Question:
There's no purpose to me living?
anonymous
2012-06-27 19:49:10 UTC
Everytime I try to do something for someone, they say it's not good enough. I feel everything I do is wrong. My friends are nice to me sometimes, I mean I'm not the brightest crayon in the box but I'm still smart. Sometimes I say something that makes me sound slow and my friends just make fun of me and put me down. My mom is always telling me that I don't do anything right and that I'm a brat and always putting me down. People always call me ugly, dumb, anorexic, a waste of space, a mistake, a *****, an attention whore, worthless, freak, nothing special, and not good enough. Why do even try, sometimes I think of killing myself. I take knives and put them over my wrists but I don't cut. Other times I try to suffocate myself but I can't. The guy I like doesn't even talk to me that much anymore. He told me he likes me but I know he doesn't mean it. I wish somebody made me feel like I had a purpose in the world, but I know that I don't and that's wht I don't even try anymore.
Fourteen answers:
wefmeister
2012-06-27 19:55:02 UTC
God loves you. If you will let Him into your life, he will prove it. These did, and were not disappointed:



http://www.freecdtracts.com/testimony/carolkornacki.htm



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M19g4KtVAGQ



http://www.spiritlessons.com/Documents/Several_Christian_Testimonies/index.htm



http://www.iamsecond.com/
?
2012-06-27 19:52:58 UTC
Well, I'm sorry to hear your situation, but you just posted this on Religion and Spirituality. That means you will get some people telling you to turn to Jesus, or whatever religious beliefs they have. Others will tell you you are an attention whore again, which doesn't solve anything. Others will antagonize you in unhelpful, insensitive ways that you will not want to hear. Few will give a good answer. So I guess my point is....consult people worth consulting. Maybe even a counselor/psychologist, or just someone else you look up to for guidance, a good friend. Finding a passion can seem forced, but it can also seem nice.
Thankful layman
2012-06-27 20:23:47 UTC
I can relate - I didn't have much positive re-enforcement myself. Here is what I found that changed my life and outlook. God loves you and created you unique, different from everyone else and with a purpose. He has things for you to accomplish. Things meant just for you. People will run you down, disappoint you, fail you, criticize you, but God loves you just as you are. The Bible says while we were yet sinners Christ died for us'. Romans 5:8 In other words he didn't wait for us to clean up our act - he died on the cross for our sins before we quit sinning. Try reading the New Testament or the Psalms. You are special to God. With God there is a purpose. You want a guy that will love you. Do not seek a guy. Pray and ask God to bring you the right guy in your life that will really love you, then stand back and wait on the Lord. With God's choice you won't be dissapointed. Remember Jesus died on the cross but he rose again. He is alive and you can talk to him today.
creatively designed
2012-06-27 19:57:31 UTC
Stop feeling sorry for yourself and find a real purpose in life. Sounds like you need a real dose of reality. There are homeless people that could use a hand. There may be a soup kitchen you could help out in. There are good charities that need volunteers to stay afloat to help the unfortunate. Hospitals always need volunteers. Go to a good church that supports the community and help out there. And friends don't treat friends like yours treat you, find new ones. But nobody can take being around someone so negative all the time for too long. Maybe you need professional help. Are you still in school? Go to your guidance counselor. Sounds like your mom isn't supportive at all. Forget her negativity. Show yourself that you are worth something. The rest of the world will soon see it too, but don't do it for them, do it for you. Seek God. Pray. He has a purpose for everyone, even you.
?
2012-06-27 19:56:07 UTC
trust me i have tried to end my life and nothing good can come from that. life is always worth living what it sounds like is you need a good friend if you ever feel like that again plz give me a text 757-202-0862 i will be more than happy to talk to you . life may be hard but it can always get better. now that i did not kill my self i have a wife a child and i could not be happier so plz don't do any thing that can stop you from having a good life later
__
2012-06-27 20:19:55 UTC
God created you with a purpose in mind. The people in your life are just going to get you down, try reading the Bible, because it really is the guide to life, and very, very interesting. It was not written by plain men, it was written by God, but by the hands of men. There is more to this life--a life eternal, just make one prayer here I will write it for you:



In the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit.

