I have lost hope in my life???

Question

Iam 18 year old boy.
i have addicted to bad things(****, masturbation) bt, i dnt have the habbit of smoking nd drinks or drugs.
i lied to my parents, i scold sometimes to them, i have lived my life like hell. wasting time, i had very ,much dream(dream to be singer nd film director). Due to my bad addiction nd peacless mind. i coudnt achieve anything. i have wasted 3 years without studys. now iam living in home.
i live only in dreams than a present situation.
I feel shame on myself for viewing **** videos and seeing a women in bad manner.
i have lost hope.
I cant change myself ?
what shell i do ?
how can bring changes in my life.
i look like aged person. i wanted to be attractive nd handsome. due to masturbation i look like old and had hair loss too.
i dnt have anything to say.
may be suicide is the only option i have.

Answer 1

Aw my dear friend!

I have the answers to your questions...

I have hope and I have comfort, nothing on earth can give you this same comfort I have.

First of all it's a really good start to know that you feel shame and that you realise you need help.

I am 16 and I am a Christian. I have put my faith and trust in God because I believe with my whole being that he is my Saviour who sets me free from my sins. You are no worse a sinner than anyone else, you have to realise. God knows you are struggling, he knows your thoughts and he is there to help you. Realise that God really does love you.

He is my only comfort in life and in death, becasue i belong to him.

He will help you through your struggles. After reading your question, I really felt God calling me to talk to you.

You need his help, we all do. He can forgive your sins.

Begin a new life in him!

Just please please do not end your life, you are way to valuable! i do not know you, but God does, he knows where your life is going and he has you in his plan.

Call on him!

Please! You are way too valuable!

:)

Answer 2

A lot of us have been in your same spot and we survived, you only see your situation because that's where you are. So things aren't that great right now, that doesn't mean they're going to be that way forever. You're not planning to live with your parents til you're an old lady, are you? You're not going to go to school til you're an old lady, are you? I'm sorry for all the things stressing you out, but in order to get from the past to the future, you have to go through the present. Count your blessings, I got no sleep last night, I had a cat die this year too, and I'm having trouble just taking one class at a time! Don't you know other people have problems too and are struggling? Be glad you don't have some horrible disease like brain cancer! I'm serious, be thankful for the little things and pretty soon you'll see life ain't so bad. Do your part to have a nice day.

Answer 3

I Have Lost Hope

Answer 4

Suicide is NEVER the answer! Only you can do this ! You are young, just begaining your life !My Pastor told of someone like you in Church this sunday. He said the man got serious about it and burnt all the mags, got rid of the TV and computor !. You can too! You have to want too ! Good luck! and go get some help too , a friend a girlfriend . Talk to a pastor. They deal will this all the time. They wont judge you !

Answer 5

-you're a man not a boy

-masturbation is great and feels great enjoy it, although if you're addicted I suggest seeking some therapy or getting a girlfriend or hiring some hookers

-lying is natural and fights are common, don't sweat it

-you think you have lived in hell? Tell that to child soldiers



Shave, get a girl, get a job and go to school. Stop being depressed and enjoy life. You can be whatever you want to be, if you're going to stay depressed your life will stay lame.

Answer 6

forget about the stupid answers below. listen you are 18 and you still havent faced the real world yet. NEVER commit suicide. i know it might be the answer now but its not,believe me. go out meet new people and create a new life. try to stop masturbating and **** i know its hard but you have to put some effort in it. doesnt mean that you are not handsome that you cant achieve any of your dreams. i mean look at jay-z hes ugly :P but he is one of the awesome rappers in the world (i believe) so go out and fulfill your dreams!

Answer 7

I cant change myself ? - Motivation is external or internal. Depends. In this section religion will be offered as the solution (or not).



what shell i do ? - Repent and follow Jesus and stop trolling in such a terribly obvious way ("due to masturbation i look like old and had hair loss too").

Answer 8

While there is still life, there is still hope. To end your life is to end hope. Don't do it. God loves each and every one of us, in spite of things we've done wrong. God understands why we do bad things, but God also forgives us when we are genuinely sorry.



Ask God to help you. Pray for him to show you the way out. If we cast our troubles on him, God is faithful. No matter how bad things are, we can be forgiven when we repent. Christ Jesus died for sinners like you and me so we might be saved. Call upon him because he will never turn away any person who genuinely seeks him.



My prayers go with you.

Answer 9

Hi, i 2 was into some of these situations but Lord Jesus Christ saved me! Pls repent of yr sins to Lord Jesus Christ, in spirit n truth.Pray anywhere u r,beg plead for mercy to Him. He changed my life n can change yours too! read a little bible daily,spend time alone with Him.Keep away from idols. Pls look-up true-shapherd.blogspot.in

Answer 10

are you saying you masturbated so furiously it dehydrated you to the point of looking like a pensioner?.

hahahahahahhahahaha.



seriously there is nothing wrong with it.

it will stop you getting prostate cancer when you are older,it is normal and healthy.



your problems come from living in a culture clinging to the past and backward ways of thinking.

Answer 11

Get involved in volunteer work in your community. By helping others, it helps to get your mind off your problems. It also helps to put your life into perspective and give you guidance. You get to make new friends as well, which can make your life more happy. Go ahead and give it a try. You have nothing to lose.

Answer 12

hello

just follow this be good friends, dont be alone in idle , always be in jolly mood, go to yoga, meditation , always think positive go for job. This situation will pass away soon and u will become more confident

Answer 13

SUICIDE is NOT gonna solve anything but send you to HELL!!! THAT'S WHAT THE DEVIL IS LEADING YOU TO DO is to commit suicide when the truth is that you were created for so much more and that is to glorify GOD.

WATCH THIS VIDEO!! DON'T COMMIT SUICIDE!!! IT'LL BE TOO LATE!!!

HERE!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=thZ-YO4owXY

Answer 14

If you are 18 and still call yourself a boy, no wonder you have lost hope.

Answer 15

You sound average to me.

Answer 16

Good, can we now make an arrangement to jump from a bridge together?

Answer 17

Look, turn atheist & go meet some real people.

Answer 18

you cant change yourself, thats right you cant. only jesus christ can change a persons heart. go to gotquestions.org and find your answer.

Answer 19

"due to masturbation i look like old"



..what..?

Answer 20

You sound exactly like an atheist, that is exactly what they go through.