Seriously, is this freedom?

Question

The same people who say I shouldn’t impose my morality on them, are imposing immorality on me and my children to the point that I literally have a hard time even leaving my home anymore to do something as simple as visit the park.

And this is freedom?

I am a Catholic stay-at-home mother of seven, and I live in the state of Massachusetts where “gay marriage” has been legal for seven years and it’s just one aspect of the larger secular agenda. Because we have so many little children, it takes a phenomenal effort to go anywhere. We have only filled our truck with gasoline twice this entire summer vacation. We go to Mass and we go two miles up the road to a small outdoor swimming pool. That’s pretty much it.

At the pool this summer there were homosexual couples with children and, while I was polite as my own young daughters doted on the baby with two “mommies”, I also held my breath in anticipation of awkward questions – questions I’m not ready to answer. My young daughters are all under the age of eight and they are not old enough to understand why a baby would have two women calling themselves “mommies”.

When there were two men relaxing at the side of the pool unnaturally close to each other, effeminately rubbing elbows and exchanging doe-eyes, I was again anxiously watching my children hoping they wouldn’t ask questions. They don’t see Daddy do that with anyone but Mommy. We haven’t been back to the pool for a couple of weeks, except once but it rained. The truth is, now I don’t really want to go back.

So what am I harping about?

Today we decided to go to the park. We live near a nice park that is safe, clean and quiet. Two of my daughters were in the sandbox, one on the slide, the other on the swings, and as I lifted the baby out of his stroller I looked up to see four women laughing at a baby boy as he was swinging in one of those bucket baby swings. That seems harmless enough, but I’m so sensitized to the strangeness in my community that I’ve developed this ever-present jumpiness whenever I’m in public. Sure enough, two of the women, so happy to see a baby boy laughing, embraced and remained standing there rubbing each other’s back in a way that was clearly not just friendly affection.

This is my community. I find myself unable to even leave the house anymore without worrying about what in tarnation we are going to encounter. We are responsible citizens. We live by the rules, we pay our taxes, we take care of our things. I’m supposed to be able to influence what goes on in my community, and as a voter I do exercise that right. But I’m outnumbered. I can’t even go to normal places without having to sit silently and tolerate immorality. We all know what would happen if I asked two men or two women to stop displaying, right in front of me and my children, that they live in sodomy.

So now I go on a rant.

Our taxes are being used to fund contraception, abortion and IVF already. That offends me in ways that are inexpressible. I read last December in the Wall Street Journal how two men near us are raising two assembled daughters after announcing to the world how they killed two other siblings in surrogate mothers in India. Let me guess? I shouldn’t offend them though, right? And what’s next at the park? A needle exchange drop-box for heroin users? No joke. These things are not isolated, it is all the same issue at a fundamental level. We’re being pushed to accept immorality and it’s not just on TV and in Washington D.C. It’s right in front of us too.

We fund a lot of illegal immigrants here (just ask the President about his auntie) and helping people who really need help is not something I’d ever oppose. But it’s still haunting me that just this week I learned of an illegal immigrant who killed a young man innocently out for a ride on his motorcycle. The illegal immigrant, who didn’t have a license, was so drunk he didn’t notice when he hit a motorcyclist and then dragged the 23 year old college graduate a quarter of a mile while people were yelling at him to stop. When he finally did stop, the young man was still alive until the drunk driver put the car in reverse and backed up over him before driving away. He’s charged with vehicular homicide and “reckless conduct creating a risk to a child.” He had a six year old in the car with him.

Do you think knowing this happened about seven miles from my home makes me afraid to leave the house? You bet it does. But that just adds to everything else I’m being asked to tolerate. Seriously, is this freedom?

Answer 1

I bet you there are plenty of other people in your neighborhood who have seen or heard about all the same things you have, but their perception of it is completely different. all of the things you've said here are insensitive. When your children ask about those two women, tell them they are in love. You compared a man loving another man to heroin? I hope you don't expect to get a single sympathetic response to the little pity party you just hosted. You sound ignorant. And I feel sorry for your children. People like you need to take themselves out of the gene pool. No wonder America is going to the dogs. And you know what? With people like you in it, i'm tempted to let it

Answer 2

One of the issues with a loose and open society is that regularly matters will occur that make us uncomfortable however approximately which we will do not anything. You appear to be angry through particularly moderate affectionate touching among identical-intercourse couples. The hindrance is that there is not anything unsuitable with it, and absolutely not anything unlawful. Personally, I have a hindrance with couples of any persuasion making out in public, but if I come upon it I both stroll away or seem someplace else. The undeniable fact that it makes me uncomfortable is inadequate reason to make it unlawful. I'm afraid you are within the identical boat. Here's the deal: I suspect any questions you get out of your kids will likely be particularly since you're so brazenly uncomfortable with it. If you do not react to it, I doubt they're going to even realize. The international is a unusual situation to such a lot babies, as you without a doubt understand. Even within the "what's?" degree wherein they query the whole lot, there are nonetheless a quantity of mystifying stories that kids under no circumstances ask approximately. Still,. it is feasible that the questions will come up. I consider you that a dialogue of individuals's intercourse lives is wildly beside the point for infants and babies. You could desire to don't forget a few time-honored solutions, e.g. "they are very well peers" or "possibly they are comparable" - solutions which, at the same time precise, bring not one of the know-how you do not desire your kids to have entry to. Ultimately, it is your resolution whether or not or to not cross to areas wherein matters like that can be obvious. The hindrance, as you are finding, is that those matters are taking place with growing frequency in every single place the situation. That's individuals workout their authorized rights. And sure, I could say that is freedom. Freedom approach you will have rights. It does no longer imply you'll avoid someone else's rights. You have, as you indicated, the capability to have an impact on what occurs to your neighborhood, and it seems that you endeavor that, for which I applaud you. Apparently, even though, your friends disagree with you approximately what will have to be allowed in public. That's democracy,, and sure, that is an element of freedom as good. About all you'll do is admire that others have rights, too.

Answer 3

You live in New Sodom East. Move out. The Supreme Court gave the decision to the states. Find one that is not likely to pass is for a while. Probably one in the Bible Belt. How long will it last, I cannot tell you. But at least you can live more at ease and avoid the children being influenced.

Answer 4

Yes, its freedom. If you want to live in a theocracy where religion and "purity" are imposed on people by force may I suggest Iran or Saudi Arabia.





Really, did not not get enough response to this on your blog? Are you now trolling here so you can again whine about how you're being "persecuted" by mean old gays and atheists because they won't tolerate your intolerance?

Answer 5

secular agenda? You mean what's in the constitution. To think people like you are having kids and passing along your bigotry. You sound like a piece of work. Hopefully your kids grow up to be more open minded then you are.