immediately because I thought I would not be able to bear it any longer. Now I am content to pray for strength each day.”



The Scriptures are a vital source of spiritual strength to help afflicted individuals to cope with depression. Sarah, who has battled depression for 35 years, personally experienced the practical value of daily Bible reading. She relates: “I truly appreciate what the medical profession has done for me. Above all, though, I realize the spiritual and practical value of reading God’s Word. I have made a habit of reading it.”



No More Depression—Ever!

When Jesus Christ was on earth, he demonstrated his God-given power to cure painful maladies. Jesus was eager to bring relief to people who suffered from grievous sicknesses. Moreover, he himself knows the agony of distraught emotions. On the night before he was to die a painful death, “Christ offered up supplications and also petitions to the One who was able to save him out of death, with strong outcries and tears.” (Hebrews 5:7) As distressing as that was to Jesus at the time, we benefit now because “he is able to come to the aid of those who are being put to the test.”—Hebrews 2:18; 1 John 2:1, 2.



The Bible reveals that God purposes to remove all the distressing conditions that contribute to depression. He promises: “I am creating new heavens and a new earth; and the former things will not be called to mind, neither will they come up into the heart. But exult, you people, and be joyful forever in what I am creating.” (Isaiah 65:17, 18) The “new heavens,” God’s Kingdom, will restore the “new earth,” a society of righteous people on earth, to perfect physical, emotional, and spiritual health. All sicknesses will be wiped out permanently.


This content was originally posted on Y! Answers, a Q&A website that shut down in 2021.
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