Our Father, up in heaven, hallowed be your name, your kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven, give us this day, our daily bread, and forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors, and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from every evil, for yours is the glory, the power, and the Kingdom forever, amen. (This is the prayer that Yeshua (Jesus) himself taught his students how to pray.



Here is a prayer I will invent just for you:

God, my Creator, up in heaven, I believe with all my heart that your Son Yeshua (I say his name that way because it is his hebrew name) Christ died so that my sins shall be erased before the throne of God. God, today I ask you to you to forgive me for every sin I have committed against you. Please change my life around, I need blessings which can only come from you. I am severely depressed and I know your commandment says 'Thou shalt not kill' meaning ANY human being, but I have been getting these thoughts from the evil one, O LORD, I AM THAT I AM, you are so great and righteousness in your ways. In Yeshua's name I pray. Amen.
anonymous
2012-06-27 19:53:50 UTC
God does not make mistakes honey :) You have a purpose in life. Seriously, turn to Jesus. He will help you! Surround yourself with people who are going to love you no matter what! Dont take your life away! it is something beautiful that God breathed into you!!!! Please!!! Know that I care for you even though I dont know you! You are a child of the Lord! And you are going to look back in this in life and laugh because you are going to be somewhere better! apologize to your parents and tell them you will try better. Ask them to help you out. :) Tell your friends how you feel! No one is perfect! I screw up all of the time, trust me... LOL. But Jesus forgives!!! AND IT"S AAWWEEESSOMMME!!!! Its so LGIT!!!! hE IS HERE FOR YOU ARMS OPEN WIDE!!! You are special! okay?
?
2012-06-27 20:01:58 UTC
The point of life is to better yourself and the universe. Perfect yourself physically, mentally (those should be obvious) and "spiritually".



There is not one shred of evidence that a single one of Nature’s laws has ever changed or been broken. If we look at ourselves we find that we, of the human race, too, are a creature of Nature. Furthermore, we observe that the human race too, is sub-divided into many species and sub-species, with hundreds of differences in their physical, mental, emotional and psychic makeup. Many of these differences are of major importance, but all of them are significant. We either obey the laws of Nature and work in harmony with those laws, or face extinction.



In each species Nature has implanted a strong urge for the survival and perpetuation of its own kind. It is over-abundantly apparent that Nature urges the inner segregation of each species. Among birds there are, for instance, there are 75 species of larks; there are also 75 species of swallows and so on. Furthermore, once a species is firmly established, it will practically never interbreed with that of another species of the same family.



The 75 species of swallows may all have originally descended from one species a long time back in their evolution, but they do not retrogress and interbreed amongst each other and become again one mixed-up species of swallows. No, Nature does not plan it that way. If this were not so, then all the species would soon be mongrelized into one mixed-up species. Furthermore, the mongrelized swallow would soon breed with the 75 species of larks and we would soon have a swallark. The mongrelized swallark would soon breed with mongrelized cardinals and bluebirds and the whole process would degenerate into a mongrelized bird. The end result would soon be that birds would lose their own innate, peculiar characteristics that enabled them to survive all these thousands of years.



Why does Nature urge the inner segregation of the species? There is a very good reason for this and it is in pursuit of the law of the Survival of the Fittest. Nature is continually striving to upgrade, to improve, and to find a better breed, a better species, a better specimen. Let us repeat this: Nature is continually trying to upgrade the species by segregating the woodpeckers, for instance, into 175 species. It has 175 different entries in that one particular species, each of them with its own peculiarities and particular means of survival and propagation. Some of them are better than others. Some of these species are not going to survive. Others are better fitted to cope with the environment, their natural enemies, the food situation, propagation, etc., are not only going to survive, but multiply in great numbers. So the answer is obvious, Nature is continually producing new species which will be able to better compete the hostile arena of life against all others. If some are better adapted than the others in coping with their environment, they will survive and prosper. If they are less capable, they will survive for a time and then be relegated to the scrap heap of evolution. In so doing, Nature is ever evolving to a higher plane.



Now spiritually: The body reconstructs itself based on octaves of vibration or sound waves. Higher levels of light, sends a higher vibration into the DNA which is literally a vibrational information code that interacts with and forms the whole being. Change the vibration change the code, change the code change the form[person] because the form is vibration metagenics not genetics.

