Why is church no longer a good place to meet nice Christian men?

Question

As a single Christian girl in my early twenties, everyone tells me I should be meeting nice Christian men at church. However, after attending church after church for many years, nothing. Any suggestions? And why are women who go to churches to meet men made fun of? (I have heard enough "funny" stories of those aggressive churchgoing chicks to last me a lifetime)

Answer 1

First of all the bible says that a man that findeth a wife finds a good thing and findeth favor with the Lord. And second of all every man in church is not saved

Answer 2

Who says it isn't a good place to meet men. I think it's a great place to meet men who share the same values and faith as you do. As a matter of fact, to me a person faith background is one of the most significant factors in choosing a mate.

Get yourself into a good bible based church, especially one that has a singles group. Those are usually your larger Church's like Lakewood Church. Don't give up, but also don't try to hard. You just keep suiting up and showing up! God Bless you!

Answer 3

I go to church to learn God's will for my life; sometimes I teach. But I have yet to find a good Christian woman. The girls in my church are too young, too old, or married.

Answer 4

Ask the Lord in Prayer to send you the man He has chosen for you ! Pray for the wisdom to know when the one the Lord has made available for you is there for you !! You go to Church to bring Honor and Glory to God , to worship Him in truth and faith , any other reason ; you are going to church for the wrong reasons`. ( Ephesians 5 : 33 .. Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself ; and the wife see that she reverence her husband ) * This is the type of husband you should be looking for , A believer !! God Bless with answered Prayer !!

Answer 5

Church (any church) is not a date service. Use your interests (including religion) and hobbies to find somebody compatible with you.



God puts chances on your life and it's for you to take them or not. But please not listen to "When the time is right, God will give you the right man" argument. Under that vision, you should be on your home doing nothing, eventually God would send you everything you need without any action of your part.



Life is to live it. Go outside and give it a shot.

Answer 6

I met my wife at church and we now have a little girl. you need to meet the types of men that you like and who will like you. if you don't like religious men then don't look for men at church.

Answer 7

Expecting to find "a good man" in a place that recruits and sustains its membership through the attendance of self-described "sinners" is like expecting to catch fish in a dry lake.



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Answer 8

It could prove difficult. Ive got a mate in Scotland,and strangely enough we were talking about this site earlier. He was saying that most people of our age don't go to church anymore in Scotland, as in England. Most are middle aged or pensioners.

Answer 9

Maybe you're looking too hard. Find a church you like based on it's religious activities.

Answer 10

I think people see as that's the only reason they're there. My advise: Don't look for a man. When the time is right God will send the right one to you

Answer 11

Join the Mormon church. Plenty of nice, single, and ready guys there.

Answer 12

Try other churches. Maybe yours appeals to an older crowd or something.



Either that or it is you. Maybe you're annoying or something.

Answer 13

try going to learn about God & HIs ways for once, then He might bless you with a man.

Answer 14

WE DONT LIKE CHURCH