IF you wonder about your church, pray and ask Jesus to lead you to another if this is not where Jesus wants you to be. Jesus will lead you to what is best for you and him.
No two people believe or know the exact same things. This makes every church different than others. So as long as the church focuses on Jesus it is fine. Jesus is the reason we are here and why we get to have eternal life.
We are all unique, and we are to compare all we hear/read with the spirit of God in us and with the word of God as well. We have to compare what we hear/read with God's spirit and word, and it must confirm God's word. Many live by what a spirit tells them, but what they hear does not go with God's word. Evil can lead us astray by this. So test all things against God's word and his spirit in us. Use the word more than the spirit to be sure you are not being misled.
God says 'it is not good for man to be alone, so let us make him a helper.' God says this, so why would any woman of God or who believes in God go against God's word. Woman is a helper to man, God said it. If you disagree with this, you are against God and his word. Many women think or say they know God, yet go against God in this. How can one be close to God/Jesus and not follow his word? one can not.
A helper is a good thing as well. A Godly woman can be a blessing and bring blessings to their family, yet an ungodly woman can bring shame and bone problems to their husbands. So line yourself up with God's word and seek and know God through Jesus. Then you will know what is right and wrong, and compare it all against God's word.
Genesis 2:18 (New International Version, ©2011)
18 The LORD God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.
God made woman as a helper and this is a good thing for God did it. Some may see it as a bad thing, but God did it that way and God can not do bad things. So this is good.
So what does a helper do? answer this for yourself and seek Jesus. A helper does not lead, a helper helps. And a helper is good, like a Godly wife. Worth more than all the gold and rubies in the world. A Godly wife is priceless to the husband and to God our Father.
bless you.