All matter are octaves, different levels of vibration or sound waves, then geometric patterns of light waves, color, chemical and organic matter.

The level of vibration that comes with higher octave of existence formats the endocrine system from breaking the secretions of the pineal gland/ pituitary gland activate master hormone HGH. it has been found in study the only difference between a 21 year old and 80 year old man is more has 80% and the other that much less HGH in the body.



The DNA helix correspondingly reformats itself[causing physical transformation of the being] according to higher levels of light energy[vibration] passed though it via the increased frequency which relates to and is directly connected to the rate of frequency of the light wheel centers or chakra's. The ancients called them chakra's [light wheel} because they understood the spin or rate of vibration of the "wheel" is related to the amount of life force the body exists on.
anonymous
2012-06-27 19:59:04 UTC
If that is you right now, sweetie pie, it may speak of many emotions, such as feelings of hopelessness and despair. You may feel like you are in the deepest pit, and you doubt there is any hope of things getting better. No one seems to care or understand where you are coming from. Life just is not worth living...or is it?



If you will take a few moments to consider letting God truly be God in your life right now, He will prove how big He really is, “for nothing is impossible with God” (Luke 1:37). Perhaps scars from past hurts have resulted in an overwhelming sense of rejection or abandonment. That may lead to self-pity, anger, bitterness, vengeful thoughts, or unhealthy fears that have caused problems in some of your most important relationships.



Why should you not commit suicide? Friend, no matter how bad things are in your life, there is a God of love who is waiting for you to let Him guide you through your tunnel of despair and out into His marvelous light. He is your sure hope. His name is Jesus.



This Jesus, the sinless Son of God, identifies with you in your time of rejection and humiliation. The prophet Isaiah wrote of Him in Isaiah 53:2-6, describing Him as a man who was “despised and rejected” by everyone. His life was full of sorrow and suffering. But the sorrows He bore were not His own; they were ours. He was pierced, wounded, and crushed, all because of our sin. Because of His suffering, our lives can be redeemed and made whole.



Friend, Jesus Christ endured all this so that you might have all your sins forgiven. Whatever weight of guilt you carry, know that He will forgive you if you humbly receive Him as your Savior. “...Call upon me in the day of trouble; I will deliver you...” (Psalm 50:15). Nothing you have ever done is too bad for Jesus to forgive. Some of His choicest servants committed gross sins like murder (Moses), murder and adultery (King David), and physical and emotional abuse (the apostle Paul). Yet they found forgiveness and a new abundant life in the Lord. “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come!” (2 Corinthians 5:17).



Why should you not commit suicide? Friend, God stands ready to repair what is “broken,” namely, the life you have now, the life you want to end by suicide. In Isaiah 61:1-3, the prophet wrote, “The LORD has anointed me to preach good news to the poor. He has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted, to proclaim freedom for the captives and release from darkness for the prisoners, to proclaim the year of the Lord’s favor…to comfort all who mourn, and provide for those who grieve…to bestow on them a crown of beauty instead of ashes, the oil of gladness instead of mourning, and a garment of praise instead of a spirit of despair.”



Come to Jesus, and let Him restore your joy and usefulness as you trust Him to begin a new work in your life. He promises to restore the joy you have lost and give you a new spirit to sustain you. Your broken heart is precious to Him: “The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit; a broken and contrite heart, O God, you will not despise” (Psalm 51:12, 15-17).



Will you accept the Lord as your Savior and Shepherd? He will guide your thoughts and steps—one day at a time—through His Word, the Bible. “I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you and watch over you” (Psalm 32:8). “He will be the sure foundation for your times, a rich store of salvation and wisdom and knowledge; the fear of the LORD is the key to this treasure” (Isaiah 33:6). In Christ, you will still have struggles, but you will now have hope. He is “a friend who sticks closer than a brother” (Proverbs 18:24). May the grace of the Lord Jesus be with you in your hour of decision.
anonymous
2012-06-27 19:56:39 UTC
Therefore, I would that ye should be steadfast and immovable, always abounding in good works, that Christ, the Lord God Omnipotent, may seal you his, that you may be brought to heaven, that ye may have everlasting salvation and eternal life, through the wisdom, and power, and justice, and mercy of him who created all things, in heaven and in earth, who is God above all. Amen.
anonymous
2012-06-27 19:52:14 UTC
I will pray that you wake up to the reality that you were intelligently, purposefully, created by a loving creator. And you were created with purpose, ON purpose.



