why is always life hell for good people?

Question

hi i am a 24 yr old shy and a introverted guy .my life's always been bad....i have been unfortunate in all aspects....there's really nothing i feel happy about...yeah i have a great family..and they have done enough for me and i love them ...but the thing is that they never understood my feelings..and they always used to compare me even in my childhood...and i used to feel inferior...i could never really put my career of choice to them for fear of being laughed off and i had to pay a heavy price for that i got in to engineering for which my parents had to pay huge donations..but i wasnt interested but i had no choice i now that i have completed my engg not before failing thrice even after working hard...on one account i was a victim of partiality in my college i was so close of passing the year but since i hadnt joind the professors class i was failed in a viva..and the other students who had joined his class were all passed even when they hadnt done well in the viva exams...

something or the other always turns bad for me i dont know why people are always rude to me even though i dont hurt anyone..i have always helped people only to be forgotten ...and there are people in my area who always try to mock at me and say nasty things behind my back about me ...and i have no idea in this world why they do so i dont even know them..i wear spectacles and i can feel some ignorant people always calling me dapnya which means bespectacled in hindi..and saying other nasty things its as if they enjoy insulting and hurting me they are always on my back saying hurtful things.....all those bad people who hurt someone lead happy lives but good people have to always go thru pain...

i had a bad experince when i was a kid my father used to leave me with a women for teaching but she used to abuse me when i made some mistakes my locking me in the bathroom and turning off the lights and threatning to leave a spider on me and i wud cry all the while it scared the **** out of me.... this continued for some time but i told this to my parents only when i was a big boy..how can anyone be so inconsiderate

i have trouble getting along with people too....as i am really shy...but once i get comfortable i like being with people...offlate i have become more indulged in melancholic stuff i listen to dark and death music ,musics been my true frined i have lonely at times with no friends around but musics been with me always actually want to ba a singer but so low on confidence ...i have been angry ...full of rage and angst lately......i feel people cant me good to anyone....and i am really pissed with god for giving me such a life...nobody likes me and i find girls are not inteersted in me they find me dumb and i have seen girls laughing at me...but i have always been a fighter and i have moved on...the only thing ill resent in my life is that i have disappointd my parents...and it makes me kill myself what was my fault anyway?...if being a good human being is a fault then i dont wanna be one.......i am living a life which i dont want...i am doing things which i dont like whats the use of such a life....i really wish i wasnt born

Answer 1

Religion screws everything up

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Hell is loneliness, darkness and gnashing of teeth. That sounds like a state of mind to me. In this life, you'll experience many states of mind. I woke up in Hell that day in the hospital. Soon I realized I had gone to Hell, so I started to read the Bible and found a way out of Hell. I wouldn't call where I am now Heaven, but it's not what I was in before.

Answer 4

You mention god once because you have no one else to blame. You have not learned the great lesson of life, "Whatever happens to you is a result of a decision you have made". People can give you choices but you have the ultimate decision on which choice to make. Enjoy the life you have chosen or change for a better one. Have to be honest, really didn't believe a work of it.



Aye Captain, There be troll sign on the horizon.

Answer 5

Because God does not take part in the action of any man good or bad .Bad people take advantage of it in this life and they get their reward for their Karma thereafter .Good people might duffer now ; but they would enjoy at the end .

It is like people working hard in the fields enjoying a good harvest at the end and those who idle away their time in the beginning starving and begging at the end for food.

No one looses the effect of Karma

Answer 6

I feel you I hated god I blamed him or her for everything but I learned he or her can do good things for you but you have to help he or her I am not saying bad things won't happen I'm not blind I know bad things happen but you will have good things happen to if you stop putting yourself down and try to be happy I know this sounds impossible I felt the same way not too long ago

Answer 7

God is not to blame for your life. You are using the past to build a future and it won't work.



Stop feeling sorry for yourself, join a church singles group, make some friends and stop making bad choices.



Your life is God's gift to you, what you do with your life is your gift to God.

Answer 8

The people that love God the most suffer the most. However you are not a Good person only Jesus is good.

Answer 9

Blame satan and his demons and lies in the lives of your family members my friend.



Now you know the truth, what are you going to to?



Now is the time to get Truth from God and reverse and cancels all the lies in your family and all the false evil traditions they have thought and passed to you.



Be free by asking God to help you change your future and forget your past.



Jesus will come into your room and fill you with his life and love and give you direction to change others, your future and your family.





Love - your bro



I met God and yes he is Jesus!

Answer 10

Make an effort to be less introverted and talk to more people. You'll feel better, trust me.

Answer 11

Because we're all being tested. Like gold in the fire, to skim off the dross.

Answer 12

I must be a pretty rotten person, cause my life is great!

Answer 13

tlDr.