In your question you are assuming things about Muslims and Islam that is quite offensive to us. Islam is not what you think it is, nor do Muslims think of it that way. If you have specific reasons why you think this way, we can address those. But you asked a general question, so it is not possible for me to see what your problem is.
“if there are Muslims out there that condemn the idea of sharia law”
Sharia law defines for Muslims how they practice their religion. For example, praying 5 times a day is part of Sharia law. So how can Muslims condemn Sharia law? Rather, you misunderstand what is meant by Sharia law, so you want Muslims to condemn it. But we will not condemn any part of our religion just because you misunderstand what it means.
Yes, Sharia law includes legal aspects, such as family law and criminal law, but these are for Muslims only, and only in a Muslim-majority country where the majority agrees to have Sharia law.
So, if you want us to condemn it, can you tell us why we should? Just saying “condemn Sharia law” is not enough to make us condemn it. Tell us why you want it to be condemned.
“and violations of freedom of speech”
What do you mean by violations of freedom of speech? As far as I know, we do not violate freedom of speech. The way you are asking the question, you are blaming us for it, so you want us to condemn it. If you want us to condemn freedom of speech in general, sure, no problem. If there is a specific issue you have with Muslim actions, let us know which action you think should be condemned.
“and religion”
Islam does not violate freedom of religion. Who do you want us to condemn?
“as well as women's rights”
Although Islam does not violate women’s rights, there are many Muslims in the backward countries that do, and we do condemn them completely.
“and whom do not interpret the Koran's scripture as a call for violence”
Why should we interpret the Qur’an as a call for violence?
“if you are not like this do not be offended, I openly admit I may be missing the big picture”
Thank you very much for saying that. It makes me feel better about you.
“murdered in a stone aged fashion for being a non-believer, and being non-sharia-compliant”
Where in Islam did you get this?
“I believe women are our equals”
In Islam, women are not equal to men – women are of higher status than men. For example, men are required to sacrifice their lives and wealth for women, but women don’t have to give their wealth to men, even if they are richer than men.
https://answersrip.com/question/index?qid=20110821084110AAWMIM3
“I do not believe women should be forced to consent to Islam.”
Which woman is being forced to consent to Islam? Women are accepting Islam of their own free will in the West. Who is forcing them?
“after all since the attack in Norway it has become at least slightly more apparent to the world that terrorism is not an act committed exclusively by Muslims.”
Thank you.