And that you have dignity, worth and value.
?
2012-06-27 19:52:40 UTC
You cannot control what happens to you, or how people treat you... but you can control how you respond. Give yourself purpose, and no one else can take it away from you.
anonymous
2012-06-27 19:52:19 UTC
thats a big problem in the world today .. plenty of intelligence, but no common sense .. dont worry someone will come along to take advantage of it ...
?
2012-06-27 19:55:47 UTC
Only Jesus can give you your purpose in this world. You were created to serve God, but you need a relationship with Him first. Do you know for sure that you will go to heaven when you die? And when you stand before Holy God and He asks "Why should I let you into My heaven?", what reason will you give? Will you tell Him that you’ve lived a “good life” and that you are a “good person”?



Jesus said in John 3:3, "I tell you the truth, no one can see the kingdom of God unless he is born again." Isn't going to church, being sorry for your sins and asking forgiveness enough? No, and here's why: we have all broken God's Law, the Ten Commandments. Who hasn't told a lie, stolen, used God's name in vain, or lusted after another person? We will all stand before God on Judgment Day, just like standing before a judge in a courtroom, and answer for everything we have ever done. Everyone must pay for their crimes, and God's standard is total perfection in everything we say, do and think. None of us measure up. How will YOU do on that day? Then the Judge will pass sentence--even if we ask for forgiveness, because the Judge is bound by the Law to see that justice is done. Those that are guilty (which is ALL of us) will end up in God's prison, which is hell. So what can we do?



Jesus Christ paid the penalty for your sins in His life's blood. You broke God's Law, Jesus paid your fine. That means your case can legally be dismissed and you can walk free from the courtroom on the Day of Judgment. What you must do to receive this free gift is repent--don't just tell God you are sorry and ask for forgiveness, but turn from your sin and begin to live for God. Trust in Jesus Christ alone to save you, like the kind of trust you have in the pilot of an airplane when you fly. As soon as you do that, God will forgive every sin you have ever committed and you will be made righteous in God’s sight. Romans 8:16 says, "The Spirit Himself testifies with our spirit that we are God's children." What this means is that the Holy Spirit will come to live inside you, and will help you change your life to be an obedient follower of Jesus Christ. You will know you have been changed like nothing else you have ever known before.



There is nothing you can do to earn your salvation. Ephesians 2:8-9 says, "It is by grace you have been saved, through faith--and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God--not by works, so that no one can boast." Good works are only proof that you really are a Christian.



There are many people today who "believe in God" or have "asked Jesus into their heart" or are "religious" but have never repented of their sins or been born again by the power of the Holy Spirit, and they continue to live just as they did before they were "saved." Jesus talks about these kinds of people in Matthew 7:21-23, "Not everyone who says to Me, 'Lord, Lord,' will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only the one who does the will of My Father who is in heaven. Many will say to Me on that day, 'Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in Your name and in Your name drive out demons and in Your name perform many miracles?' Then I will tell them plainly, 'I never knew you. Away from Me, you evildoers!'"



Does this make sense to you? Would you like to pray to receive Christ right now and have eternal life? You could pray something like this, in your own words, "God, I am sorry for all my sins against You. I turn from my sinful life right now and ask for Your forgiveness. Please save me and help me live a life that is obedient to Your Word, the Bible. I place my trust in Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior. Thank You, Father, for the gift of everlasting life! Amen."



Your prayer will be shown to be real by your obedience to God's Word, so get a Bible and read it every day, starting with the gospel of John. Find a good Bible-believing church to attend so you can fellowship with other believers, be encouraged and grow in faith. Also, begin to share your faith with others so they can have eternal life as well, and God will never let you down!


This content was originally posted on Y! Answers, a Q&A website that shut down in 2021.
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